Hi Men,

retired professional gay man in my mid-60s here, with a ready smile and a dry, often self-deprecating sense of humour. I enjoy socialising as well as sexualising with guys aged 20-50(ish). I'm particularly into hairy chested guys, though guys without hairy chests are ok too. I really love to give oral and I also love being sucked, so it would be great to meet guys into sucking cock. How about some horny 69 sessions? I occasionally get into anal sex too, and am definitely a bottom, but don't get into the Dom/Sub scenario.

Things I like in guys are: the ability to hold a conversation (before and after we've finished sucking, natch - it's rude to speak with your mouth full!), a cheeky sense of humour (even if it is at my expense), a partiality to snogging and cuddling (before and after sex - cum and go is more than a tad frustrating) and proper personal cleanliness - everywhere, not just the important, secret places.

BTW, as a gay man I like men (gay, bi or bi-curious) not would-be women so, you in your wife's/gf's frilly lacy nickers and stockings is guaranteed to turn me off. Apologies to all you CDs/TVs/TSs out there but it really does nothing for me at all. I'm also not into mmf meetings with you and your fem partner.

As for being "medium", I'm not sure that is the right word for me but seems to be the nearest to describe me from the list offered. I am overweight and have a belly, (see my pics)but don't think I can be described as large or chubby as they are used on cruising sites. Similarly, I don't go for "size-zero" men and a little meat on the bones is very welcome.

Ideally I'm looking for friends and regular bed-buddies in the Beds/Herts/North London areas but don't let that put off guys from further afield, and I'm open to the idea of a LTR. I have a wide range of interests from football to opera and my recently started OU degree course. I was getting bored in retirement and felt my brain gradually turning to mush, so I looked for something challenging to do. I've found it!

I have my own place and prefer to accommodate - I'm not into car or outdoor meets - and, while I'm happy to chat, even flirt, with guys with no pics on their profile, I won't commit to a meet without seeing a pic or two first, ideally a face pic and full-length body shot (clothed is fine!) and I don't need to see your cock or arse - gotta leave something to be discovered when we do meet!

Sorry this has been so long but I feel it's better to give a full account of who I am and what I'm looking for to save frustration and irritation all round.

Let's chat soon!