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notquiteacougar
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 46
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guys just as a pointer: i cant do evenings at the mo cos my eldest is very ill so daytime best for me as much as it being my birthday celebration
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mmm hornysteve19 yes please: ok I have had one invite to eureka's and there's literally no way it's just to far: this is going to have to be somewhere more local to me preferably within 30 mins driving distance!
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SOOOOOOOO ... I am going to be 34 on 19th january so wanting ideas for my birthday this year? any idea's for a horny littlr s**t who loves sh*gging no holes barred especially partial to gb's and dp!?????
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Been a little while since I have beem but those of you who know me know I DON'T disappoint AND I get fully involved and absolutely love fun at Kestrals especially a good GB! So PLEASE either post a reply here asap or inbox me... IF I go i will be from about 11am-4pm... but I won't go if none of you reply!x
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...I paid a male "escort" and f**k me it was good! no way I am thinking about what I paid! It was awesome! teehee!... (ok I totally expect all the hate replies now, lol! go on girls you know you want to respond with a tainted disdained reply, sob sob... tut tut bad lil me! lol "it was a joke!")
ok sillyness aside now folks.... omg... I would say 75 percent of single guys on this website have probably gone down that route! c'mon people be realistic?? I have been reliably informed there is a shortage of single females on swinging websites so I am assuming guys would go to escorts? am i bothered? no? not at all... we are way behind USA they have virtually legalised places in fact even the uk has almost legalised places where "escorts" work!
Ok so shoot me now, but just remember it was only a few years ago that if you wore hair extensions you were labelled as "fake" and now everyone has them... not that I am comparing the two, but a lot of things are now becoming more accepted.. look at the fifty shades epidemic which raised the interest of bdsm throughout the uk and other countries?... it's one of those things that lots of people shake their heads to and mutter "no, no, no" to, but secretly think... "hhmm what if?" OR "mmm yes I would do that" OR "Yeah.. that's my secret.. I do that because it gives me great pleasure!"... or on the other hand they will say"oh no I could never do that, never ever"...
I do like to challenge the majority but usually it turns out the real majority remain silent, they say what they think is acceptable but not what they really think.. and I don't just mean on this particular subject either!x
ok sillyness aside now folks.... omg... I would say 75 percent of single guys on this website have probably gone down that route! c'mon people be realistic?? I have been reliably informed there is a shortage of single females on swinging websites so I am assuming guys would go to escorts? am i bothered? no? not at all... we are way behind USA they have virtually legalised places in fact even the uk has almost legalised places where "escorts" work!
Ok so shoot me now, but just remember it was only a few years ago that if you wore hair extensions you were labelled as "fake" and now everyone has them... not that I am comparing the two, but a lot of things are now becoming more accepted.. look at the fifty shades epidemic which raised the interest of bdsm throughout the uk and other countries?... it's one of those things that lots of people shake their heads to and mutter "no, no, no" to, but secretly think... "hhmm what if?" OR "mmm yes I would do that" OR "Yeah.. that's my secret.. I do that because it gives me great pleasure!"... or on the other hand they will say"oh no I could never do that, never ever"...
I do like to challenge the majority but usually it turns out the real majority remain silent, they say what they think is acceptable but not what they really think.. and I don't just mean on this particular subject either!x
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Goin with a fuck buddy he is gonna choose guys to dp with me and more?x
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anyone else going to Kestrels on thursday? I might be popping along with a fuckbuddy!
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Quote by Robert400andKayprecisely my point. Fifty shades character Christian grey has far less reasons to be fucked up than me... My point being i havent let everything that happened to me affect me in a so called "fucked up" manner
I don't quite see how what happens in 50 shades has much to do with a cheating sister and husband?
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Quote by skinny
My thoughts are with you 'cougar....as pebble said, it's the other party who are troubled by this now, and it's good that you've moved on.
Now, it seems, the other party are feeling that losing you is way worse than whatever thrill they achieved earlier, hence the confession, which is a request for absolution. I can't tell you how to think, but I can tell you that being able to forgive people easily will be likely to have a positive effect on your life, and I don't mean just saying so to make someone else feel better. Anyway, it's your call, and you couldn't possibly be judged harshly no matter which way you decide to go.
Thankyou! I have decided as they are already beating themselves up over it so badly.. I don't need to make them feel anything worse. More so for my sister, I don't want to ruin our relationship. As for my ex husband don't know why I expected him to be any different... he's a prick anyway!
