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Ermmmmmm where is the spell check????? lol

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How about going to swinging clubs... does that not equate to "paying for sex"? Assuming that one does get to have sex (I know sex it's not guaranteed etc. but for the sake of the argument etc. etc.)

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Has the linked post been carbon dated?

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It might be old and the figures out of date, but the advice is just as relevant.

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Maybe but why you quoted me I have no idea as it has nothing to do with what I was saying :-?

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Sinclair C5
ZX Spectrum.... The list is endless....

Quote by Trevaunance
There's a thread somewhere with advice for single guys, from years ago. I can't be bothered to search for it but one of the long-standing members might remember who wrote it? :giggle:

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There's a thread somewhere with advice for single guys, from years ago. I can't be bothered to search for it but one of the long-standing members might remember who wrote it? :giggle:

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Sorry to say... the government are not forthcoming with help/recognition for carers.
I have 3 children and 2 of them have disabilities, my son has Autistic Spectrum Disorder and ADHD and my eldest daughter has mosaicism, global developmental delay (mental age of 6,restricted physical growth) Is severely epileptic and partially blind.. I FIGHT to get the help and I have to say it's probably because I have been living on my own for 8 years that I get recognition because I pester the hell out of social services. Unfortunately they don't offer the same help for married couples as I have friends in similar circumstances but where they're married with jobs and they don't get recognition as carers let alone support.
My eldest daughter goes to respite in a care home to give me a break and my son goes to a family link foster care placement. I had to fight to get it but eventually we got round to sorting it all out and I don't know what I would do without the break, to be honest! I'd probably get very run down!

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I'm not in denial at all, I/we dont use other swinging sites, here works just nice.
If you dont use other places how can you judge

You've missed a fundamental difference re the other site(s) they're not businesses by virtue of the fact that they don't charge a subscription and as such they are not a business and do not compete on the same terms.
Just like this one was once
£ for £ here offers excellent value for money and after having just scoured another well known site I can tell ya it's pants to what is offer on here and it's rubbish in it's layout with it's chat the pits, in fact I can see why it's free, YUK!
Ive looked around around most of the other sites over the years but only use one. One I noted was utter shit so complicated it was just stupid. However the main one, the one thats now overtaken this site for most search terms on google and is 50 times busier (sweeping generalisation made my me ) does ok for us. Chat is functional which is all I need if I ever use it much which I dont. TBH couldent couldent give a toss about the font styles lay outs or colour :lol: £ for £ free will always win if it does a half decent job and that is the only reason we are still here cus its free as we have an old account. I took extras here once and never again yet we keep the equivelent service on the other site going 90% of the time. People always have prefferences nothing wrong with that but what I do note from speaking to people at clubs and in messages is that this site is now certainly 2nd fiddle possibly 3rd. The amount of people that we meet that are on this site is minimal most people have heard of it but say "Ohh yeh but you have to pay" and they didnt join for that reason. Where as 90%^ of the people we meet are on the main competitors site. From the people we know here that are also on other sites a VAST majority say one of the other sites provides better results for meets. Any site can work but from what we find in messages and when we are out and about is generally other places to this are found to yield much better results
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I,M a good looking guy who's not short of a few bob. All I want to do is invite a fit lady to have champagne licked from her pussy. What am I doing wrong! James x

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I,M a good looking guy who's not short of a few bob. All I want to do is invite a fit lady to have champagne licked from her pussy. What am I doing wrong! James x

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In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?

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I'm from Yorkshire, I don't pay for owt.

Quote by Funlovers2009
You can't make a sweeping statement about all carers and what they are or not entitled to as it depends on situations.

Quote by starlightcouple
some come here for the money and some do not. but what i would say and i think that this would somewhat side in a way with mids is, name me a single " world class player " that has come from abroad to play in the EPL?
players have become world class and then left to play abroad, but can anyone at all name a single player who was/is in the top fifty players in the world who has come to this country to ply there trade, that were deemed world class?
many world class players have turned down the opportunity to play here. so can anyone name a world class player? not what a person would presume to be world class, but what the experts would say.
chelsea and manchester city have signed some great players, but world class ones? arsenal have signed many players that went on to become world class players, henry, febregas, van persie to name just 3, but they never came to arsenal being world class.
i would love someone to give me some names.

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I have as good a chance as anyone else

Quote by awol
if you think that we cannot teach even the best footballer something new here in England then you don't know much about footballm yes we teach them well.

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The Premiership is acknowledged to be the best league in the world

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funny this, maybe not....I know it was aimed at the girls, but let's share..I have, over the last few years, had more than a fair share of sex and orgasms...now I don't usually look for orgasms, but, using various "pills" which will keep me erect when, lets say, I don't actually fancy the person I'm performing for, I have , on occasions, suffered quite intense headaches when reaching orgasm.....although I must admit that it's more likely when I'm actually really into the person I'm with. From the information 'laine supplied I think it's highly possible that people using viagra, or other performance enhancing drugs, are putting themselves at risk. These headaches are not just something to ignore, well not if they are a regular occurence.

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The best factor in sex me and my wife now have is the fact that we haven't seen each other in 15 years and so now I have great sex

Quote by Lizaleanrob
As he approached with those pasty white arms hanging out of his Gola vest, his smile told me it was benefit day and I knew my velour tracksuit would be hanging off the lamp shade tonight." "It was Dwayne's birthday. I was preparing his special tea of Findus Crispy Pancakes and Pot Noodle. I would let him take me any way he wanted tonight. His favourite position was what he called The Dogs of War. Where he took me from behind and played Call of Duty at the same time." "Our 6 week anniversary was approaching. This would be my longest relationship without becoming pregnant. I thought of this as he lay on top of me making love. His skinny arms straddled my head like breadsticks either side of an orange. As I rubbed his whiter than white back I imagined every mole I felt was spelling out Braille for I love you" "As I stood in line at the Job Centre thinking of reasons I couldn't work, a sweet smell drifted past my pig like nostrils. It was a mixture of weed, B.O and Lynx Africa. I turned around and there was Dwayne. Our eyes met and he was soon lifting me onto the wheelie bins behind the Iceland. He had tied up his Staffy to block the ally way so we wouldn't be disturbed. There was a tramp watching but it just added to the mystery. I knew it was love and my life would never be the same." "My mum had told me to leave Dwayne many times due to the violence but I knew he loved me as he always took his rings off before he hit me. Tonight though he was in a foul mood, I had fucked his tea up after failing to de-frost his prawn ring I had nicked from farm foods. He picked up the power lead from my kids mega drive and whipped it across my arse. It stung but I liked it. I shouted again again so he carried on. I thought my shell suit would rip into a million pieces. As I looked over my shoulder I saw his Weetabix toothed smile. He even had a semi on which rare as the crack normally played havoc with his erections.

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Stagerlee, you have me stumped on this one..... wtf does it mean?
On the other point, the question asked, I do believe that kids home from school is a biggy in folks being able to organise free playtime....it's not just that they can't organise it, but parents have a mindset that's actually influenced by thoughts of caring for their offspring.

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It's no wonder that the general populace is totally disenchanted (to put it mildly) with politics in the UK. There is very little difference between any of the parties and fewer and fewer MPs have any real life experience, being career politicians.
We need to see some long term policies, not the short term vote winning policies usually introduced by the Government of the day and we also need to get away from the attritional form of opposition and have all political parties working together for the benefit of the country.
And pigs may fly!