not posted on here for a long time. Female half here. I'm out with my guy tomorrow night around Nottinghamshire. Bit fed up of going to Blidworth all the time. Anyone know of any good places around where no cops turn up and no boy racers. Genuine doggers here who are up for fun with people who are clean, as in you wash and shave. Can put words together to form a sentence lol. When asked what floats your boat sexually, you don't lie and say what you think we want to hear.
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morgan1969
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
Straight Male, 55
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Hi all...
Can you put us down pls.
We no a few on list if you need verification...
Cheers
Can you put us down pls.
We no a few on list if you need verification...
Cheers
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hi thanks for add as mentioned before can you add play4aday couple please
they are traveling up with us.
see you soon x
they are traveling up with us.
see you soon x
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Hey up you too and them two lol
can you put us two down also another two dale and laura not sure of there profile name on here as yet.
Cheers and see you soon
x x x
can you put us two down also another two dale and laura not sure of there profile name on here as yet.
Cheers and see you soon
x x x
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I used to love xtasia - I'm in Yorkshire but have been going to chameleons for years on the Friday night, a group of us always went to xtasia on the sat night generally the sdc nite for a change - xtasia was more dancy nightclub vibe chams isn't. It would take a great deal for me to step foot in the place now, my guy and the rest of the group all think the same. This is why: when they shut the showers I was disgusted and asked if this was permanent, I like to clean after sex with my own man never mind another swinger and i said this to the owner at the time, their response was - use a wet wipe and the tone of voice was like, tough showers are shut end of. The loft - hot, it stunk rotten, cramped and how any woman can have sex up there and not faint from heat stoke is beyond me and you were never allowed to take a drink up there. My opinion - worst playing rooms ever. No lockable rooms. You can't get 5 mins private time to lay and chillax with your own man or friends without getting hounded and I can handle myself well (been round most clubs in the uk as a single fem for 10 years and 5 years as a couple. So I am not easily intimated so if I do feel intimated it's not good and you can kinda tell the other women there at the time feel the same. No means no and to me that rule in xtasia went out of the window a long time ago and to me that is the biggest problem because it's woman who decide not men, no women no club.
The dj was never at his stand it was the same songs every time in the same order practically and many many times never knew or had the number one single in the charts at the time. When the dance floor eventually got some people up dancing and the vibe going, he would put a slow song on put the curtain down and empty a full dance floor, I mean wtf is that all about.
No lockers - we had to pay £25 deposit to use a locker, for us it would cost £60 hotel, £30 fuel, £15-20 entrance, so one week it was buy drinks or get a locker. We were regulars the club knew this and would not give a locker one week we couldn't afford it.
These are my feelings on xtasia and what i tell people when I get asked my opinion because its the truth. The best club I've been to in my opinion is without doubt fun 4 two in Amsterdam, there is nothing like it in the uk and I think every owner of uk clubs should go there then you may see what I mean. This post is not meant to offend anyone. I found not many really voice their true thoughts in fear of upsetting anyone. How can anything improve without that. I say what I really think and I am either loved or hated for it.
The dj was never at his stand it was the same songs every time in the same order practically and many many times never knew or had the number one single in the charts at the time. When the dance floor eventually got some people up dancing and the vibe going, he would put a slow song on put the curtain down and empty a full dance floor, I mean wtf is that all about.
No lockers - we had to pay £25 deposit to use a locker, for us it would cost £60 hotel, £30 fuel, £15-20 entrance, so one week it was buy drinks or get a locker. We were regulars the club knew this and would not give a locker one week we couldn't afford it.
These are my feelings on xtasia and what i tell people when I get asked my opinion because its the truth. The best club I've been to in my opinion is without doubt fun 4 two in Amsterdam, there is nothing like it in the uk and I think every owner of uk clubs should go there then you may see what I mean. This post is not meant to offend anyone. I found not many really voice their true thoughts in fear of upsetting anyone. How can anything improve without that. I say what I really think and I am either loved or hated for it.
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we dog each other,also goto the known spots and sus them all out and take it from there.
