Hi folks, I'm James, a 35 yr old fit single chap presently living and working in Leeds.

I've been into the swing scene for about 4 yrs now - but I certainly don't allow the experiences to rule my life or to justify outrageous behavior.

I'm 5'9" tall, average build, quite sport as I play tennis, swim and dive recreationally.

Below I'm shave, cut and clean with a healthy girth and apx. length of 8 to 9": length is dependent on room temperature, therefore, I'm not really into the dogging thing as trying to party in the howling wind just gives me a chilly bum!

I'm well spoken, spontaneous and nice to be around. I can hold a grown up conversation that doesn't include sport, politics or even the soaps (which I have no interest in).

I prefer to seduce the lady in a nice way, after all, their biggest organ is not between their legs (contrary to blokes views) but rather between their ears. With that in mind, in the past I've tended to break the ice with new friends by giving the lady a fantastic hour and a half sensual massage. It usually starts off very discrete, more aimed at deep tissue, but if the lady responds in a positive manner, it can progress to a more sensual and erotic experience. Obviously we're all different and a massage needs to be tailored to expectation and needs (where appropriate).

I'm a non smoker, disease and drug free. I expect friends to have similar levels of cleanliness to myself and take a pride in their appearance. If one's underwear has gone grey in lieu of the brilliant white that it once was, I think we're not compatible.

I have been to a few clubs in the region (LC, Chameleons and Partners) - very occasionally! Not into clubbing every weekend, likewise, attended the odd party.

Recently met some friends into the cuckold scene - great fun, but clearly not everyone's cup of tea.

Lastly, I'm open minded, non-prejudicial and discrete.

If you're interested in getting in touch, drop me a line and lets take it from there.

Thanks for reading

LeedsJames