So I've been on this site for quite a while now and have definitely found my feet and am loving meeting some great people.

I have been in scene for a while and having recently returned from a trip to Cap D'adge attitudes to sex in Europe are completely different to here in the United Kingdom.  A whole Village of liberated people where nearly nothing looks out of place, the couple out for a meal in jeans and jumper did stick out more than the guy on a lead.   Time to start planning next years trip,  if anyone fancy joining .  

I am lucky enough to have been to a number of clubs both locally and across the country, some great some not so.   Current favourites are probably Abfabs, Hellfire and VA also like to chill out at BGHS not the greatest for swinging, if you've been you'll understand.

As well as or part going to clubs I tend to enjoy most sexual activity between consenting adults as long as everyone is getting something out of it.   I particularly in enjoy giving oral as the user name may have given a clue, my biggest compliment has to be being compared to a girl in this department.   Whilst one on one is fun, I am keen on threesomes, which offers plenty of scenarios and combinations to explore.  I am not Bi in anyway but really don't have any problems with anyone who is, it's just doesn't do it for me.     I do also have a think for voyeurism, I know not everyone get it but find it can be pretty horny watching others who are getting turned on by being watched, this can either from a discrete distance or up close enough to feel each other breath but without touching (?unless invited) subtle eye contact with one or both.  As I said the List of thing I enjoy could go on and on, pretty open to try most thing. 

I know this has been pretty much about what I like, but to me the key more about others getting enjoyment more a giver than receiver.

If you've managed to get this far,  chances are you a re genuine and therefore I would love to hear from you. I like to think I am not prejudice, it usually comes down to if you hit it off or not.