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peenut
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
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I tend to stick around the chatroom forum room, mainly because it is so like the regular forums with simple easy to follow ( sometimes!) unwritten rules about "proper" behaviour.I have never actually seen any real nude/rude stuff on there.
I am reasonably broad minded although sometimes i have to wonder at attitudes in general on other rooms!
On an adult site one should expect adult themes and because of cam technology, adult images. Flopping your whatever out on cam is ok but what I think is the problem as you put it casual, is that people really don't know how to react ! playing by ear seems the way to go but don't put away your "amusing anecdotes" just yet ! they are your tools you really need !
I am reasonably broad minded although sometimes i have to wonder at attitudes in general on other rooms!
On an adult site one should expect adult themes and because of cam technology, adult images. Flopping your whatever out on cam is ok but what I think is the problem as you put it casual, is that people really don't know how to react ! playing by ear seems the way to go but don't put away your "amusing anecdotes" just yet ! they are your tools you really need !
please bear with me, this is leading somewhere ( I think)
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
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Going back to the original Topic Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lasar hair Removal.....
I'm thinking of having this done, Its expensive so i would like to know out of the 637,040 members on this site if anyone has any experience of it, or is it just a gimic??
Has anyone had this done, or knows anyone that has had this done. If so:
Does it work?
Does it hurt?
Is it worth it?
I realise the Mods think that all hair removal talk should be in the same thread, however that is like saying footbal and netball are the same because they are both team sports and use a ball!
Well I have told you of my experiences in a previous post.
Yes it does "work", but its not permanent .( I have a full beard now ffs ! )
The "pain" i encountered was by that of a "high powered medical laser", costing millons of pounds.(for the machine/staff but was free to me on NHS) These health type clinics are only using cheap low power lasers .so the discomfort for you is likely going to be far less than I had. Try to think of the laser as a controlled burn, too much too soon or for too long will make your hair removal "permanent" along with your skin!
In my honest opinion I would say no.
well from my experience of laser "medical" treatment, it is a bit like the zap you get from static electric,feels like you being pricked with a needle even though nothing is touching you just light ! and the same sensation like sunburn then just a bit sore for a while after. I remember the smell of singed hair (not flesh!) even though I was cleanshaven at the time! The hair does grow back after a while so its not permanent ! my treatment was to disperse blood vessels ( birthmark) and they sure did crank the machine up ! but one can see the use of low power laser for hair removal as a fairly useful thing.
I have this therory..Its not ghosts but tiny "holes" in time and space that small objects fall through. thus you put say, your keys down, they fall through the hole and re- emerge at a later date. It is never big objects. nobody ever "looses" the car or washing machine ?
Some stuff never comes back because its just too small and light and so drifts in time and space so there a planet somewhere where it rains tiny little objects all day long! an you think you have problems!
Some stuff never comes back because its just too small and light and so drifts in time and space so there a planet somewhere where it rains tiny little objects all day long! an you think you have problems!
Well i have never been attracted to sex dolls as any sort of substitute for the real thing. I can see the idea of using one instead of a real person in somthing that would be illegal or cause harm to live out a phantacy in real life ( like say a child doll substitute) but the thought rather disturbs me of having such ideas in the first place. and in a way "loving" a plastic doll seems equally not quite right somehow.I have however considered in a non sexual way the fun of dressing up a manikin, I saw one once and was stuck on the idea as a great way of preventing crime ! as I felt so intimidated at this " person" staring at me from their house until after passing a few times finally clocked it was a dummy !
However much one debates, the fact is that any female whatever your oriantation, will get inundated with offers pms etc etc by men and men will not get females exactly falling over themselves to even send a wink ! Maybe the gay (man-man) scene is different? but thats how it seems to me. Just have fun but don't take things too seriously ! welcome back Ab ! see you in chat sometime you have been soooo damned quiet that I was starting to think you may really be a canadian !!!!! 
I don't think its so much an issue of kicking or banning, its more of a housekeeping exercise. but then if people can stay on the database for ever provided there is infinate storage space then why not ? But as a working site however I agree that to sort out the active, semi active and never to be seen again seem like a good idea. One thought is that inactive members could be archived? that is that they still live on but all posts ads etc get deleted? .
ok i will run it for a while again now. Thing is its a bit pointless if nobody else turns up !
as I am just sitting with this "room" on backgound hold on my computer. I could do other stuff ! If anyone cares to go onlinechat , I would be happy to show you practically all about how "you" can set it up ! I can show you, its no big deal and does not really require that much "responsibility " you don't even have to join in the chat ! I often let people just go on an on an on ! And No! I have never had to "kick" anybody nor warn because its not that kind of room, its really just an on line forum !
as I am just sitting with this "room" on backgound hold on my computer. I could do other stuff ! If anyone cares to go onlinechat , I would be happy to show you practically all about how "you" can set it up ! I can show you, its no big deal and does not really require that much "responsibility " you don't even have to join in the chat ! I often let people just go on an on an on ! And No! I have never had to "kick" anybody nor warn because its not that kind of room, its really just an on line forum !
well like many websites these days, free to join, pay for "premium service" seems fair to me rather than pay to join or "trial" membership. But the problem is that because anybody can sign up free " forever", then there will be those who just stick around for a while and are never going to return . Maybe a roll call sort of thing could be done from time to time? If one has been inactive for a while. ( like years!) then its not a big deal signing up again ? There seems little point keeping ad's listed that are so old that they are out of date so I agree that there should be a cut off time and hey! if my old ad is deleted well its no big prob just sticking it back up again !
Hi LPT ! I could expain more fully and show you if you come online, but just opening a room means somebody has to stay with it like I am logged on there now while still typing this But if there is 0 in room then it gets closed sort o automaticly. re the "power" controls you should get those if you open room on the bar along with, tools, my status,take me to....its entitled "room control" click that an you have 2 options that is clear chat or kick user .I just see your recent post so see that room was closed..so thats ok, I will run on for a while if there is any traffic maybe til tonight.
