I have had a regular fuck buddy for a while and I really enjoy him; and him me! My partner would prefer it if I tried at least one more man so that is why I am here again.

My fuck buddy is a really nice, sexy and virile guy who, I think, would respond as my partner does; a mixture of excitement and jealousy. I like that!

To reiterate, I am not really into the swinger scene and would prefer someone like myself who wants to explore and push boundaries. Not someone who is into the 'life style'. I would also like someone who would respect me as a whole person and respond to me as more than just a 'quickie'

Having said that, I really do enjoy sex with both my partner and my fuck buddy as an additional extrav'fizz'! I am repeatedly told I am very sexy and attractive - but you could be the judge of that. Happy to send photos if we can develop a rapport and would expect the same!

Oh, and I can send references:)!Needed for her - A good looking, intelligent, sexy, fun, sensitive, genuine man. I am (her that is) an intelligent, slim, very attractive, fun, sexy (very sexy), challenging,sophisticated, very young looking and caring female with a great smile and sense of humour. I was recently told that 'angels do have blond hair and blue eyes' - it felt good! But enough of how wonderful I am.

I am in a solid, sexy and loving relationship but wanting to push my boundaries and explore my sexuality. I feel it is important to 'explore,experience and challenge myself. I know it wont harm a great relationship so why not ...I never thought I would do this but tried a while ago (just once) and it was exciting and energising to our relationship. I tried a second time but was let down.

My partner knows and approves (actually it turns him on!). It is up to me (maybe you!) whether he watches, joins in or just knows I am safe.

Be good to talk or meet for a chat to check attraction and chemistry. I am still nervous and will need to be treated with care but if it works I can promise you it will be worth while!No winks ........

I have a very busy work and social life so my time is limited. I will try to respond as soon as possible but it may take some time - or it maybe very soon who can tell!

PS - apologies to any one who replied to a previous advert but I had technical problems.

PPS - ignore the 'Stronginarm' bit - doesn't reflect who we are at all - no idea how that came about.