At the risk of people jumping all over me and suggesting I am in some way entwined in NW30's fun and games may I take this chance to wish them ALL a good evening. NW30 I too would be interested to know how your night goes.
Cheers Puggz
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puggz
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
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Also I think 'swinger' has some kind of stigma attatched to it but its nothing to be embarrassed about, just like any other label e.g. gay, bi, lesbian tv, c.d. We are all just people doing our own thing none of them anything to be ashamed or embarrassed about. You do what you think is right when you are in the situation mate and above all have fun.
You have to be sure it won't cost you your friendship or partner I totally agree with that, I was confident it wouldn't and didn't. The times we did it after were absolutely brilliant we were all stone cold sober but had broken the ice already.
People do tend to err on the side of caution thats understandable especially when offering others their advice.
Fact is if it works then its mind blowing I say go for it let your missus work on him and get him going even if it means he gets first dibs
steve
People do tend to err on the side of caution thats understandable especially when offering others their advice.
Fact is if it works then its mind blowing I say go for it let your missus work on him and get him going even if it means he gets first dibs
steve
Hiya,
I have managed to get myself into this situation with both of my latest partners. You are past the difficult bit, getting your good lady to indulge in this, she is the key to your success. Last time this happened we went out in a group of about 6 of us, 5 blokes and her. She had decided that she wanted to do it but we weren't sure any of the group would want to join us, my closest friend has always bragged that he had done mfm but I am not sure I believed him though it was obvious he liked the idea. So I told Lucie he may be the right candidate although she didn't exactly fancy him as such she wanted the experience so after a few drinks to loosen she got chatting to him and very early in the evening for her she turned the conversation to sex and how she was feeling really horny and that she was in need of a good shag, this was just to put the seed there. In the next bar she picked on him again inviting him to stay at our house and save him on taxi fares, he agreed. Few more drinks and she started telling him that I was a dirty fucker and was trying to get her to do stuff that she liked the sound of but didn't know if she had the bottle to carry out. He quizzed her as to what that was and she went (pretend) coy and embarrassed and whispered in his ear that I wanted to fuck her with another bloke. He told her that he really liked the sound of that and had always fancied a go at it without hesitation she invited him to join us!!!! He approached me about an hour later and said 'your lass is in a funny mood tonight she seems unstoppable' I just laughed. 2 hours later we were both fucking her and she took 4 loads of come one way or another that night and we got together as a 3 a few more times after. My tip is to let your missus plant the idea and flirt with him a bit. You won't get him in the mood but she will. GOOD LUCK! :twisted:
Cheers, Steve
I have managed to get myself into this situation with both of my latest partners. You are past the difficult bit, getting your good lady to indulge in this, she is the key to your success. Last time this happened we went out in a group of about 6 of us, 5 blokes and her. She had decided that she wanted to do it but we weren't sure any of the group would want to join us, my closest friend has always bragged that he had done mfm but I am not sure I believed him though it was obvious he liked the idea. So I told Lucie he may be the right candidate although she didn't exactly fancy him as such she wanted the experience so after a few drinks to loosen she got chatting to him and very early in the evening for her she turned the conversation to sex and how she was feeling really horny and that she was in need of a good shag, this was just to put the seed there. In the next bar she picked on him again inviting him to stay at our house and save him on taxi fares, he agreed. Few more drinks and she started telling him that I was a dirty fucker and was trying to get her to do stuff that she liked the sound of but didn't know if she had the bottle to carry out. He quizzed her as to what that was and she went (pretend) coy and embarrassed and whispered in his ear that I wanted to fuck her with another bloke. He told her that he really liked the sound of that and had always fancied a go at it without hesitation she invited him to join us!!!! He approached me about an hour later and said 'your lass is in a funny mood tonight she seems unstoppable' I just laughed. 2 hours later we were both fucking her and she took 4 loads of come one way or another that night and we got together as a 3 a few more times after. My tip is to let your missus plant the idea and flirt with him a bit. You won't get him in the mood but she will. GOOD LUCK! :twisted:
Cheers, Steve