Shame the little boy racers are scaring the couples away whats up with the single guys ,they moan about no couples but dont sort the idiots out?
weve still met some great characters and had some real fun times.
Good luck and have fun.....
Shame the little boy racers are scaring the couples away whats up with the single guys ,they moan about no couples but dont sort the idiots out?
weve still met some great characters and had some real fun times.
Good luck and have fun.....
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Thanks to Naughty Wigan Couple for hosting a wicked munch we both enjoyed it again and defiantly worth the trip from Sheffield .
Also great to see philstarr and his sexy missis and thanks to them for making the night fun and for doing another great disco.
All the best
Us
X
Also great to see philstarr and his sexy missis and thanks to them for making the night fun and for doing another great disco.
All the best
Us
X
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asking a straight question - which again isnt being answered isnt being aggressive.
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Who listed this event on this forum: Trixie, therefore under SH Rules, NOT mine Trixie is the organiser of the social.
In response to this comment "Having read the past messages and their contents.. I would not be happy for persons writing them to attend and spoil everyone funs"
Gorgeously: seen as you have took it upon yourself to get involved without knowing past history first hand I will inform you of some facts: the police were involved but this was my business no-one elses and personal - as a woman you should understand this. A few facts about me, you dont know me and to my knowledge have never spoken or met me, I've been swinging over 13 years so you are in no position to judge whether I embrace swinging or not. We will bump into each other at sometime so I can have a chat to you about your issues with me and what you have based this opinion on. Face to face so much better than from behind a keyboard. I have a profile on another site with many writen verifications - (most attending this social are on same site too) from people who know me/us very very well email me if u want the profile name. SH doesnt doesnt have this facility at present.
You havent been on the site long and i notice you too like your socials, so:
If you attended a social as a single female on your own and well known banned member who had stalked you for over 9 years around the scene circuit was allowed in by the organiser (cocksnoggers who were welcomed into the yorks room with friendliness helped out by myself and playinglady by taking them to their first social 3 years ago and introducing to our friends) didnt provide details to all the people on the list that a banned member was coming - which is against SH rules, backed you into a corner smashed a glass and put it up to your face then threatened to kill follow you home told you where you lived but he was then supported by the male organiser until other members of the social backed me up upon discovering who he was, what would you think? Do your homework.
Also seeing as you have been to several socials yourself and I assume know quite a few people, if you were to put your name down knowing lots of your friends will be attending and not the organiser of the social but someone in the background was trying to stop you attending for their own personal agenga would you just not go? or would you stick up for yourself and not be bullied?
Trixies wording: "and i will be looking at SHREP and those with positive feedback of turning up will be given priority"
If shrep existed when we first joined this site: then playingladys shrep would far exceed most attending. Again view her forum posts to see and ask about its a small world.
All i am asking is for is genuine reasons why playinglady is being cheated out of a place on the main list - and this is being constantly ignored. Socials are open to every member of this site, and non members. I am not a trouble causer neither is playinglady but she is being treated unfairly.
Playing lady has attended every munch social and private meet she has ever put her name to. As i said early her forum posts speak volumes.
Cocksnogger - you didnt post the event (i.e. meaning you are not the organiser) therefore you dont run the list. AGAIN - SH rules maybe you should read them!Trixie should have her own valid reasons why she wont put playinglady on the list, and all i did was ask the organiser why? and this is being avoided. So if im not right then why avoid it? Why be added to the reserve then not be allowed to come??? That shows these actions are not within the spirit of the event - this is rule breaking.
I will always attend socials and munches, always have always will. As a long standing well know member just like to clarify as i said in a previous post which I should not have to explain in the first place, all we want to do is see old friends.
In response to this comment "Having read the past messages and their contents.. I would not be happy for persons writing them to attend and spoil everyone funs"
Gorgeously: seen as you have took it upon yourself to get involved without knowing past history first hand I will inform you of some facts: the police were involved but this was my business no-one elses and personal - as a woman you should understand this. A few facts about me, you dont know me and to my knowledge have never spoken or met me, I've been swinging over 13 years so you are in no position to judge whether I embrace swinging or not. We will bump into each other at sometime so I can have a chat to you about your issues with me and what you have based this opinion on. Face to face so much better than from behind a keyboard. I have a profile on another site with many writen verifications - (most attending this social are on same site too) from people who know me/us very very well email me if u want the profile name. SH doesnt doesnt have this facility at present.