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Quote by twos_company
Just found out last night that my sister has been sleeping with my ex husband on and off over the last 12 years (including when we were together)! :sad: :sad: :sad: Oh and they owned up that they have spent time together "slagging" me off to each other!
nah........ thats nothing on 50shades lol
Well if you want more proof:
I was adopted aged 5 because I was abused and neglected too, I have the burn scars to prove the abuse too! Grew up with controlling adoptive parents and they forced me to have a termination at the age of 19... and before you ask: yes they did force me and I was 24 weeks in... then ontop of that failed marriage to a man who had a tendancy to attempt suicide on a regular basis and then after splitting with him... my youngest daughters dad used to control my life (literally) wasn't allowed out or to have a phone or to have health visitor there without him being there... I wasn't even allowed to go to the doctors on my own! And he used to beat me up!
Noo.... course.. I have nothing on Christian Grey do I?!?!! lol Oh and there's a lot more I could add... but I thought stick with just a few for now!
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Thankyou pebble! Yeah I don't get why she was the ONE crying last night as if she should have the right to be upset! I always had a niggling suspicion but I chose to forget about it because I won't allow something like that to hold me back! I am just annoyed that she kept it from me aswell as feeling betrayed by her because she knows I can never not have him in my life because he is the father of my children! I think she actually told me because we are getting on really well now and I know I couldn't keep something like that to myself for that long, things like that can really eat away at you! It certainly explains her behaviour at times anyway!
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Just found out last night that my sister has been sleeping with my ex husband on and off over the last 12 years (including when we were together)! :sad: :sad: :sad: Oh and they owned up that they have spent time together "slagging" me off to each other!
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Sorry to say... the government are not forthcoming with help/recognition for carers.
I have 3 children and 2 of them have disabilities, my son has Autistic Spectrum Disorder and ADHD and my eldest daughter has mosaicism, global developmental delay (mental age of 6,restricted physical growth) Is severely epileptic and partially blind.. I FIGHT to get the help and I have to say it's probably because I have been living on my own for 8 years that I get recognition because I pester the hell out of social services. Unfortunately they don't offer the same help for married couples as I have friends in similar circumstances but where they're married with jobs and they don't get recognition as carers let alone support.
My eldest daughter goes to respite in a care home to give me a break and my son goes to a family link foster care placement. I had to fight to get it but eventually we got round to sorting it all out and I don't know what I would do without the break, to be honest! I'd probably get very run down!
I have 3 children and 2 of them have disabilities, my son has Autistic Spectrum Disorder and ADHD and my eldest daughter has mosaicism, global developmental delay (mental age of 6,restricted physical growth) Is severely epileptic and partially blind.. I FIGHT to get the help and I have to say it's probably because I have been living on my own for 8 years that I get recognition because I pester the hell out of social services. Unfortunately they don't offer the same help for married couples as I have friends in similar circumstances but where they're married with jobs and they don't get recognition as carers let alone support.
My eldest daughter goes to respite in a care home to give me a break and my son goes to a family link foster care placement. I had to fight to get it but eventually we got round to sorting it all out and I don't know what I would do without the break, to be honest! I'd probably get very run down!
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Quote by little gem
I've read the first two and am now on to the third. I'm beginning to be irritated by the overuse of certain words and ways she describes things,
Inner Goddess by any chance.......
The 'Inner Goddess' thing doesn't bother me so much as I imagine them being actual little characters like a mini demon and mini angel on her shoulders. It's more the constant use of 'mercurial', describing his grey eyes (yep, they're grey, I got it the first time in the first book), 'running his hands over my sex' what? Haha! A real laugh out loud moment there with that one but at least the words 'pussy' or 'fanny' weren't used. I'm sure as I get through the final instalment I will have added to that list of irritation.
bloody good point!x
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Apologies for repeated post as posting from my mobile phone. Just reaxhed chapter twenty one.... Now i am losing interest :-( i am agree godlike, nothing wrong with mummy porn!
I am a bit disheartened as i bought all 3 books wish i had stopped at one, as for facebook.... Just goes to show don't believe everything you read in the social media!
I am a bit disheartened as i bought all 3 books wish i had stopped at one, as for facebook.... Just goes to show don't believe everything you read in the social media!
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Upto chapter 19! Still think it's a good read and I read a lot of books!
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
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Upto chapter 19! Still think it's a good read and I read a lot of books!
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
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Upto chapter 19! Still think it's a good read and I read a lot of books!
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
What's wrong with mummy porn? I have 3 children, 2 jobs AND I still find time for sexy meets especially at daytime swingers clubs, so I read in bed! Before i bought it I had no idea what "type" of book it was just that a few friends had started reading it. I actually also know a couple of guys who have read it. As for the dom/sub topic being 'soft' I,for one,am.
very glad it is soft.
