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rhrfc
Over 90 days ago
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As one of Enchantress' fellow OPs i also make a point of greeting everyone with a name, and i know most of the regulars do too. Unless im in private of course.
As for the insulting behaviour, this will not be tolerated by myself or any of the other OPs and if reported will result in the removal of the individuals concerned.
On a personal note sending private messages without asking permission is one of my bugbears so please please guys ( and it is mainly guys) pack it in!!!
Im sure i speak for all of the regulars when i say i hope to see you guys again soon.
Rob
As for the insulting behaviour, this will not be tolerated by myself or any of the other OPs and if reported will result in the removal of the individuals concerned.
On a personal note sending private messages without asking permission is one of my bugbears so please please guys ( and it is mainly guys) pack it in!!!
Im sure i speak for all of the regulars when i say i hope to see you guys again soon.
Rob
After a visit to Scratchwood earlier this evening i felt compelled to post my absolute disbelief at the behaviour of some doggers out there!
Is it too much to ask for guys to have a few manners occasionally? I witnessed guys unable to walk 20 yards to a car with a couple instead electing to drive said distance with their bloody headlights on!!
One bloke almost ran me over in his haste to park on top of a couple and didnt seem to get the hint when they moved further down the carpark but instead followed them!
Now i dont wanna sound like a moaning old git or try to teach my grandmother to suck eggs but this is not the first time ive seen this type of thing at Scratchwood which seems to have more ill mannered doggers than most. I took a lady there myself a few weeks back and overly eager behaviour was the cause of that experience being cut rather short. I pity any new couples that choose Scratchwood as their first time out.
Ok rant over now, good job ive had a few hours to cool down cos this was gonna be a lot longer! lol
A plea though guys, this is supposed to be fun and hassle free for all, and isnt exactly rocket science, so please dont ruin it for the rest of us.
Is it too much to ask for guys to have a few manners occasionally? I witnessed guys unable to walk 20 yards to a car with a couple instead electing to drive said distance with their bloody headlights on!!
One bloke almost ran me over in his haste to park on top of a couple and didnt seem to get the hint when they moved further down the carpark but instead followed them!
Now i dont wanna sound like a moaning old git or try to teach my grandmother to suck eggs but this is not the first time ive seen this type of thing at Scratchwood which seems to have more ill mannered doggers than most. I took a lady there myself a few weeks back and overly eager behaviour was the cause of that experience being cut rather short. I pity any new couples that choose Scratchwood as their first time out.
Ok rant over now, good job ive had a few hours to cool down cos this was gonna be a lot longer! lol
A plea though guys, this is supposed to be fun and hassle free for all, and isnt exactly rocket science, so please dont ruin it for the rest of us.
Sadly police attention is not a new problem for dogging sites and is unlikely to abate anytime soon. On the plus side my experience has been that generally police attention is restiricted to driving in and out of the car park with lights blazing just enough to piss everyone off! Providing you are not caught in the act there is little to worry about. I have been stopped and questioned myself (just the once!) and the process was cursory and clearly as inconvenient to the officers as to me. The result was i was in a public place and not (at the time) breaking any laws, so was bid good evening with a fairly cheery smile. Whilst i know of occasions that this hasnt been the case, they are few and far between.
Most of us are intelligent enough to exercise the necessary discretion and whilst that remains the case there is no good reason to stop having fun.
Rob
Most of us are intelligent enough to exercise the necessary discretion and whilst that remains the case there is no good reason to stop having fun.
Rob
Scuse me for sticking my oar in here but i hope i can help a little.
There is always much discussion on places to go and signs to give when it comes to getting into dogging and unfortunately the simple answer is the place to go depends on what you are hoping to achieve and the signs to give vary hugely from place to place.
I dont know the Warren Road site mentioned but i do know Scratchwood and many other sites in the Essex/Kent areas and im afraid it is a fact of life in the busy well publicised sites that you rarely get time to settle or give a "go" signal, and Scratchwood is a particularly bad place for newbies as the doggers are some of the pushiest it has been my misfortune to encounter.
My recommendation to first timers or those still finding their feet is to prearrange. Find a site that is either unused or very quiet and arrange to meet your chosen people there, or pick the appropriate "punters" from the crowd and ask them to accompany you to somewhere quieter.
Having been both inside and outside the car i can completely sympathise with your concerns, however on the plus side a firm wave of the hand or a simple "not right now guys" is usually sufficient to disperse the crowd.
One final footnote on places, doggers are a strange breed and fiercely protective of "good" sites ie those where you arent 10 deep at the car!! So dont expect an avalanche of replies if you ask for a site is a particular area, doggers are happy to share once they are sure you are a couple but dont want to publicse a quiet spot for fear of turning it into a busy one.
