Hi
I hope I have the right forum area to say hello
Strangely enough I'm not interested in meeting up or anything physical!
I'm just curious about the lifestyle and how people get along, as this seems much more important and if real friendships are possible. I've always thought this would be the most appealing thing personally because the ordinary barriers are dispensed with and people can be as they are. I mean anyone can go clubbing and have a one-nighter or go to an escort if they want to but swinging seems so much more and that's the appeal to me.
I think I'd be happy just being around swingers and enjoying the atmosphere without taking so much as my shoes off. Maybe that's 30-odd years talking but I'm seeing things differently these days. The sexual side is there as strong as ever but I'm wanting more of wanting to know people which I think holds me and my girlfriend back from just diving straight in to an unknown scene.
Are there different types of swinger gatherings and how do they relate to each other?
Any of your views would be really appreciated and helpful,
I've always had this knowledge that this is me, and a wanting to find my place
Martin
