Well, I can only repeat what I have already said ( and ALL means we are all the same, not that anyone is NOT an adult):-
'I thought we were ALL adults on here, therefore we have a responsibility to ourselves.
Adult's - meaning this is an Adult site.
Adult's - meaning as an adult you have a responsibility to make decisions for yourself.
Adult's - meaning you have a responsibility to yourself to make sure you are happy and understand whatever situation you enter.
Adult's - meaning you should have the life experience and ability to listen and understand any persons reasons for being on the site.
There are many opinions in the world, yours is only one of them, so is mine. That doesn't make any of them right. Sometimes opinions change when the person stands back and looks at the big picture, rather than the blot on the landscape.