I've been with my fiance for 10 years now, yes we should get married but that's another topic.
We obviously hit a time when sex was boring but after a holiday last year we started to liven things up.
We do many kinky things, not really worth mentioning here but trust me, it's not your average missionary.
Here's the thing. A couple of times I've pretended to be a stranger who has come to the house for whatever reason, fix the roof, whatever. I talk dirty to her and say things like, "We have to get it done quickly, when is your man home?" That kind of stuff.
Also, we watch porn together sometimes and I have sneakily put on group sex and threesomes without her batting an eyelid.
Now this leads me to believe that she has an open mind about being fucked by a) A stranger
and b) More than one guy. Preferable me and another guy who I don't feel threatened by, if you get me.
Ok, so how do really figure out if she's up for it and how do I find a guy that we can have fun with?
She won't come online because of her job.