You havent been on the site long and i notice you too like your socials, so:
If you attended a social as a single female on your own and well known banned member who had stalked you for over 9 years around the scene circuit was allowed in by the organiser (cocksnoggers who were welcomed into the yorks room with friendliness helped out by myself and playinglady by taking them to their first social 3 years ago and introducing to our friends) didnt provide details to all the people on the list that a banned member was coming - which is against SH rules, backed you into a corner smashed a glass and put it up to your face then threatened to kill follow you home told you where you lived but he was then supported by the male organiser until other members of the social backed me up upon discovering who he was, what would you think? Do your homework.
Also seeing as you have been to several socials yourself and I assume know quite a few people, if you were to put your name down knowing lots of your friends will be attending and not the organiser of the social but someone in the background was trying to stop you attending for their own personal agenga would you just not go? or would you stick up for yourself and not be bullied?
Trixies wording: "and i will be looking at SHREP and those with positive feedback of turning up will be given priority"
If shrep existed when we first joined this site: then playingladys shrep would far exceed most attending. Again view her forum posts to see and ask about its a small world.
All i am asking is for is genuine reasons why playinglady is being cheated out of a place on the main list - and this is being constantly ignored. Socials are open to every member of this site, and non members. I am not a trouble causer neither is playinglady but she is being treated unfairly.
Playing lady has attended every munch social and private meet she has ever put her name to. As i said early her forum posts speak volumes.
Cocksnogger - you didnt post the event (i.e. meaning you are not the organiser) therefore you dont run the list. AGAIN - SH rules maybe you should read them!Trixie should have her own valid reasons why she wont put playinglady on the list, and all i did was ask the organiser why? and this is being avoided. So if im not right then why avoid it? Why be added to the reserve then not be allowed to come??? That shows these actions are not within the spirit of the event - this is rule breaking.
I will always attend socials and munches, always have always will. As a long standing well know member just like to clarify as i said in a previous post which I should not have to explain in the first place, all we want to do is see old friends.
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Rules: The event is the responsibility of the organiser, The organiser is Trixie so it's down to trixie who goes on that list not cocksnoggers. Putting trixie in this position is unfair. The list of names is down to the organiser. So i am asking the organiser to correct the reserve list be fair, in the spirit of the event, make your own mind up and if she isnt added to the list then valid reasons as to why not posted in this forum so everyone else including admin can see for themselves. There is nothing wrong with me asking questions as to why playinglady cannot attend. If you look at playingladys profile page scrawl down to the bottom and view all her forum post - there is her shrep in our opinion, in fact it's better than shrep it contains detailed information. So I'm suggesting you view this.
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So playinglady has been singled out because she was the one threatened therefore she is not being added to the main list because your personal opinions are getting in the way. Using trixie to organise and piping up in the background saying they can come they can't come etc is out of line and definitely not in the spirit of the event that's a social and not a private party. If u want to pick and choose cheat the reserve list have a private party.
When I was single BEFORE the rules were changed allowing a well known banned member - (who admin were very well aware) and not informing the rest of the people on the social list at that time which was against the rules, then that person at the social smashing a glass pinning me in a corner threatening to slash my throat follow me home kill me me and then the hosts - you at the time defending him leaving me to deal with him. majority of people attending the social having to speak up before you would even remove him from the venue.
So the actions I'm taking about - see above. Personal dislikes and opinions are far from the spirit of the event. Even the organiser doesn't want to be involved with your picking and choosing I'll copy and paste the email to verify.
When I was single BEFORE the rules were changed allowing a well known banned member - (who admin were very well aware) and not informing the rest of the people on the social list at that time which was against the rules, then that person at the social smashing a glass pinning me in a corner threatening to slash my throat follow me home kill me me and then the hosts - you at the time defending him leaving me to deal with him. majority of people attending the social having to speak up before you would even remove him from the venue.
