Hi,
for the past 2 years my partner has had a problem with intercourse/foreplay when she gets excited and starts to enjoy what we are doing, she gets very bad pains all around her vagina not just inside but i cant make any contact to her area without her being in pain.
She says its like razor blades and stabbing all around her Vagina and inside.
Ive asked her about has she contacted a GP or sexual advise person but she doesn't want to talk to anyone about the problem.
It's taken 2 years for her to tell me as i knew there was a problem but not this bad, as because she gets pain we only have intercourse once a month and that doesn't last long as she gets pain and has to stop, so we end up not getting intimate at all.
it's got so bad that i asked her about what her thoughts are on me getting a sexual toy for me to relive myself as she thinks its disgusting pleasuring me orally or by hand, so i have to relieve myself.
She doesn't like the idea of me using a sexual toy, and that's when i found out about her pains shes getting.
I asked her to see a GP etc.. but she not o as doesn't want to talk to someone about her problem.
I'm now in a really bad place as i have no idea on what to do now.
Does anyone know of anything about her pains as these pains only arrive when shes getting excited even if im only giving her oral and not actually penetrating her she gets these pains and then that's it we have to stop.
Any advise would be much appreciated...
