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Well bloody hell. All I can say is as long as your'e OK and lifes on the up then that's good enough for us. Hopefully we'll catch up and see each at some point. Good to see you Tweeky
I see you are on the list for the 10th so no doubt see you there! Thats looking to be quite a party 
Will be fun and so glad to be a part of it :mrgreen: Quote by Trevaunance
Welcome back.
There can be no doubting that your life has changed a lot since you have been gone, but you sound perky enough. Good luck to you wherever you go.
Yeh I am quite perky lol. I'm actually now quite enjoying the days I get where I can just walk out the door and go where ever the bloody hell I want with no prior planning needed. Ive already got a list of things booked and looking at more. Need to get abroad sometime soon! Nice to be back and thats part of the reason for forum post 4000. Ive 99% decided that in the long run I dont wish to be part of the scene anymore. I think Ive pretty much done everything I wanted to do and there is not a lot now that I have not seen if not taken part in. That said! I'm a sociable kind of chap and have had some great evenings with the folk here at SH so I thought until the time comes there aint nothing wrong with being involved in the scene socially. Its where I began its where I had fun and it sure seems like a good way to go out :D So post 4001 will be to add my name to the SH 10th anniversary list and post 4002 maybe for swing camp :D Anyone I have not had the pleasure of meeting it will be good to see you should you be around. Hell you know I could even host an event in Bristol ..... watches tumble weeds 
No doubt I'll post a bit on the fourms now I'm back around. I maybe jumped the gun in that department but I am now more than ready for whatever life brings my way. Quote by Steve
As I have seen people sat outside hospital wards with lung disease, heat problems and amputated legs due to smoking still sat there smoking away some people obviously choose die.
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I know I said I wasn't going to repeat things I've said in previous threads (and I know that this encouraging the off topic debate!), but given that others have set out their views in detail, here's my two penneth worth...
I don't believe in the idea of a universal morality. I believe that everyone has their own unique moral code, which is developed by a combination of factors and experiences, including upbringing, social environment, social conditioning, life experiences, and a raft of other internal and external influences.
There are, of course, majority views on right and wrong in every society. But, alongside these more widespread moral norms are our own, internal moral norms, which we each develop individually. Different people are influenced to different degrees by external factors like what is considered within society to be right or wrong. But, ultimately, each of us will make decisions based on what we believe is right or wrong.
So, provided you make your decisions based on what you feel is morally acceptable for you, why should you care what anyone else thinks? We cannot live our lives based on what is right for others; we can only strive to do what is right for us.
So, if you feel comfortable playing with someone who is in a relationship where their partner either doesn't know or does know but doesn't want to play, then go for it. If not, then don't.
I do agree that if you only want to play with genuine singles, genuine couples, and/or one part of a couple where the other person consents, it does make things difficult when someone is not 100% honest about their status on their profile. However, it is not possible to control the decisions and actions of others and there's only so much we can do to check that a person we are speaking to on the site is being genuine and upfront.
Ultimately, each one of us needs to decide the extent to which we feel comfortable to meet with and/or play with and/or communicate with any other person that we meet through this site. For some people, the risk of unwittingly participating in "cheating" may be enough to put them off a site like this altogether. For others, it may be enough to follow their own rules and try their best.
Whatever is right for you, I'd like to think that this is the kind of environment where people can have fun without worrying about being judged.
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... the mere fact most of us are here in the first place shows what we think of certain fairly basic societal norms, claiming a right to make moral decisions re: our sexuality and the expression of it for ourselves regardless of what wider society might think.
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I bought one of the e-cigs back in February and stopped using the normal cigs immediately, and can say that I did not miss smoking, or the smell that goes with them.
The initial outlay to buy the e-cig is quite high (around £60 depending on model and where you get it from) but after that, the weekly running costs are around £5 a week (less than one day's cig costs). I had the totally wicked tank type (menthol liquid) and can honestly say, I enjoyed using it. It satisfied the nicotine craving, it tasted nice (methol) and I didnt have the stale smoke smell on my clothes.
