my thoughts exactly

not so serious as very few people send winks I think

correction-it must have been a wink.  I hit wink in error a few days ago, and it can't be deleted so I sent a quick apology by mail.  after sending it, I noticed an automatic "i'd like to know' mail had been sent already

Regarding the Standard Message thing, I was on Swing for a full year before I knew that clicking a 'like' button triggered the "I'd like to know more" mail.  I wouldn't knowingly send that message to anyone, but I had no idea that I have done, many times.  It would help if they let you know that