So the actions I'm taking about - see above. Personal dislikes and opinions are far from the spirit of the event. Even the organiser doesn't want to be involved with your picking and choosing I'll copy and paste the email to verify.
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The male half of a couple after being homophobic threatening a single female rearing up to her face - and it being witnessed!!!
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Rules for socials....(SH Munch and Social Guidelines)
Only people who have been accepted can attend the event.
It should be a non pro?t and non commercial event.
The event is the responsibility of the ORGANISER and a list of attendees is to be made
available if requested.
If you know that banned members are attending you should provide site members
with the details as soon as possible.
No products, services, or promotion of any kind can take place
Anyone who breaks the above rules or who's conduct does not act in the “SPIRIT” of the
event could be BLACKLISTED from attending further events, or BANNED from using the site.
We believe there are actions taking place that are far from the "SPIRIT" of the event.
last post now cos im fed up lol
Only people who have been accepted can attend the event.
It should be a non pro?t and non commercial event.
The event is the responsibility of the ORGANISER and a list of attendees is to be made
available if requested.
If you know that banned members are attending you should provide site members
with the details as soon as possible.
No products, services, or promotion of any kind can take place
Anyone who breaks the above rules or who's conduct does not act in the “SPIRIT” of the
event could be BLACKLISTED from attending further events, or BANNED from using the site.
We believe there are actions taking place that are far from the "SPIRIT" of the event.
last post now cos im fed up lol
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Who can attend a munch or social event?
Anyone can register to attend a munch providing they are an active member of the site and have not been banned, however they need to be accepted by the organiser.(FOR A MUNCH)
SOCIAL EVENTS are DIFFERENT in that they are generally not speci?cally organised by site members just for site users, so you need to be aware that non members or banned members might be in attendance.
Above quote from SH Munch an Social guidelines.........
playinglady............isnt banned and she is a member with long standing good history so will therefore be attending this social along with us.
Interesting point to make mind is where does shrep come into play with non members and banned members cos as far as i see it, it doesnt.
Anyone can register to attend a munch providing they are an active member of the site and have not been banned, however they need to be accepted by the organiser.(FOR A MUNCH)
SOCIAL EVENTS are DIFFERENT in that they are generally not speci?cally organised by site members just for site users, so you need to be aware that non members or banned members might be in attendance.
Above quote from SH Munch an Social guidelines.........
playinglady............isnt banned and she is a member with long standing good history so will therefore be attending this social along with us.
Interesting point to make mind is where does shrep come into play with non members and banned members cos as far as i see it, it doesnt.
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After receiving pm from trixie and informing me that this social is being jointly run by cocksnoggers who behind the scenes are doing the picking and choosing who attends and who doesn't. I would like to know valid reasons why playinglady (aka kat) who they know very well as a genuine single bi fem who actually meets, attends socials regular, does swing and has ran numerous Doncaster socials and has been on this site since the beginning - who many could/should vouch for from this thread can't get on the main list for this Yorkshire social? People after me requesting her a place have made the list 1st. Or do I post my reasons why I believe she has been singled out? As for shrep this is recent and didn't exist over 5 years ago so it's misleading to use this alone.
Can anyone do me a favour and vouch for kat as genuine in this post?
Infact how many socials/munches/clubs have kat and myself been to lol? Cos I've lost count lol
Can anyone do me a favour and vouch for kat as genuine in this post?
Infact how many socials/munches/clubs have kat and myself been to lol? Cos I've lost count lol
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How come several people who added their names to the reserve list after my forum post requesting that playinglady be added to the list have got a place on the social yet playinglady is still on the reserve? And several have dropped out since too. For example: Redwine (sorry red not picking on you lol) added his name very late - even pointed out the lateness in his post well after my post requesting playinglady yet his name is now on the main list. Could you explain please or if this is a mistake then her name added. She is needing to book the night off work. I will drop a line to admin and ask them to look over the forum and the list incase I have made a mistake but having double checked my own question I'm pretty sure I'm not.
