I am a married man who would like stay that way. Unfortunately, as with many people, sex within my marriage is not what it was nor what I would like. I don't want an affair with all the deceit that accompanies that but I am looking to find a way discretely to bring some excitement into my sex life without jeopardising my relationship or anyone else's. I am looking for someone or maybe a couple who may feel the same way and I am grown up enough to be open to new ideas and scenarios. I consider myself presentable, healthy, bright and polite and I'm vasectomised. I want some excitement but don't want to kid anyone that I am in this for anything other than mutual fun. I am hoping to perhaps meet a person or a couple who might be in similar circumstances.I am looking for some new experiences and consider myself to be imaginative, very open minded and I am very comfortable to be just giving as well as receiving.