Hi all..
I just wanted to add something after reading this. Its like the bad apple scenario.
I am a single female, I have my profile and ad etc and they have details of what I am looking for. When ppl dont read yr profile it just feels rude, I went into the chat rooms for the first time the other day and within 2 minutes I couldnt cope with the pms and the ones that didnt get a reply within seconds got rude and impolite. I am a polite person so maybe I just need to get a thicker skin but at the same time I dont see why I should have to so the ignore button will be getting used more. I reply to every mail or message where I can but I wont let a few hand friendly men put me off and Im sure others wont either.
If you are a single male, just bear it in mind that we are here, we just need to find each other. I dont like instant meet ups and I never will but thats just me, each to their own, if thats what yr into go for it but my profile shows Id reather get to know someone and chat and a pic is also kind of helpful.
If I could give any hints or tips, read profiles, fill out yr own and have pictures. Winks and id like to get you know you mails form a blank profile doesnt really help.
But, there are some real genuine guys on here. I have also had some lovely mails and am creating friendships in the hope of regular meets and mutual fun, it does happen but it can take time x