Psychosime999's Forum Posts

23 Dec 2006

Quote by Darkfire
They put down all sorts of conditions - I had to have bouncers, contact numbers for taxis, the room sealed off from any view to outsiders, a guest list (enforced by bouncers), hotels etc etc. Did you have this bother?
Again, good luck!
Simon

yep, sounds like the Moderators doing a fine job of ensuring that the Munch rules are adhered to to me :thumbup:
see here, it hasnt changed : http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html wink

as for being in an ideal position to organise a Munch - this bit kinda shoots yourself in the foot I'm afraid :

... and interestingly enough, 1 of those was a moderator from the site who I believe went on to cop off with the couple who turned up.

SH is a swingers site, people do 'cop off' with each other (even the Mods! lol

) after meeting each other socially , & as an organiser, you have an obligation over the safety & discretion of those who attend - blabbing about something that allegedlyhappened is a big no-no & illustrates exactly why you were not the ideal person to organise such an event, in my oppinion.
My gripe was the 3 week delay in posting the ad on the site even after giving the mods details of all the arrangements i had made, and phone numbers / addresses etc so they could confirm everything had been done properly themselves if they had wanted to. I went to a lot of bother to organise it and would have expected a lot more support, encouragement even - which sadly was very lacking. The attitude I seemed to be up against was 'who do you think you are'. I agree the whole point of a munch is to 'cop off' (although that's another contradiction of what I was told when I aranged it). It would have been nice if a lot more people could have copped off too. Given more ad time on here before the event - say 3 weeks - may have done the job nicely. The mods shot themselves and other members in the foot by actively not helping - because by now I would have organised further munch events had that one been a success.
PS The mod who did come out agreed I had done everything properly.

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22 Dec 2006

Good luck with the Yorkshire Munch.
I organised what I believe to be the first one in Yorkshire a few years ago. I gave the moderators of this site over 3 weeks notice but they didn't believe I was genuine. As a pro DJ I am, and was, in an ideal position to organise such an event but the mods only let me post an ad on this site 3 days before the event. In the end only 4 people turned up - and interestingly enough, 1 of those was a moderator from the site who I believe went on to cop off with the couple who turned up. They put down all sorts of conditions - I had to have bouncers, contact numbers for taxis, the room sealed off from any view to outsiders, a guest list (enforced by bouncers), hotels etc etc. Did you have this bother?
Again, good luck!
Simon

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30 May 2006

Single male, 35, Yorkshire.
I've been into dogging about 5 years now and seen some big changes:- less couples (hardly any), the boy racers, massive increase in the number of 'idiots' that frequent the known sites, and then there's the police doing the rounds too.
In my opinion dogging is almost dead compared to the situation 5 years ago, and this I put down to a few reasons:
The lack of dogging etiquete of people fairly new to the scene - too many people now know about it, they all 'want a go' so end up being pushy.. they don't wait for signals etc. Indeed many couples now don't even give signals, especially if they are new.
5 Years ago if anyone didn't 'tow the line' and abide by the etiquete they would have to face the wrath of the old school doggers, who would wait for signals etc, and wo bedite anyone who scared a couple away by being too pushy, not waiting for signals, gathering around a couples' car when there were already too many blokes there, driving around too much or too fast, parking too close, playing music, not having their interior lights turned off, having more than one in a car, following people in convoys, not turning lights down when entering a car park.
These days it seems anything goes - is that couple in the corner dogging? they havn't given any signals.. i know lets all walk over - will the bloke jump out with a baseball bat or will she open that window and give him a bj? saftey in numbers - lets all walk over together... ohh they suddenly went... perhaps they want to be with me alone so i'll follow them in my car... next bloke thinks ayup, they might want more than one... next bloke thinks ayup they might want more than two and if i really boot my car i can overtake him and park right beside the couple. Couple makes a long detour to avoid being followed home and never returns.
This isn't how it used to be. Just a few years ago you went to a site by yourslef and probably knew the other guys. You parked a fair distance from anyone and didn't light anyone up. If a couple came in you stayed parked where you were and in your car and awaited a signal, and a confirmation signal - that flick of the light could still have been innocent. If the couple were parked at the other end of the car park and other guys were closer, that was just pot luck.. you had to judge it - would the couple want another guy around them? Get any of this wrong and you would definitely face a bollocking from the other guys.. Scare a couple away and you would get a severe bollocking... But all this at least meant that couples were more confident to come out and people showed respect and restraint.
Compare the above to now - if more couples still gave signals and bollocked the pushy guys, then drove away, then the old school doggers could show the newbies how to behave and the couples might just come back. One thing guys - at least don't turn up with all your mates in the car! That used to be a sure sign you were gay...

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28 Apr 2006

more the merrier? wouldn't say so.. 10000 single blokes goin round 3 in a car frightening people away all the time. dogging is almost dead because too many know about it now.

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