It started when my wife found some sluttish female underwear in the garage shoved into a box. When I got home I was quizzed about it. At first I denied all knowledge. Then I made up a stupid story about buying a job lot of stuff to sell at a car boot. She wasn't buying it. She kept on. In the end I told her they were mine, I'd purchase them because I got a thrill out of wearing in them. Fair to say she was shocked. Personally I was glad it was out in the open.
Almost over night our relationship shifted. Gradually over the next few months she became more vocal and I became less so. The dynamic between us changed. She was making the decisions and I was just going with them.
Naturally our sex life suffered. It was not brill before, but now became practically non existent.
My sex life revolved around me dressing up and playing with myself. So frustrated I mentioned swinging in the hope this would reignite our sex life. She said little, but to my surprise looked into it and found a UK website. We discussed placing an advert, about a week later shed worded an advert. Almost immediately we received several replies from men and couples. The first couple weeks met were very much like ourselves not hardened swingers but newbies. We felt comfortable with them. Meet them socially first and then invited them to our home. Over the next 18 months we meet two more couples and one guy. He advertised himself as a bisexual Dom. He was good looking, fit and intelligent and amazingly normal. We chatted via email, and the topic of how we got into swinging came up. So I told him about my cross dressing. He said it would surprise me the number of men he'd come across who were cross dressers. We talked about it and he asked had I thought about sissfication. I knew what he meant but I pretended I hadn't. He said he'd be happy to cuckold me and, if we both choose to meet him, he wouldn't mention it to my wife, for the time being it would be between us. Two weeks later I sat across from him while he spanked my wife over his knee in a hotel on the A1, before having sex with her twice. It was the most erotic thing I'd ever witnessed. I still jack off to the memory of that Evening.