However, be aware that even with the e-cigs you are still (technically) getting exactly the same amount of nicotine as you would smoking. Ok, you are not getting the rest of the rubbish that goes with smoking (carbon monoxide, tar etc etc), but Nicotine is HIGLY ddictive and still very dangerous to your health. Also, I would check with your doctor about the safety of using this with the Zyban, as I understand the aim of the Zyban (same as the Champix) is to kill of all those little nicotine gremlins and reduce the pleasure you get from getting nicotine into your system.
I really do wish you all the luck in the world in stopping and hopefully I will be joining you soon, as I started smoking again around 6 weeks ago and dont want to carry on doing it.
People just gave up like my Granparents who smoked for 55 years then gave up with no patchs gum tablets or whatever. I think maybe people are better off when there is no magic pill/gum/patch and you are forced into the reality of give up or die. As I have seen people sat outside hospital wards with lung disease, heat problems and amputated legs due to smoking still sat there smoking away some people obviously choose die. Quote by Staggerlee_BB
Just for those of you soooooo keen to get that new i-phone .... a little pause for thought
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Jeepers, I wish mine would hurry up *sulk*
Ordered day of them coming out (last week) given a date of mid-october, that's just pants but it's done.
But there are two more options, try your luck in-store at Apple by walking in and asking them to sell you one (64g Black is the one i wants) and 'no chance' I mean what the feck is that all about? I want a phone, they have them for sale (sim free) it's a £1 short of £700 and they're 'we're only doing 'reserve for next day' GRRRR how irritating is that ..
So, come home after checking the phone out in-store and making myself even more irritated *smiling* cos I can't have one, and the store opens to 8pm most nights (one of my local apple stores)..so I have to 'reserve one' for the next day...but still no fecking guarantee *grumble* to reserve one you have to go online between 9am and 5pm, pick the one you one, hit the reserve button and you get to a page that says 'thanks for reserving, if you receive an email by 9pm this evening it will be for a collection time for the following day in-store ....more grrrrrr! I've done that for the past few days and I still aint got my email ...bloomin eck I want me new phone now!
I've reserved the phone and all three stores close to me (well, within driving distance) and still nothing and I'm still having to wait for the October 18th. I shall carry on trying to reserve but it's getting on my tits and my tits, southwards heading...well, they take some gettin on I tell ya.
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As for the phone, what a phone, it's fab, feels great in the hand, I don't mind a bit of thickness once in a while *twitch* but the iphone5 is lighter, slimmer and a bit longer, if only my mans winky was similar *cough* ...and it does feel significantly different once in my mitts.
It's much quicker, seems brighter, the new ios6 with air-drop and all that, wow! but one main difference I really think is good (well a few actually) is the camera, it is infinitely faster than my iphone4, both in taking pics and storing them/opening them and although I haven't been able to see on my iMac yet what a pic from the iPhone5 is like in panoramic view...it looks good already, point, shoot and follow the line on the screen as you go around the room and when it stops you've got your panoramic shot, well impressed.
I could go on ...but for now and until i get my iPhone5 I wont ...and to those that have them, I salute you *salute*, to all those that have an excess of them (more than they require)...well you can kiss my patooty and to all those that want them but haven't yet been able to get one...well, come close (pulls you in close) we'll mourn together.
I couldn't leave this post without a small mention of Android *smiling* go bury your heads and lament your relics, iPhone5 is here
Now, where is that reserve button again.
I shall be trying that reserve button, I'll do it with my Android :P Nothing I love more than a desperado with a wad full of cash. Lets hope they stay under stocked for a while. Quote by xxxmsxxx
Tried e-Lites a few times. I bought the starter pack and a few tips from the www, but my local corner-shop started selling them about two weeks after that. Personally I don't rate them. The 'smoke' is harsh and tastes slightly antiseptic. I don't think they have much nicotine in them either.
I bought a Vapestick from Tesco Pharmacy and what a difference. Lovely nutty taste and a good hit. However, it ran out after a day as I just kept puffing on it. At £10 it ended up costing more than 20 cigarettes.
I think what most offends me about e-cigs is that they are just as vilified as normal cigarettes in public, so, ultimately pointless.
