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OOh dear, this all sounded very simple when I read it at first, but now it's not, which is a pity, coz I very much wanted to come to this one. cool But now it looks in doubt which is sad sad just hope it all gets sorted, but at least there's plenty of time to do so. I reckon that a change of venue is the only sensible option, but hey wot do I know??
Anyhoos, put me down on the list, the reserve list wotever & if it all comes to fruition (I hope so) then i'll see u all there.
Best of luck with the organisation
Andy biggrin
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Hi Jo, biggrin
Andy here. I was a member of your groups b4 they were closed down :cry:
I'd like to come along tomorrow (tonight) and meet you. i'm still a little nervous of these things, as i haven't done this stuff for quite a while, but hey it'll beat a night down the pub with lads for sure & I won't be waking up with a hangover either rolleyes
Hope 2 see you there
Regards wink
Forum Virgin
Hi All, this is very possibly my first post, or maybe not - can't remember rolleyes
Thought I'd add my 3 pennorth as they say. Being single is great!! biggrin
Being single also Sucks! :cry:
Both at once very probably wink Just that's the way life is, but both the above comments could be applied to many relationships, certainly my marriage had both good and bad bits to it. Like many people I'm single following break up of a relationship, and have elected not to immediately throw themselves back into the dating game, because I need as has been stated above to find myself again. I'm also pessimistic about the outcome of relationships that start well but self-destruct after a short while. That has happened to me more than once, and it really drains the confidence.
I don't worry about the single guy/vs couples bit as I know that I have sufficient about me to break through the barriers once I've made up my mind. Fact is I haven't done too much about rejoining the swinging scene other than kinda lurk around partly because of the lack of confidence. Also however, as stated above too, I put an ad up on another system to do with biking (any bikers out there?) then did nothing. So I started getting replies, which was a bit surprising cool and of course most were a bit odd. One however stood out and to cut a long story short I'm now really close to that person. We can't have a full blown relationship for one very good reason, her health, and we are both a little wary of the full on thing. But, this is the point, I get much of the best parts of a relationship from her. She cares for me & I care for her, but there isn't the shit that goes down in a normal boy-girl thing. You know, the arguments, the compromises, the relatives etc. So apart from the lack of a sex partner life is Ok for me, not perfect, but OK.
Andy smile