Update Sep 2015 - we're taking a break from meeting as a couple for a while, but are keeping our profile visible so we can still chat to contacts and friends we've previously met or chatted to.

Hi everyone,

We've re-vamped our profile, hopefully it tells you about us and what we're looking for.

We're a very happy married couple who enjoy spending time with others; as friends chatting with a drink or being more intimate and exploring some of our carnal desires. We don't get jealous having sex with others (as a couple or alone), and we're open with each other about what we do - there's no secrets.

We're completely normal, we both work, are educated, like holidays (who doesn't, particularly skiing) and while swinging/hotwifing/hothusbanding (is that a word?) are a fun part of our lives it don't rule every waking minute - it's exciting and at times frustrating, and we indulge ourselves now and then.

In an ideal world we'd like to meet a bi female who's open to having fun with us both, but we're realists and know not everyone is looking for the same thing, so we take things slow and see how they unfold. We never place expectations on anyone and if it means we meeting for a drink first, or one of us has to sit on the sidelines while the other get involved then so be it; this is about fun after all, it's not supposed to be complicated :)

Couples we'd welcome peple saying hi and we'd love to see what happens, feel free to message us and we'll see how things go.

When it comes to males we would prefer to make first contact, so although we appreciate being a single male is difficult please don't chance your arm, we really aren't interested unless you can write properly (pet hate, sorry) and you've something exceptional to tempt Sara with - tip: measure along the top from torso to tip, not underneath starting from your coccyx! ;)

Meeting alone - Sara has previously but has no desire to again, but (and this is probably a waste of words but you never know) we're both OK for Craig to meet with single females of couples. Obviously we appreciate that this would be much more interesting to others if it was Sara as opposed to Craig who was able to indulge in solo escapades, but it's just the way it is, sorry.

We prefer to accommodate as we have a comfortable home with a hot tub (great place to break the ice), but we can travel also, although not to the other end of the country; it's amazing how many people think 200 miles isn't too far to meet for a drink! There's a fine line between keen and desperate and we want to stay on the right side of it. We're near Stamford/Peterborough so with the A1/A15/A16/A47 close we're easy to get to.

We have sk*pe/webcam to prove we are a couple, but never play on cam, it's faces only, all you have to do is be willing to reciprocate.

We have some experience but aren't regulars, over the last few years we've only met 10/12 times in total: one couple, a couple of males, and a few females. Like most we appreciate manners and guarantee the same in return. We're normal people seeking extra-curricular fun, and we're open to regular meets if we meet the right person/people.

What have you to lose from saying hi?

Sara & Craig xx