christ, good luck with op!
mike
could you pm me some locations u recomend, i think i know most anyway but it would be nice to get some inside info ;)
mike x
ah yes but are many genuine?? (not implying you are not) there hasnt been a flood of bournemouth doggers replying has there!! :welcome:
x
bournemouth has quite a few known dogging sites, maybe cause i tend to go out alone i do find its pretty unsociable for a single guy. im a little shy at first and dont think its right to box the doggers car in after racing down cause a fellow (clicky male dogger) has notified me there is a couple on the horizon and then surrounded theyre car before theyve even turned the engine off. I find my car gets circled and people stare though the windows (and im a guy on my own!!) christ knows how you gals and couples feel!
Some of the more quiet locations are probably better suited to a new comer if you have time on ur hands, personaly ive come to the conclusion arranged meets in non dogging locations are best and the quantity of genuine couple doggers in our area is alot less than anyone would like.
mike
A single 27 yr old attractive guy struggling to understand. (All advice appreciated)
if u didnt mind yer bird takin the large loads then whats to be carefull of, obviously what floats ur boat or ud have stopped it... :bs:
ok so i do not have my lights on full but i do seem to be blinder than the average dogger and cannot get down the offroad course that is our local dogging hole without some illumination.. sorry guys!! nearly took my exhaust off on a pothole last month.
Any suggestions or tips on how to see in dark, im sick of carrots on my dinner plate!!
mike ;)
well ive just spent 3 hours nearly at matchams and im still none the wiser!! i drove in with lights dipped, i parked a little away so as not to block anyones view then waited for a sign.. flashin light or somet..
then all sorts of cars rushed in headlights on full parked in between me and the couple and just got out and seemed to chat, then after some same car comin and going for an hour or so they all left!!! hmmm. so if any of u guys or anyone there tonight can help where im going wrong please do. im gonna give it another go tommorrow still
mike!!
in some peoples defense its not always possible to show guys, i admit there is alot of time wasting but sometimes life just gets in the way. ive been waiting to meet a young local couple for about 2 months now and between all our work comitments it just hasnt happened.. and as for the driving round carparks, maybe you should htink back to when you first went dogging, did you get it right 1st time?? o rknow exactly what to do?? probably not!! oh and i apoligise to the people at matchams for leaving my lights on but last time i drove in i got stuck in a hole so now im sorry but i leave my sidelights on to see somet.
I know! Until around a month ago before the recent police and press activity, we regularly used to get guys from Southampton travelling to Bournemouth to dog with us :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
hi guys
sorry if ive had my head in a cloud but what press???
ta mike
hi guys
trying to arrange a meet in a dogging location in hants/dorset around 9pm in an attempt to get my girlfriend out for 1st time, would like to hear from couples and singles who want more info so i can try and moderate the ratio a bit
mike
i think thats a real shame that doggers can be that way... ive always found a certain country park a real threat and unwelcome feeling now i go dogging without a girl... i tend to try and stick to the lesser known and forest carpark locations with some little success.. why not find a new carpark and make it ur own... promote it to the right people etc and get regulars of people u feel suit it only..??
happy hunting
mike x
xxxxxx is main place in pompey but has a big gay area too.. if you fancy travelling west try xxxxxxx (listed on here) down a31 to bournemouth in evenings or for daytime early evening fun tryxxxxxxxxxxxx (quite new and has some gays too) i can give you directions to either if its not too far.
3 Sites - must be a record! I take it you have read the AUP about posting locations? If not, do it, because next time you will be banned!
plenty of places around but do seem to be majority of old guys.. i can tell u of some sites or possibly a couple that may be interested (im a single guy me).. let me know..
ps fort nelson sucks
single 26yr old slim guy looking for daytime fun with couples maybe singles.. in hants dorset area, this week. mail me if you want to meet at a usual haunt or somewhere less populated
new to this so ideally just looking for watchin fun possibly more if everyone feels right
where is shirley hills guys??
i think the first carpark is supposed to be straight and he second gay but i had a look last nite and wasnt impressed.
avon valley country park is a similar setup also, i think most doggin locations were gay originally. you could try verely hill listed on this site but its not overly hidden, or try somewhere new then post it on here. There is a good carpark in the forest that i believe used to be a gay haunt but is very secluded and you can see everyone coming for miles, used to take my girlfriends there illpm it to you
mike
hi all
j26 yr old bi curious single guy looking for 1st ime dogging fun with couples and possibly singles. discretion and patience appreciated. Not sure if i will wanna join in yet
mike
how to tell whos in the carpark and, if theyre just another single guy or a couple.. if its a gay cruising area, is it just likely to be gay guys or couples aswell?? how do you know? good places to go, dogging tips etc... anything to help really
ta mike
hi all
been to my local dogging site abou five times now, problem is it used to be very active for gays and i find it hard to tell whos who. i sat in the dark for what seemed an eternity tonite. anyone got any tips??
mike