Ok? Get all that? LOL
Here endeth the lesson! Hope that was helpful and not patronising.
Rob
There is always much discussion on places to go and signs to give when it comes to getting into dogging and unfortunately the simple answer is the place to go depends on what you are hoping to achieve and the signs to give vary hugely from place to place.
I dont know the Warren Road site mentioned but i do know Scratchwood and many other sites in the Essex/Kent areas and im afraid it is a fact of life in the busy well publicised sites that you rarely get time to settle or give a "go" signal, and Scratchwood is a particularly bad place for newbies as the doggers are some of the pushiest it has been my misfortune to encounter.
My recommendation to first timers or those still finding their feet is to prearrange. Find a site that is either unused or very quiet and arrange to meet your chosen people there, or pick the appropriate "punters" from the crowd and ask them to accompany you to somewhere quieter.
Having been both inside and outside the car i can completely sympathise with your concerns, however on the plus side a firm wave of the hand or a simple "not right now guys" is usually sufficient to disperse the crowd.
One final footnote on places, doggers are a strange breed and fiercely protective of "good" sites ie those where you arent 10 deep at the car!! So dont expect an avalanche of replies if you ask for a site is a particular area, doggers are happy to share once they are sure you are a couple but dont want to publicse a quiet spot for fear of turning it into a busy one.
Ok? Get all that? LOL
Here endeth the lesson! Hope that was helpful and not patronising.
Rob
Just a quick note, the subject of 16 year olds has come up in the chatroom also, with a user proclaiming herself to be a 16 year old girl. Im pleased (and a little proud) to say that the response was almost universal in asking her very politely but forcefully to leave the room.
If my memory serves me Enchantress was in the room at the time and along with myself was the first voice of discontent.
I feel that not only is it a matter of law reference access to adult sites, pornography etc. but is the tip of a much bigger iceberg. I for one do not want to be part of a site that becomes known as a place to pick up children, and much as they would like to dispute the fact that is what a 16 year old (regardless of sex) is.
Just wanted to let the ladies know they dont have complete control over the moral high ground ( i have a map and will be attempting to find it when i find the time in a busy schedule of being totally amoral!).
This is a great site and the integrety of the members and a willingness to self police are necessary to keep it that way, so good response guys.
Rob
If my memory serves me Enchantress was in the room at the time and along with myself was the first voice of discontent.
I feel that not only is it a matter of law reference access to adult sites, pornography etc. but is the tip of a much bigger iceberg. I for one do not want to be part of a site that becomes known as a place to pick up children, and much as they would like to dispute the fact that is what a 16 year old (regardless of sex) is.
Just wanted to let the ladies know they dont have complete control over the moral high ground ( i have a map and will be attempting to find it when i find the time in a busy schedule of being totally amoral!).
This is a great site and the integrety of the members and a willingness to self police are necessary to keep it that way, so good response guys.
Rob
Just thought id post a warning as at least 2 members of the site (me being one!) have recently received worms in the mail.
Whilst they dont appear to be terminal (more of a pain in the arse) everyone should be on their guard.
Following the advice of another user i downloaded an antivirus program called AVG (free download) which caught and healed the infection.
Dont claim to know anything about the subject though so please dont mail and ask for advice!!
Whilst they dont appear to be terminal (more of a pain in the arse) everyone should be on their guard.
Following the advice of another user i downloaded an antivirus program called AVG (free download) which caught and healed the infection.
Dont claim to know anything about the subject though so please dont mail and ask for advice!!
hi guys
firstly let me say welcome to this wonderful site (gonna talk to mark about commision lol), in any website you will find a lot of timewasters but this seems to have less than most. I have bin organising an event for another user and although i didnt get the deluge of responses i was expecting the ones i didnt get the corresponding number of wasters so no bad thing.
Please bear in mind that the idea of playing appeals to many people but the reality for a first timer is often very scary, so if someone balks when it comes close to gametime it will usually just be nerves and if handled correctly can be worked out.
From what you say you seem to be going about things in the right way so im sure success will follow in short order. (if you looking for a guy somewhere near essex i can guarantee it lol!)
Happy hunting
rhrfc
firstly let me say welcome to this wonderful site (gonna talk to mark about commision lol), in any website you will find a lot of timewasters but this seems to have less than most. I have bin organising an event for another user and although i didnt get the deluge of responses i was expecting the ones i didnt get the corresponding number of wasters so no bad thing.
Please bear in mind that the idea of playing appeals to many people but the reality for a first timer is often very scary, so if someone balks when it comes close to gametime it will usually just be nerves and if handled correctly can be worked out.
From what you say you seem to be going about things in the right way so im sure success will follow in short order. (if you looking for a guy somewhere near essex i can guarantee it lol!)
Happy hunting
rhrfc
