Thanks again it was agreat to meet some more new faces as well as one or two old ones!
Sorry to have run off early.
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Nowadays you see women at such clubs normally as couples. First many are very smart and not sleazy. Me my friends and colleagues have spent £000' in one evening on drinks girls and tips. Most of my experience has been via corporate hospitality. It can be very pleasant if the company is right. I even been and not had a private dance. I would say give it ago but it can be a very expensive night if your not carefull
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tazman
Hi I’m Tazman a newbie
Very interested in getting to know the local club scene. Any advice? Just looked @ club wicked!! Web site, it looks wickedly good. Anybody got any personal experiences they might like to share. Particularly want to explore the fetish side of my hidden personality always thought it would be great fun but never had the bottle. Plus are there any members that meet regular for such events. Think the dress code is brilliant!
Ps I'm based in london so anything within say 30miles would be of real interest.
Your comments greatly appreciated
Taz the man
Very interested in getting to know the local club scene. Any advice? Just looked @ club wicked!! Web site, it looks wickedly good. Anybody got any personal experiences they might like to share. Particularly want to explore the fetish side of my hidden personality always thought it would be great fun but never had the bottle. Plus are there any members that meet regular for such events. Think the dress code is brilliant!
Ps I'm based in london so anything within say 30miles would be of real interest.
Your comments greatly appreciated
Taz the man
Quote by J3diMast3r
A great topic,...I thought that swinging was about having sex without having the emotional ties.. It seems to me that women that are only looking for single males are potentially looking for a relationship.
It has brought out some good comments.
It's not black and white I don't think. I came here to explore sides of me as yet unexplored. (They're explored now about which I am rather pleased!) And yes, like many women here I love the liberation and honesty of the lifestyle. I could no longer consider getting my kicks from picking someone up, drunk and late in a smoky bar. Earch. How could I.
But I also recognise in me the desire to share my home with someone again and so I'm still seeking in the vanilla world. THAT'S the one where it's very difficult to make connections.
And I also recognise that a little part of me kinda hopes a SH contact might one day become more.
You see - that's women for you. We just want it every which way we can!!!
Jezzay.
Very good topic and something that's crossed my mind occassionally ... say a single guy/girl meets another single here or through a munch, how do you know that he/she is possibly looking for a relationship? So you never ask the question because both of you think they only want NSA meets and you don't want to place them in an awkward position? In fact, it may well be that swinger sites/clubs are the wrong place to look for long term? Then again, as a swinger, would you go vanilla if in a relationship? If you're both swinging, implies not, which contradicts my earlier point, so this would therefore be a good place to meet potential partners.
Not sure ...
Question for Zezzay;
what type of commitment are you looking for? What would that commitment mean for your partner? You see I might be happy to share your bed, become swinging partners and real good friends. You see for me its all about friendship that counts. Once it becomes demanding then its no fun! You must be free!
A great topic,
Well for what’s its worth here are my thoughts.
I thought that swinging was about having sex without having the emotional ties. Males, females enjoying them selves without the guilt trips (Adam & Eve scenario). It seems to me that women that are only looking for single males are potentially looking for a relationship. One of the attractions of a site like this is to meet like-minded people. I love women and want relationships based on friendships but without the ball and chain I, people understanding from the out-set what the expectations are.
Well-done denisebabe great topic
regards
Tazman
Well for what’s its worth here are my thoughts.
I thought that swinging was about having sex without having the emotional ties. Males, females enjoying them selves without the guilt trips (Adam & Eve scenario). It seems to me that women that are only looking for single males are potentially looking for a relationship. One of the attractions of a site like this is to meet like-minded people. I love women and want relationships based on friendships but without the ball and chain I, people understanding from the out-set what the expectations are.
Well-done denisebabe great topic
regards
Tazman
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