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hi sweety.
i'm a very new member, so i'll tread carefully so i don't step on any toes. what's the
most inportant thing you have learnt within this forum so far.
welcome to you too!
Do not take this wrong but I rathere get to know the members first its my first day and I want to get it a day at a time! I know what I want but want to learn as well!
Thank you!
Quote by redstilletto
hiya sweety nice to meet you
hounestly i think all women worry about their bodies
we all have are hang ups
im sorry to hear what your hubby did you must be so hurt shocked and angry
big hugz from red
Thank you so much! Yes Iam hurt it feels like somebody died....all the last 12 years I keeped my feeling sexual feelings under rap, we prommised we would never be unfaithfull.....but now in one way it opend my eyes...I only live ones and I want to live it my way, and that it when and wher its up to me now nobody else! Thank you again I hope I will find real friends here!
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Iam shy about my body as well how will I combine the feelings and dream I got with the shyness of my body! I would like to do so much and not feel shy about it!
Hiya Sweety
Welcome to the forums
I know exactly where you're coming from with the shy thing. When I first joined here I kinda felt I was stuck between a rock and a hard place - my body was raring to go and up for it, but my mind was still stuck in 'embarrassed' mode.
What helped me in the end was to say to myself that I did want to give this a shot, just go for it, if it all goes pear shaped then I don't ever have to see or speak to the guy again. Even more frightening was we decided to go to Rios for our first time!!! Was like a rabbit caught in headlights going into that place for the first time :shock: Very weird, meeting someone for the first time and its naked meet ups.
I've mentioned this bit before but it did also help break the ice in a weird way - being the clumsy oaf I am, I tried stepping in the jacuzzi all elegant and ladylike, missed the last step and ended up doing a big belly flop, boobs flying everywhere :lol2: ...... certainly took my mind off the naked issue and onto the mascara now halfway down my face issue! :shock:
Sorry, rambling here, but the mindset I had ( just go for it, I didn't have to see him again and take from it what I wanted) worked for me. Saying that tho - I knew that I was 100% sure I wanted to do it, I was just fighting shyness. If you have any doubts about it, then don't do it. Think about it some more, take your time and only go for it when you are absolutely certain about it. There's no rush, enjoy the journey and the fantasies on the way to the actual event - for some, the fantasy is enough and will stay there. Whatever suits you is right ok
Good luck and in the mean time, enjoy the site :D
Hi! Iam trying to be open as poss! What Iam mainly shy about is I have a big scar on my left breast and it runs in the middle of the breast and it makes me feel not good...ok a few pounds over weight, but I can handle that........its mainly my breast, so how do you over come that.....Iam so ready to meet poeple but thats what stops me!
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Hello Sweety and welcome to the forum
You will find all you desire here and your apparent shyness will disappear quite quickly. The people on here will lift you and inspire you and give you all the confidence you will need. They will welcome you with open arms and help and guide you so that you can find whatever it is you are looking for. I know because I am testament to all of this and have been welcomed here like nowhere else I have ever been before in this so called “normal worldâ€.
Have fun and enjoy.
JudyTV
You look beautifull and good on you!
Thank you for the Welcome! I hope people will like me!
I would love to do it, but be worried being on my own.....will there be more poeple I can chat to and have a drink and chat some more and just do it when Iam comfy, will poeple respect my taking time joining in? Iam in essex so I have not a clu what so ever, but in my heard Iam ready to go and have fun, just this sill feeling embarassed, will poeple help you to guide you into the situation?
Sorry so many questions! Will the other woman help you with your shyness?
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Sorry so many questions! Will the other woman help you with your shyness?
: Oh that was so nice to be so open to me! I will try to be more like that, just will take time I guess! I have giot a bad scar on my breast and that bothers me...I keeped my inner feelings to myself for so many years been faithfull to my hubby, but now its my turn...Iam still a bit in shock but relived as well as I said now I can let my mind run wild I hope!
Thank you so much to you all! I have a question! Iam shy about my body as well how will I combine the feelings and dream I got with the shyness of my body! I would like to do so much and not feel shy about it! Maybe it is because I hide my inner fantasies I dont know! Can anybody help me on this?
