I am reassured
that I am just not being cowardly. 
I'm going to ask my other half for an honest opinion of what I'm like. :shock:
I may be some time...
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Hello there lovely people. 
I realise that having photo's with my ad is important, but I would appreciate some advice on the style that's appropriate, particularly from women and couples (whom I'd like to appeal to
), before I upload any.
Do you want to see my face? Are pics with clothes on considered a waste of time? Do you want to see pics of my cock before deciding to contact me? Or Is it better to keep more intimate pics until requested?
I don't want to be too 'in yer face'
If this topic has been covered already, I apologise, but I couldn't find it. If not, your feedback would be most appreciated on this as well as what you want to see in an ad.
Thanks for your attention and have a good, long...weekend :lol:
I realise that having photo's with my ad is important, but I would appreciate some advice on the style that's appropriate, particularly from women and couples (whom I'd like to appeal to
), before I upload any.Do you want to see my face? Are pics with clothes on considered a waste of time? Do you want to see pics of my cock before deciding to contact me? Or Is it better to keep more intimate pics until requested?
I don't want to be too 'in yer face'
If this topic has been covered already, I apologise, but I couldn't find it. If not, your feedback would be most appreciated on this as well as what you want to see in an ad.
Thanks for your attention and have a good, long...weekend :lol:
Lots of good advice here. Thank You.
If I can add my techy tuppence...
As money is an issue for some people and free software firewalls are all you can afford for now then don't bother with Zone Alarm Free. The full program is one of the best at about £35 a year, but the freebie has weaknesses. The best freebie I have found is Kerio and it can be downloaded here:
What I like about it is that you get all the protection of the full product for the first month and if you're reeeally cheap (oh I hope so ) you can copy it before you install it and reinstall it once a month If you keep forgetting, or finances improve its only about £35 to upgrade to the full product.
It is also quite an education to see what it picks up when you install software :shock:
As a general principle, try and stay away from Microsoft software as it is the main target for hackers and virus software. I particularly hate Microsoft Outlook as it is the cause of most virus spoofing misery and has 'security issues'.
If you are in the London area and want some no bullshit advice, particularly on hardware, then feel free to contact me. I work in the voluntary sector and am famous for charging too little. (Soft hearted, nesh? Southerner) :wink:
If I can add my techy tuppence...
As money is an issue for some people and free software firewalls are all you can afford for now then don't bother with Zone Alarm Free. The full program is one of the best at about £35 a year, but the freebie has weaknesses. The best freebie I have found is Kerio and it can be downloaded here:
What I like about it is that you get all the protection of the full product for the first month and if you're reeeally cheap (oh I hope so
) you can copy it before you install it and reinstall it once a month If you keep forgetting, or finances improve its only about £35 to upgrade to the full product. It is also quite an education to see what it picks up when you install software :shock:
As a general principle, try and stay away from Microsoft software as it is the main target for hackers and virus software. I particularly hate Microsoft Outlook as it is the cause of most virus spoofing misery and has 'security issues'.
If you are in the London area and want some no bullshit advice, particularly on hardware, then feel free to contact me. I work in the voluntary sector and am famous for charging too little. (Soft hearted, nesh? Southerner) :wink:
