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5 Jan 2009

Quote by Dave__Notts
I am now getting confused.
Did your partner put her heart into one PM that you then cut and paste to anyone that took your fancy
or
Did your partner put her heart into replying to individual adverts/profiles where her reply was individual to the advert/profile
Dave_Notts

The second example. Very much so.
Remember in any case that I'm talking about unread messages so the content wouldn't have made any difference as it turns out.
I hope I don't sound like a complete moan :cry:

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5 Jan 2009

Quote by Steve
Iwas making a general statement for the benefit (mainly) of the OP...

"You reap what you sow" seemed to be aimed at us and very unfairly. It was my partner that sent messages and she put her heart into them. I'm gutted for her that the vast majority have gone unread, never mind unanswered. I fear the OP would have the same experience unless it's ours that's an anomally?
Thanks for the subsequent post though. wink

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5 Jan 2009

Quote by Steve

So, I'd go for a decently written (i.e. not a mass cut-and-paste job) private message.

No doubt that's good advice, but in practice it's too time consuming to put the effort into a PM when there's a higher than 50% chance (on the basis of our experience) that it won't even be read. sad

Well if you cant put the effort into a PM then it may appear to some that you cant be bothered to put any effort into making any meet worth while dunno

You reap what you sow....
Bit of a stupid reply given that my contribution clearly shows we HAVE put a lot of effort into PM's but have seen them left unread.
It took a lot of effort before the demoralisation set in.

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4 Jan 2009

Quote by noladreams30

So, I'd go for a decently written (i.e. not a mass cut-and-paste job) private message.

No doubt that's good advice, but in practice it's too time consuming to put the effort into a PM when there's a higher than 50% chance (on the basis of our experience) that it won't even be read. sad

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