Hi,
Thankyou for the advice, I did join up many years ago but nothing came of it, so am back now to see if I can have more luck.
I am really looking for help from anyone to tell me about what it is like, and how best to meet people and how to be safe.
I would of course also like help in finding someone to break me in, so I can experience it and see if it is for me, and to do it safely and with understanding.
mj