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Out and about in Nottinghamshire area so should be obvious where we are. Like being watched, appreciative vocal males we like. If u love eating out for dinner......... (for the not so intelligent ones - giving oral to the female) then that maybe a good start for any possible involvement. I am not for the faint hearted. I like men not boys - we have found all our interesting more memorable experiences with guys have been with the "dirty older men'" excuse the typecast but explains in plain English. So no young guys under 35. White British only. Where are all the lovely couples - we can be friendly social just cos we go out dogging some cpls get the wrong idea and think we gonna pounce - not true in our case. Dogging isn't a free for all like many believe you have a choice, I'm fem and selective. Would love to hear from fem half of cpl - do they exist and email? Any msgs that interest us and we get pics with idea of what u look like then details of car to follow. We like the fact of not knowing if anyone will be around, turn up etc, adds to the fun. If you plan you fail to plan - so true learnt hard way. We are adventurous, friendly, outgoing, entertaining, honest, good looking and not shy!!! So if your quiet, have no brain, dishonest and boring then sorry not for us!!!
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Yorks Room Chat. The original yorks room - remember server one peeps, before all that yorks swongers crap which destroyed in my opinion one of the best rooms on this site. So many long standing members have told me they miss that room, and this made me think so do i. So im on a mission to bring it back lol and then later on down the line the socials and munches how they used/should be. All the old chat members (you know who you are) Add yourself to this group to receive updates on dates and times. Waiting for bloody Kat to get back on-line again lol. looking forward to coming out to play. Yorks room re-united lol.
:happy::bounce:
:sparring:
Bring it on!!!
:happy::bounce:
:sparring:Bring it on!!!
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can you please add kat aka playinglady to list please. shes not online at mo but ive spoke to her and she wants her name down cos im coming lol.
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Quote by Trixie_D-Lish
Keen we know but so many socials going on we want to make sure peeps get this in your diaries Saturday 27th August....Trixies birthday few days earlier
- 1am
Theme to be confirmed (if we have one) but ideas welcome
The venue is near the Arena in Sheffield and we will have it to ourselves. The staff know we are swingers but please bear in mind this is a pub so no playing.....wait til afterwards at your hotels or the club Lechambre is not far away :)
There will be a disco courtesy of the music maestro Gothicduo
There is a limit of 150 people so make sure you get your name down and confirm nearer the time
There will be a minimal charge to cover costs which is likely to be PER PERSON but may need to update this (once checked new prices of room, dj etc as been a few years since we used this venue)
Any questions feel free to contact your hosts Cocksnoggers and Trixie_D-Lish
COUPLES
Newgirl09 & Derek_Kelp
jay_jay_1996
wickers
cumeetus
kerryandian
Hornyleedscpl
redstar91
vicnkaz
Funlovers_2010
SexySara & Lavenderlamb
bandscpl
Pjs1977
Ben_welshminx
tedog
Liamnsteve
Nottspair2008
Redlady_1
titz_tattz_azz
fumblingfingers
Hotstuff2009
Deejay12
jon_foxy
MissSaraSmiler & wana
Hector_n_Talula
sheffieldcpl1
xXMeridsXx
wittyclitty
easycome2003_1 (mrs)
mintlicks
SINGLES
I_am_joy
malkster
Perfume-Lover
Try2
midnight-lady
Optix
Bikerguy302000
bliss110
Mellowman1
Sheffy712
Glassgowwlassie
Bigpeterlg
earthchild
justforfun10
hotfun4you
jjhunt78
hi can you add us please
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confirming ill be there............not sure bout fancy dress yet tho lol. see u then xxx
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confirming we will be there, wont be all night but for a few hrs. please send details of venue ive not had them if they have been sent out. see u all then xxx
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its mrs philstars birthday party same night, its posted a couple above this. We have put our name on that list xx
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ooooo first on list....groovy lol. We will both definitely be there, their space room is our 2nd home lol xx 40ish pmsl xx
