I'm with Steve From Hockley (the originator of this thread) on this one.
Tell me...Why don't people on here fill out their profiles correctly? If you don't want to meet a 'Straight Male' then take it off your profile!
When I fill out a search criteria I only ask for people interested in a 'Straight Male' and then when I approach them they haven't even the decency to answer.
I've pretty much given up on mailing people on here, I'm polite, have my profile filled in and always read what the advertiser wants before approaching them....but still no replies.
Both my (female) partner and I (male) play separately and neither of us have our photo on here because we are professional people who need to be careful. We always send pictures to a private email address ....why wouldn't we?? We do want to meet people as well.!!
They should call this 'Secret Heaven' as most of the people on here are exactly that and simply reduce the swinging community down to a select few and then complain when they run out of 'meets'.
We personally have more success going to a club but to be honest that can get expensive when you add up the travelling, entrance fees and staying over costs.