Quote by onlyme1981
I don't want to get into yet another argument about this site and I don't want to put you off.....but.....
You have only been registered since 1st September and this is your first post in the Cafe.
Please don't judge the site on the ads or because you've had no luck meeting you might need to persevere with the ads section or in "lets meet up".
The Cafe is full of wonderful people who respect each other, who like to have a laugh, who like to meet up with others etc etc but if you come here moaning or making accusationary statements on your first thread you won't get much help or luck i'm afraid.
There are lots of people in your position, and yes, it might be frustrating to contend with timewasters and the like but don't tar everyone with the same brush. There are decent people who want to meet others just like you do. Join in, have a laugh but don't take it personally if you get rejected or people are a waste of time..... just carry on and in the end things will come right. Patience and luck both have their part to play so bear with it and all will be fine.
You might find it helpful to look through past threads with advice on meeting people - I assume you are a single male. There are lots of advice threads on here so you can help yourself, as much as you are willing to.