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tall_dark_n_havesome
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester

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Quote by Mal
I did come across a series of pics from a lady which were really nice. No kebabs, no tits, just face pics with a bit of titilation. I PM'd her and told her how nice it was to come across pics as good as hers. Not a chat up line, not trying to pull, just a genuine compliment. She PM'd back later and seemed 'made up' that someone thought so highly of her pics without an ulterior motive.
Genuine compliments will always be accepted in the way they were intended, so if you want to offer one - do it!
Mal
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I,ll have to try that pulling line!! :twisted:
A pity the old thread hijackers dont allow for some good old sex discussion but hey!
Know exactly the problem...but is it a problem ...and for who???
Mrs Tall takes it as a real compliment if I only last a few minutes..whereas I would love to pump like a piston for ages.....she says that when I do, she gets a tadge sore after a while. We both enjoy long and smoochy. Which is great when we are feeling long and smoochy. Trouble is..if you get to bed feeling really horny..you both might not want long and smoochy. Fortunately I am quite lucky in that recovery time is very quick. Indeed sometimes I dont need any time and just carry on almost immediately. alternatively I turn my hand ..mouth or whatever to her..until I we are both ready again.
Then there is the other extreme..after i have cum two or three times...and get going again..that I pump away like mad and dont get anywhere near cumming. In fact sometimes, when she has cum, I fake it redface
Interesting...Wheras there is a vocal majority who say face pic rather than cock pic. Just did a quick survey of a mans profile that had both . Result. Face pic viewed 166 times. Cock pic viwed 272 times. Cock wins by a full head!
my wife loves to watch, we watch together and I get really turned on at her getting turned on..I like to try and selectones that she will like.
My biggest disappointment is the loss of wit and humour in so many of the threads. The intial excitement and enjoyment when I first joined all seems to have been lost along with many of the posters.
Ithas also sold its soul, I dont blame Mark for selling out...most people would.
But mayb it will manage to stay a cut above the rest...
As a convert to clean shaving...was wondering if anyone can give tips for easy maintenance...Should I use wet shave or electric. and for her??? I have seen the Mac 3 Nitro thread...but does it also do the job for which it is intended??? confused:
well Pololady,
I would love to be your fresh meat, although at 44 I am a little over cooked, but at 6ft and and in the midlands I might be worth a try!!.. by all means take a peek at my ad.. We have exchanged the odd PM..I bet you thought them most odd!, but I dare to say you scarcely remember.
I always enjoy your posts, a woman with balls!!
Heres living in hope that i may get to savour her mintiness!!
G xx

In THESE shoes?????????
I would love to see you running in THOSE shoes!
Fabulous Avatar Alex
And thanks for all your welcomes...now I have to deal with all those naughty thoughts that they stir :twisted:
Whatever should I do about them!!!
Quote by adeymull
iam here to meet some great people who have no holdups .

