Thanks for your opinion mike, and as you pointed out, we all have the right to have one.
My analogy of the habits of single guys on this site wasn’t directed at them as a whole (I am one!) but rather at the small proportion of them that do (and there can be no doubt or argument here) sit hunched over their PCs whacking away over photos gained by lies and abuse of the faith and trust of the people on this site.
It wasn’t an attack at people who live alone, I’ve done so myself many times over the years nor one on people who use their PCs a lot, guilty again.
As your response was the only negative one I received I ask you to read through my original post again and maybe my point will be clearer as it was not my intention to offend anyone and I would hate to think that I have.
Mils x
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I’d like some thoughts/advice/opinions from you good people especially the single guys because it is more relevant to them.
I’ve been playing, off and on for about 6 years. I can’t remember why and how I strayed from the ‘normal’ sex life path. My sex drive is not practically high, I’m not a dog with 2 dicks, I have never had problems attracting women, yet this way of life, if I’m honest, has become somewhat of an obsession.
Sex with a partner, although enjoyable, rapidly becomes unfulfilling and I find myself needing that extra thrill of being with a couple or a group. It’s not a moral dilemma, I don’t think this lifestyle is wrong and pretty much all the people I have met over the years have been fantastic, open-minded, intelligent people with levels of liberation I envy. It’s just that at 36 I know that I’ve pretty much screwed my chances of giving someone what I want from a partner: trust, loyalty and honesty. When a partner asks me (hypothetically) what sexual fantasies I would like to act out, I have to wrack my brains! Is it healthy to have practically lived them all out?
When I look through this site and see the (oh so obvious) ads from single guys pretending to be couples/females for whatever reason, pictures, w**k material whatever kick their on, It congers up a vision of some sad social retard sitting in a bed sit hunched over his PC whacking away and I think shit! That could be me one day! I don’t think I will end up as one of those unsavoury characters, but I bet they didn’t either.
I’m waffling on a bit now and I’m still not sure what I really want advice on! I know I don’t need justification for my lifestyle and I’m not after salvation It’s just that it’s not the sort of thing that I can talk over in a pub with my everyday friends.
Although I’ve never joined in with any of the chats on this forum I have observed them and have come to the conclusion that the majority of users seam to be switched on, intelligent folks who’s opinions I would respect.
If you made it to the end of this message, thanks and any constructive advice/thoughts would be appreciated. I’m working nights for a few days now so PM me and I’ll read them soon as I can.
Take care
Mils x
I’d like some thoughts/advice/opinions from you good people especially the single guys because it is more relevant to them.
I’ve been playing, off and on for about 6 years. I can’t remember why and how I strayed from the ‘normal’ sex life path. My sex drive is not practically high, I’m not a dog with 2 dicks, I have never had problems attracting women, yet this way of life, if I’m honest, has become somewhat of an obsession.
Sex with a partner, although enjoyable, rapidly becomes unfulfilling and I find myself needing that extra thrill of being with a couple or a group. It’s not a moral dilemma, I don’t think this lifestyle is wrong and pretty much all the people I have met over the years have been fantastic, open-minded, intelligent people with levels of liberation I envy. It’s just that at 36 I know that I’ve pretty much screwed my chances of giving someone what I want from a partner: trust, loyalty and honesty. When a partner asks me (hypothetically) what sexual fantasies I would like to act out, I have to wrack my brains! Is it healthy to have practically lived them all out?
When I look through this site and see the (oh so obvious) ads from single guys pretending to be couples/females for whatever reason, pictures, w**k material whatever kick their on, It congers up a vision of some sad social retard sitting in a bed sit hunched over his PC whacking away and I think shit! That could be me one day! I don’t think I will end up as one of those unsavoury characters, but I bet they didn’t either.
I’m waffling on a bit now and I’m still not sure what I really want advice on! I know I don’t need justification for my lifestyle and I’m not after salvation It’s just that it’s not the sort of thing that I can talk over in a pub with my everyday friends.
Although I’ve never joined in with any of the chats on this forum I have observed them and have come to the conclusion that the majority of users seam to be switched on, intelligent folks who’s opinions I would respect.
If you made it to the end of this message, thanks and any constructive advice/thoughts would be appreciated. I’m working nights for a few days now so PM me and I’ll read them soon as I can.
Take care
Mils x