Perhaps it would not sell as well, were it to contain hard bdsm practices. I would also suggest the majority of 'normal' people, by which i mean 'non swingers' would be more shocked of some of the hard dom/sub/bdsm practices. I would come to the opinion, that for some, it may be read/interpreted as a seductive and gentle introduction to the dom/sub fantasy and also perhaps more of a sexual eye opener to peak the interest of readers who are generally only into vanilla sex.
As for words used by the author repeatedly; I find this rather endearing and also commonplace with other authors having similar writing habits.
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I am upto chapter 17 now and I am really enjoying it, in fact I came online to post in the forum specifically about the book. I highly recommend it to anyone male or female. I have never been into BDSM or the dom/sub scene and in fact past experiences have rather put me off it. But now reading this book has peaked my interest and I am intrigued now. However, I am sure not all subs are as lucky as the Ana in the story! She has a very beguiling way of her own and sways him into submission himself in some ways! However, if I were in her position I would definitely not smirk at the offer of a free of charge car, free personal training 4 times a week and provision of financial means for clothing and personal grooming! 
I am enjoying the first volume to let's home the other 2 are as good and hold my interest aswell! It's really inspired me to write of my own experiences (professionally as I have been so far, asked to do!)
I am enjoying the first volume to let's home the other 2 are as good and hold my interest aswell! It's really inspired me to write of my own experiences (professionally as I have been so far, asked to do!) Warming the Bed
I might be going to Kestrel for another visit this wednesday, if so I'll be there til half 2. Anyone else possibly going?/interested?
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hello hun, I'll go with you sometime? It's very good on weds day or evening, I am better with going on a daytime, but might be able to do both sometime nearer the summer.
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I can't make this wednesday but went a couple of weeks ago thoroughly enjoyed it, I'll prob be there next wednesday!
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Hi there, I have already been organising regular GB's for myself at kestrels. womble who posted on this thread came yesterday. I would be very interested in any further GB's!
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is anyone else going? looking to pair up with a fit we single male pls?
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Quote by Lost
Judgements are opinions so in giving an opinion we have ourselves made a judgement.
It's one of the reasons in any post of mine I really try not to put "Blah blah blah well thats in my opinion" As if using those words is shielding me from others judgements thus making my statements acceptable and not debateable to all regardless.
Earlier on in the thread someone mentioned about things being morally acceptable for you individually. what was failed to be mentioned is that in most scenarios I can think of there is a national morality, albeit it may be underlying, into which the populace in general abide by. If it wasn't for this then there would be chaos and we probably would not of evolved much from our origins.
Of course things do change as our acceptance or non acceptance of different issues arise, When these things do then it usually with the acceptance of what is right or wrong changing for an increasing amount of people until a point is reached at which the overwhelming majority view has changed and so what was wrong becomes right or vice versa.
At this point in time, swinging is socially unacceptable, as is cheating, so we swingers stand accused, as do cheaters, of being in the social wrong. There may well become a time when swinging becomes acceptable, I hope not, as then it wouldn't feel so deliciously naughty for Lost, The fact that swinging for my wife and I between us is an accepted practice, and hurts no one, and allows us to partake with other couples in the same situation or with singles (who are facilitators not swingers)that have no obligation to an unknowing another is what makes it slightly different from cheating. Cheating is by definition dishonest whereas swinging isn't and because of this dishonesty cheating will always be wrong and, to a lesser or greater degree, alien to the national morality
I don't disagree, this is where it defines that swinging is socially unacceptable where as cheating to the majority of people is imoral and wrong, there lies the difference.
However, I know many close friends and not so close friends who have cheated on their partner and I do not see myself as the person who should judge them. It's none of my business and I won't intefere and despite it still being wrong most people have a reason and of course should deal with that reason, instead of cheating.... or at least that's what I think anyway.
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Quote by Freckledbird
I think lots of people on SH secretly are in a relationship and they won't divulge that on here or to people on here
*snip* I am absolutely 100% certain that a lot of GUYS on here are cheaters but you'd never know because they're NOT going to tell you because they never want to get caught.
I am not disagreeing with the opinions expressed on here so far and please don't disect and analyse what I have said, it's merely an opinion.
Not just guys. Women cheat too.
I meant guys in general meaning women and men! sorry should have made it clearer and said people!
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tell me about it no sooner do i recover than am I being a glutton for punishment for more! x
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