Being in a loving relationship, we would enjoy getting together with other couples, single gals and the occasional single guy but so far, we have not been able to find a single gal or a fm couple interested in joining us and sharing mutual erotic fun together. Instead, we have a plethora of single guys all chomping at the bit. As a couple, we've not had  any experience with any of this. We're interested in beginning with a MFM 3sum and so, are  looking at the moment for a single guy. We would also love to hear from anyone a female or a fm couple who might be interested in getting together for erotic fun and friendship. We're concerned that every one is happy and satisfied and ideally fulfilled. We aren't into pain, S&M or B&D. Not kinky we're rather "vanilla" as newbies. We're willing to consider anything as long as mutual respect, sensitivity, patience are considered. We believe that giving IS receiving and the joy of seeing you pleasured, satisfied and happy is as important as our own pleasure. If we are all kind and unselfish, never arrogant then we will all be fulfilled and happily satisfied, content and pleased. The best and most important sexual organ is the brain. We are never pushy but confident in the knowledge that we enjoy fun and pleasure and orgasmic ecstasy with others. We also don't want to waste time with endless messages back and forth but prefer to speak on the phone and arrange to meet up and get together. We're very easy going and gentle with great respect for others. We do appreciate our lovers to be smooth downstairs as we are. Skin to skin is more sensual and erotic on many levels. We are quite particular in our choices of who will join us because we both hate and detest condoms. So, preferring not to use them requires some caution. We have had a lifetime of freedom from STD's and considering that to be important, avoid those in high risk groups. We prefer the closeness of flesh to flesh intimacy that barriers prevent. That should give you some idea of what we seek and desire. All best wishes to everyone!