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nutty200is
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Straight Female, 53
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What an interesting question,
I think every man has asked himself the question would I do anything with another man, 80% probably thought "absolutely not " and I was one of them , since starting swinging and my wife telling me it was her ultimate fantasy then i've changed my opinion a little.
I've never found men physically attractive and still don't, the thought of kissing a man is not a pleasant one for me and that will never change but when things get hot and there's 3 or 4 bodies wrapped up in each other then it seemed the most natural thing in the world to start touching and sometimes sucking another man , I don't feel this makes me bi or even curious because in the cold light of day it's not something that crosses my mind and I would never do anything on my own with a single guy. when we do reply to ads it does make it a bit more interesting if the guy says he's bi and it would probably influence our choice if it came down to choosing one ad from just feel it adds a more interesting option if you feel in the mood.
Anal sex is not something that interests us and I don't think it ever will , I certainly don't think I could be a "taker " anyway.
I think every man has asked himself the question would I do anything with another man, 80% probably thought "absolutely not " and I was one of them , since starting swinging and my wife telling me it was her ultimate fantasy then i've changed my opinion a little.
I've never found men physically attractive and still don't, the thought of kissing a man is not a pleasant one for me and that will never change but when things get hot and there's 3 or 4 bodies wrapped up in each other then it seemed the most natural thing in the world to start touching and sometimes sucking another man , I don't feel this makes me bi or even curious because in the cold light of day it's not something that crosses my mind and I would never do anything on my own with a single guy. when we do reply to ads it does make it a bit more interesting if the guy says he's bi and it would probably influence our choice if it came down to choosing one ad from just feel it adds a more interesting option if you feel in the mood.
Anal sex is not something that interests us and I don't think it ever will , I certainly don't think I could be a "taker " anyway.
went there with my mrs about a year ago on a friday night , single men are welcome but we found it was too much of a pub atmosphere with a pool table and television down the bottom of the room and a small dancefloor up the top. 90% of the men were congregated around the pool table laughing and joking basically trying to " be the one" that stood out. We were sat quite close to them and no-body made an effort to approach us but as soon as I went to the toilet or bar there were plenty of " fancy a game of strip pool" requests to my mrs.
If you're a regular i'm sure the club is great but I think it's a bit overwhelming for new couples . Hope this helps , if you want some advice from a couple don't be tempted to be " one of the lads" just to feel more comfortable, it put's the ladies off .
Be yourself and make conversation to the man and woman , after all they're there together to share the excitement.
If you're a regular i'm sure the club is great but I think it's a bit overwhelming for new couples . Hope this helps , if you want some advice from a couple don't be tempted to be " one of the lads" just to feel more comfortable, it put's the ladies off .
Be yourself and make conversation to the man and woman , after all they're there together to share the excitement.
Hi guys,
my wife and I like to go to Chameleons regularly but it's a 240 mile round trip , we've tried the office in Bristol but it didn't suit us. I did hear of a new club in Merthyr Tydfil and managed to get some brief details on the net but I can't seem to find it anymore ( on the net) , does anyone know if it's still open and if so is there a web does anyone know if there are any other clubs in south wales.
Cheers
my wife and I like to go to Chameleons regularly but it's a 240 mile round trip , we've tried the office in Bristol but it didn't suit us. I did hear of a new club in Merthyr Tydfil and managed to get some brief details on the net but I can't seem to find it anymore ( on the net) , does anyone know if it's still open and if so is there a web does anyone know if there are any other clubs in south wales.
Cheers
