Hi, we are still looking and havent met anyone yet! We are a happily married couple just looking to add a bit of extra spice to our sexual relationship. We are genuine, nice, respectful people and would like to meet a similar couple. Our ideal couple would be an attractive couple around our own age, someone we could perhaps share a weekend away with and become friends with. We are totally non pushy and respectful of other people. Friendship is important, although we don't want to let it take over and dominate our lives, which are already very busy and hectic! We don't want to waste peoples time so feel it best to say up front what we would want from a sexual encounter. We both feel that separate rooms would suit us better as we don't want to be distracted by what our partner is up to! We both hate condoms and male has had a vascectomy. It would be nice if we could meet with a couple in the same position and who we could trust enough to make condoms unnecessary. We can only speak for ourselves and say we are totally dd free. I suppose we would expect to perhaps exchange photos and then arrange a meeting for a drink and a chat to see how we all get along. If this sounds like you drop us a are from the Dartford area. Best wishes D & L