Hi everyone. We have had a good swinging life for a few years. My wife has always been excited by me being with other women. Now she wants to watch me without being with the lady's guy. She can cum without being touched in such circumstances. I've told her that we'll never Find a single girl who wants fun with me with her present and possibly taking part, and that the chances of finding a couple where the guy is happy to take a back seat are slim, not least because she's very attractive. Any suggestions (or even better: offers)?
A bit late in replying but maybe this could help others....Les Chandelles can be great but it doesn't live up to it's reputation except where ridiculous entry screening is concerned. If you can afford it it's not a bad idea to eat there before moving into the club. We were turned away last time because of my shoes, black leather Prada with closure straps. I was wearing a dark grey suit and white shirt. It's just silly. No Comment club is better, and many like Overside. We've had good times at 2+2. Like anywhere, it can depend on the evening. We always go to couple only evenings. A lot of Parisians speak well of the Moon Sauna, if I've got the name right.
We've found that spur of the moment meets and well planned in advance meets both have their good points, the common denominator with both being, at least for us, making sure it happens with good people and in the right setting, so that we always feel good about it afterwards and live on the interest when we relive our experience on our own as a couple.
Personally I find the chat rooms full of 'hi hun how's u' one-liners and very little in the way of chat and even less in the way of erotic chat, which is a real pity.
Many thanks for the reply Toots. Unfortunately the Fetish scene is just about the only thing Mrs Mothy isn't into. She calls it the English Disease. Each to his own, obviously. Thanks again.
Hi we'll be in London around Christmas and we'd like to have a quality sexy evening, not necessarily ending up having sex. We're not thinking adult cinema or Rio's. Any ideas?
Hi, it's all a matter of taste of course. Our favourite is Glamour, the biggest and best run. For pre-clubbing we like Eros, which goes (in season) from empty to packed in around half an hour, so if it's dead when you get there try a bit later. A lot of people love oh God it's gone, memory's not what it was, it'll come back, begins with M... but we find it too brash. Melrose, that's it. Brits (older BRits) meet at Jonny Wokkers, a bit Blackpooly. There are clubs which don't charge entry, and if you look good others will let you in free too. Some are sleazier than others, but can be fun. Just wandering round dressed outrageously is great, so I hope the weather is warm enough for that. Remember, you can be really over the top and nobody minds. Have a great time.
Here's how it is for us:
Mrs Mothyd has to be either very excited or for some reason ready to cum unexpectedly in just a few seconds ,like in a swimming pool changing cubicle a couple of weeks ago. She first squirted in the hands of a French guy who insisted she trust him as he knew what he was doing. He basically put a lot of pressure on the front inside wall of her vagina, to the point where it was quite uncomfortable, but being polite she didn't complain. When she came she came a good glassful.
Since then we've repeated the experience together, but it's not usually pre-planned. If I can feel something like a walnut, I know she'll squirt, and this is where I put the pressure, all the time encouraging her to wet me. The movement certainly isn't a caress, it's more of a brutal jabbing. I think you'll see that if you watch videos where girls squirt.
It probably helps if your lady can have loads of orgasms, each one bigger than the last.
Hope this is of use!
We live near one and have a house one it (Lake Como). If you want info, especially on Garda, let us know!
Well I've used a couple, both described as for bikini lines or whatever, and less agressive than the one for shins or other areas presumably less sensitive. The last one I got was in a spray, but the nozzle clogs, and no amount of washing it under the tap will free it so I have to take the nozzle off and press the little stalk down with a finger nail which results in foam going all over the place including the bathroom wall but not including my soon-to-be-smooth bits. The good part is that it doesn't burn, and it doesn't smell, so if the kids come in there's none of that 'Dad what's That Smell?' business.
I use Veet hair remover, with care.... get it on fast and keep you eye on the clock. I leave it on for 6 mins and then dive into the shower, which I have running ready. If I leave it a bit too long I put some soothing cream on,and leave fun until the following day. It lasts far longer than shaving, and regrowth isn't so stubbly. I wrap a bit of cling film round my willy to prevent it from getting burnt by the cream, and I look ridiculous during the whole procedure.
I tried wax once, and my advice, unless you're into BDSM, is don't do it.
Three games I sometimes play on long drives are 'remember all the states in the USA', which all the family can play, 'remember all the countries I've visited', and 'remember all the girls...'. On a good day it's a close call between all three.
If it's a short drive I play 'put names to those girls faces'. Mind you, some date from when Gladys and Edith were popular...
I also play 'put names to all those lucky sods who've had Mrs Mothyd'. This is fun when played as a couple.
We've just received our album of Mrs Mothyd from Photobox, ex-Photoways, and it's plenty erotic. From here (Italy) we have to go through the French website, so maybe that explains how we could do it, if you go through a UK site. There's nothing porno in our album but there is full nudity and smooth pussy in clear view.
We've got pics of both of us in our profile, which only seems fair, bit can I take this a bit further.... we've met and played with a fair number of couples, some have become friends, some were one-offs, and generally speaking we've always found ourselves with the couple we fancied on any particular occasion. That said, whilst the ladies have always been wonderful, the men often leave Mrs Mothyd disappointed. Looks, performance, size, conceitedness, aggressiveness, whatever. Is it the same for others here?
