I'd like to think that I'm kind, thoughtful, considerate, good natured and pretty relaxed. I prefer to look for the good in people. I am well-educated and enjoy good food, wine and conversation. I have my own house and am prepared to travel a reasonable distance to meet up. 

I would like to meet singles or couple for a relationship that is based on some common interests and understanding, and with folks who are interested in exploring new possibilities rather than just having a one-off event. I’m just as interested in giving pleasure as receiving it- maybe more so.

I describe myself as “straight” this is because I’m not a confirmed bi-sexual but neither am I bi-curious as my curiosity has been satisfied through a few interesting and rewarding threesomes. Further opportunities would be welcome.

At heart, I’m interested in finding out what makes people tick. A meet purely for sex is one thing but it’s surely much more interesting to discover what experiences people have had, how they have arrived at a particular point in their lives and how it’s shaped their views on what is pleasurable. We’re all different and so finding out what works, what doesn’t work and what would be enjoyable that both parties would like to explore further is surely part of the fun? There is of course a danger of over-thinking this stuff and losing out on spontaneity but I’m ever hopeful of finding a happy medium.

A few things that have appeal at the moment include:

• Voyeurism- I like the idea of being a voyeur but probably one who participates as well.
• Erotic stories- both reading and writing. I have written several but they never seem to see the light of day because I keep revising them!
• Role play- a friend told me recently that I should have gone into amateur dramatics. After the initial surprise (shock!) I thought about it a bit more and realised that I could develop a range of characters- private tutor, police officer, doctor,[removed]etc. One for the future, I think. Needs a bit more work to get right.

One other thing. Recent photos available but only on request.