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You could tell her that whilst she also thought you had a happy marriage for the last 30 years the last 7 years of it have included you paying to be a member of a swingers site on your own and actively seeking to play without her ......
Now the result of that admission would be very interesting
is that really any worse than a secret porn collection...? Just being on the site isn't really a big deal, is it now...? Quote by Jboss
Its really interesting listening to peoples stories. I have only had two couples meets off here, one was great the other was not so great.
The first one was great cos we all got on brilliantly, found the whole experience quite amusing, and the vibe between the couple was wonderful to be around
The second one was not so good as the couple didn't communicate with each other very well. When we got down to it, he then refused to have sex with her, which was all very bizarre, and really upset her. Then in the morning they were digging at each other even more, to the extent i would say they were arguing. Then she ended up in tears as she was upset about something they had done together previously. He took photos of the night, but then refused to let me have copies unless I went to see him one on one.
When you cant keep a lid on it in front of other people though then I think your just doing damage to each other. Quote by Dawnie
Reflex, its probably not what you're looking for but its bloody excellent :lol2:
that gets blue paint on you is Irish and stinks (Thought smurfs were welsh ) Quote by anais
In the episode she appeared in, she was wearing a Dalek.........let's hope the Doctor has a can opener on that sonic screwdiver of his.
We dont always get one so when you do get one or in your case two then maybe its that time to show yourself some self respect and kick the habbit. Its all in the mind and will. Long before patchs and gum there was just the mind and will power. I coughed blood that planted the give up seed and I just went cold turkey no patchs no gum no e-cigs. Your call, your mind, your will. Quote by Lilith
It appears that very broadly there are those that need some kind of visual aesthetic attraction prior to play and then those that don't or can work with personality alone. Ive said to Mrs Tweeky in the past, wish I was less picky, wish I was bi
Active swinging saw a decrease in the compliments, dont wanna get snagged do ya ladies :scared: Quote by cool4catz
If you believe there is a positive correlation between 'looks' and sexual ability we know that isn't true, and most real swingers we have met also understand the fallacy of that view. If you have a great sexual encounter with a third party, couple or group, you'll remember how much you enjoyed that long after you have forgotten whether they would have made the front cover of Vogue or Men's Health.
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More choice then :lol: but sadly that's just not the way I am. Quote by cool4catz
Well, you did ask.....
Berni Flint Blank expression
The Moog errr noooo
Cough Candy Yeh for sure
The Reynolds Girls Not at our school
Cola Floats Is that in water? I thought it would dilute?
Writing letters Yeh, I write all mine in CAPITALS
The London Boys No idea!
Ted Moult Ermm your doing well here
Andy Peebles (Pie)Dang your good at this
Joe Lyn Turner An expert in fact!
PVC Trousers Ah ha I know one :)
Frank Wright T-Bag Loafers ...... no
David Milliband He's one of them poalmatition things
....we'll get our coats
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and what about this one!
I was little and always wanted them to win the bin :twisted: Quote by flower411
About my post ... I didnt mean to offend anyone but typed what I felt at the time after having served up close to know what im talking about. I dont particularly agree with the reasons why we are still their these days but why we entered in both 1991 and after 9/11 seems to be forgotten with some responses to my post.
I dont usually rant at all, but one of the things I have to defend is when I read things that completely ignore the work I and our forces have/are doing to keep all as safe in bed every night as is possible. Someone has to do the dirty work to ensure that happens.
I could have been clearer in my meaning of "3rd world" and "cowards", although it would still be a 3rd world country without any war going on.
When I said "cowards" i simply meant by blowing innocents up, shooting from mosques, using women and children as cover etc etc
But moving on ... I think its fantastic that someone with the position and comforts Harry has at his beckon is man enough to serve .. and also the Queen for sending her grandchild to carry out his duty;.
My attitude has its moments but I am man enough to either explain them and if wrong amend any, I realise that type doesnt always convey the nature of things too.
But hey ... it'd be boring if everyone were the same surely.
Have a good weekend everyone and stay safe
J