One of my best memories is of going to a naturist afternoon in a club with a pool and garden. We got picked up by a lovely lady with a good-looking husband (a rare combination in our experience). When we got to the stage where limits came into question (we didn't go all the way at that time) I asked her what we should do. Her straight answer was 'you can fuck me or cum in my mouth'. That phrase has stayed branded on my frontal lobes ever since. Ten minutes later I tried to stand up only to find I'd lost control of my legs. Cumming in the lady's mouth is different.
Chatrooms that run like this:
xxxx: Hi zzzz howz u?
zzzz: I'm good hun tks,n u?
xxxx: good tks
yyyy: Hi xxxx hun
xxxx: hi hun
aaaa: vwe 28yo male available for c2c or phonechat
bbbb: ne1 in Scunthorpe?
etc.
From our point of view hardened swingers are either swingers who are so used to it that they no longer (if they ever did) get the incredible thrill which non-hardened swingers get, or they are swinging-addicted, clubbing every weekend etc. We've met couples who club Fri Sat and Sun. No criticism intended, but it's not our approach.
We've been to Cap several times and would strongly recommend it. We stay on the campsite as we've got a big camper, and this lets us enjoy the natural and naturist side of the place, and then we hit the concrete jungle which is where the fun is in the evenings. You could rent a good mobile home on the campsite (google Rene Oltra). Go for it, you won't regret it. Google Earth will let you see how it's laid out, The big circular buildings are the concrete jungle where the rented flates and a few small hotels are, and the campsite is the big green rectangular area next to them. All the rest is the 'normal' ie non-naturist Cap D'adge, just a big normal seaside resort.
My wife's first squirt happened in public at the hands (literally) of a good-looking French TV personality. She'd met him just 10 minutes previously, and the way he was touching her, quite roughly on the front wall of her vagina, differently from me, on the bit that feels like a soft walnut when it swells, was uncomfortable. Being a well-mannered lady she didn't complain too much and he told her to be patient and as he seemed in control, and was extremely sexy, she let him continue. After a few minutes she came, gushing all over the table, a good tumblerful. She had another at the end of the afternoon, just before we got off the boat we'd all been on. About 10 people were already standing at the guardrail waiting to get off and watched in amazement as my wife flooded the wooden table in front of them.
The most amazing time was when she came for about 30 seconds continuously, standing up, nude, gushing all over the place, without even being touched. She was watching me with another woman and I was telling her how much I was enjoying being unfaithful in her tight pussy. The power of the mind eh?
Both the episodes above happened at Cap.
She's come like this on several ocasions since, always with me, and it's a bit like anal for us, something we go for now and again when the vibes take us in that particular direction. She often knows beforehand if she's in the right mood and we organise more towels in advance.
The secret seems to be fast and fairly hard stimulation of that walnut bit which is presumably the mythical G-spot, allied to not stopping when she starts to come. The glands which permit squirting are called the Skeine glands, but it's hard to find a full explanation of the mechanism.
Take a look at the stories on the site and see how many of them have references to drink, such as 'by now she was well tipsy', 'we'd had a few too many', 'John was so out of it he didn't realise' etc etc. I skip those stories as if the action is alcohol induced or facilitated it loses any erotic value for me.
Living out of the UK and looking back it seems pretty clear that alcohol abuse not only widespread but also something no-one is ashamed of. I write this in full knowledge of the fact that years ago as a student I spent most weekends doing what wasn't then known as binge drinking.
I use Veet with excellent results, but I suggest...
Keep an eye on the clock, if you go over the time you'll burn!
Cool off well with cold water before application to keep your pores closed and reduce the risk of burning
Mask of your penis with cling film so the cream doesn't get on it and burn
Do the same on your inner thighs if you don't want to take hair off their
Shower afterwards )immediately) with cool water and no soap.
Don't use the spatula they give you to get the hair off; straight into the shower and use your fingers, otherwise time passes and you risk burning.
The results are better than shaving, no stubble, and no pain if you don't go over time. I wax my nipples and that's really painful, can't imagine doing my balls. Must go, customer here...
Mind you, it's a pain running through everyone else's requests to find answers to your own over in the other thread. Now lets see if I can find out what munch means...
Many thanks Kiss Me, yes I did but I didn't see it had been posted, being a beginner in the forum. Oops.
Hi. We're going to Cap d'Agde in August. We've seen loads of info about the clubs, but we would like to know more about the fun in the rest of the place, not least as we're looking for a rest as well as fun, so we prefer not to be out until the small hours every night. Can anyone who's been tell us if we can have fun on the beach, at least afterthe police have knocked off (between ourselves with watchers, with others involved, full sex, just touching etc) and in the bars? We've heard Melrose is good, but what can we get up to in there? Anybody been to the saunas?Last question, if my wife leaves the campsite wearing nothing more than a short completely transparent dress will she be over the top compared to most other women, or what?
Anyone who replies will get a full report when we come back!
All the Best,
Chris and Grace.