I much prefer those with holdups! or even better suspenders!
I know he said for the ladies, but I have found that I seem to recover quite quickly, sometimes I have just cum, and a full hard cum, and within a few seconds can start again. A fast repeater I suppose.
Thanks to everyone for the welcome,
just popping off to prop up my ego after the hoped for avalanche of welcomes never materialised !! rolleyes wink
Wanting to have sex is the most natural thing in the is what we are conditioned for, just as we are conditioned to eat. Over the millenia the influence of society has laid down mores in order to protect societies. In order to have a stable society it was found that children needed a stable base. Also men are natuturally territorial , thus the exclusivity of a woman, (or women as in some societies ) became a symbol of that territorial power. Each individual could also have his own territory as wives became chattels. As religions became a dominant factor, these sociological unions were promoted. Christian societies gradually freed the female from being a chattel, but the payback was the promotion of the monogomous couple and the suppression of the natural sex drive to a means of reproduction, albeit a loving one. For centuries the most educated people in society were the clerics, preaching to the lesser educated masses. In the twentieth century the masses became eductaed, and began to challenge the Christian mores. Thus throughout the twentieth century we saw the gradual breakdownof these doctrines of sex. Sex before marriage, contraception, abortion, teenage sex. homosexuality all became accepted as normal. Society has begun to reclaim its sexual intellect. The main problem now however is not the Church, albeit it still has a strong voice over many, but the media, who on the pretext of liberalism, lavish in hypcrisy and sleaze, perpetuating the idea that sex is actually wrong by the production of salacious exposes to sell papers. As the 21st century progresses more and more people are experimenting with their sexuality, but on a more educated basis Sites like this one demonstrate that there are many many people who can have a loving and faithful relationship, but also a sexually open one. For every open liberated couple in here, there are 10 others on the verge of swinging, being held back by guilt, ignorance or the fact that one party is not interested. My prediction is that before 2025 swinging will be considerd as normal as sex out of marriage is considered today. ....just my opinion!
Was just playing with the members searches...and wondered if there was any way that you can jump to a page other than the next three or the last three. With nearly 700 pages it would take ages to get to page 300, ie if it was an alphabetical search by location, those as M for midlands will take ages!
Hopefully waiting
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havn,t been in the forum for quite some time, looks all rather different...Have you had a new carpet???
...must pop off to update my ad...age is now out of date!
XX for all those that remember me! (is this a reverse flounce?)
Not sure if I should give secrets away, but I cant believe how many women, sometimes complete strangers, have told me I smell great when wearing Allure! It does get quite embarrasingwhen they just come and take a huge sniff close up!
...of cours if any of you girls would like to try for yourself!!!
what a lovely thought jags..working up slooooowly...working down..working up..working down...endlessly lazily, sensually, passionately, frantically, wildly..uncontrollably..and then collapsing together..before slowly but shorely things start to stir and move again....Oh god I should be working!!
Once more the old chestnut of swingers versus casual sex. the site is ultimately about sex, and is geared towards the swinging lifestyle, but is open to everyone and anyone as long as you abide by the rules. The ads cater for the complete spectrum of desires. I have found that being honest with the people on here, with the courtesy of a little time spent on your ad means that you get a good response. I have very rarely ever had people reply when I responded to their ad, for I am one in thousands, but have met a number of very special people who have responded to my ad.
just a few idle thoughts to while away the day!
I recently met a lady in a hotel about 20 miles north of me. Nothing unusual in that. But then the following day my brother rang me at work. He lives 120 miles south of me. but told me that he had had just got a job in the town 20 miles North (being discreet here in case anyone recognises this!) . He told me he went to book into a hoter...only to find he was already booked in!! We obviously share the same surname, but also the same initial! He spent ages convincing them that he was not me and had not booked the room. But I had a devil of a job explaining to him why I had booked a hotel room 20 miles from my house...and yet he spoke to me at home that evening...Dooo do Dooo do doo do...or is it a case of your sins will find you out... Strange but true!!! redface
Rather confused here. I put in a post on here referring to a Dogging location given on the SH site. But the mods censored it. I reread the rules on posts and whereas I understand the need for discretion over actual locations and times, when making a general reference to a named venue on the site (ie I didnt refer to the exact dogging location which is in fact off the road I mentioned) I was surprised that it was censored.
I will probably be put in place now though.....
Perhaps we could try Verification!!!
Seriously, a dogger here who is naughty, but have only ever had one true experience, and that was my first ever time! nds , but it seems that all the "known " sites have become No No's, So I would love to be given the chance to prove I am NOT a timewaster. and would love to play with couples in the midlands.
What I would ask is that if you are a couple looking for doggers, Drop me a PM, we can get chatting, and hopefully build up a bit of trust, then when you are out and about I can let you know if I can make it.
I remember plucking up the courage to go dogging for the first time 12 months ago. saw the XXXXXXXXX venue as referenced on this website, Thought, well thats local enough. Arrived, and a range rover was there with a couple in. Followed the necessary etiquette and Bingo. Talk about first time lucky!!. But now I realise it WAS first time lucky. Because since ...despite lots of visits...and lots of waiting..nothing, but more alarming is that a few months ago, all along the lane, mounds of earth have appeared, and a the main venue large lumps of concrete have been deposited all along the pavement.. Presumably put there by the council. Then last week I visited one of the few Birmingham sites publicised on here. The Council had put a tree across the car park entrance. Now why are the Council getting so worried about what happens in quiet country lanes or out of sight car paks between consenting adults!. I wish they would worry more about the bloody dustmen never putting the lids back on my bins!
So if anyone can recommend any good dogging sites near Brum/Warwickshire I would be grateful for a PM..or even better if any naughty couples want to invite me!!
Lets look forward to the day when Dogging isnt sensational news, and is as acceptable as sex before marriage, livving together or being homosexual.
Well I have just been looking at Vix's and Recce's wedding pics and so I am postively gleaming and grinning!!
Congratulations to the two of you!
Quote by Alexandra
I would dearly love to be a little lighter and trimmer but at the end of the day - I am the person inside, and that is the same person who was inside the slim version of years ago. So I hope people will always take me for who I am and not the outer shell. I still have bouts of lacking self confidence but I hope I don't show it too often anymore.
It's funny though - many people who have known both versions say that I suit the more rounded shape. Normally it's the blokes and they are talking about the boobs though! Ho Hum!
I have just realised - I have probably just been talking a load of garbage that has no relevance to the topic.
Bigs hugs!
Alex x x x

Alex, I think you are just lovely as you are....