I just had an e-Mail from one half of a couple I used to meet with on a fairly regular basis, and it prompted me to write up some of our fun times together at theirs. This however is my very first time, when I just met one of them. I was in my mid 30's when I got chatting to someone in one of the early gay chat rooms. Ben (not his real name) seemed like a friendly and naughty guy in his mid 50's. He described himself as retired, with a partner a couple of years younger who still worked, so he had the freedom of their house during the day. From our chats I found out he was mainly a giver who loved rough, hard kissing, sucking and rimming. His big fetish though was for very rough nipple play, to the extent that he could only cum when having his punished hard. I told him that I was into older men and loved to kiss and be sucked and licked. Was was not into anal at that point in time, but had enjoyed meeting a couple of guys who had used restraints and dished out spankings One day we were both at home alone and having a horny message exchange. I promised him a treat in return for his email. When he opened the pic I sent he immediately replied asking if I was free right there and then. I think it was the pic I sent him of my chest, with a wooden clothes peg on one nipple and a bulldog clip on the other! After a shower I drove the 35 miles to a small detached house in a cul de sac. Opening the door was a shortish, stocky guy with a full head of hair and a bushy mustache. Ben welcomed me in and even as as the door was still closing pulled me in for a kiss. He smelt of soap and a light cologne and his tongue was fresh and minty as it explored my mouth. This was no gentle introduction, as he forced my lips open with his powerful tongue and pulled me hard against him, squashing my throbbing erection against his body. As we kissed his hands roamed over me and soon found my nipples, hard and erect under my t shirt. Without breaking from our kiss he began to tweak and pinch them. The little shocks of pain were thrilling and I let out a muffled gasp each time he did it. After a few moments he finally broke off from our kiss and pulled my t shirt off over my head. Immediately his mouth was on my nipple and his lips and tongue were soon replaced with teeth, biting and pulling on me. I was amazed how horny this made me, and was desperate to drop my jeans and release my cock, but when I tried Ben batted my hands away. He swapped from nipple to nipple, biting and twisting, not saying a word but grunting with pleasure, the sound mixed with my moans and gasps. Just when I thought my legs might give out he lifted his head to look into my eyes, grabbed the back of my head and kissed me even harder and rougher than before. Eventually I was able to mumble that I wanted us to get undressed, so he released me from the position he had me pinned in up against the door and led me to the bedroom. There we quickly stripped and got onto the bed. He was stocky and hairy, with a small but regular thickness cock. Once on the bed we began kissing and exploring each others bodies. His hands were big and nothing he did was gentle, be it grasping the shaft of my swollen cock, squeezing my balls or pushing an inquiring finger between my cheeks to explore my hole. By now I was flat on my back, legs wide apart and Ben was kissing and biting my inner thighs. Finally he licked his way up from my balls and took my cock in his mouth. He really was an expert cock sucker and also able to deep-throat my whole length, which felt incredible. The second time he did this he also slid on of his thick fingers up inside my arsehole. The unexpected pressure and pain made me yelp and flinch, causing him to gag a little. He withdrew and said that now was probably the right time for him to stop me moving so much. With that he went to a drawer and took out a couple of ties, which were bound around my ankles and then, after he had turned me over onto my stomach, were tied to the end of the bed. Next he took out a belt and another tie. The latter was used to bind my hands behind my back, before a cushion was pushed under me to lift me up. Ben now got between my thighs and pulled my arse cheeks wide open. Soon his thick tongue was licking from my balls to the base of my spine, paying extra attention to my hole on each pass. I was moaning and pleading for more, and soon was rewarded with his finger back inside me, but this time with him biting my arse cheeks for an extra thrill of pain. After finger fucking my like this for a few moments more he broke off, and I felt a hard object against my hole. It was rubbed up and down a few times before Ben lent over and held it out, telling me to make it wet. He was holding a small, thin black dildo in front of my face and I obliged by opening my mouth and giving it my best blowjob technique. Ben seemed to love this and encouraged me to do more. Once it was wet he took the dildo back and inserted it back into my arse, using it to fuck me. I was so turned on at this point that my usual reluctance to do anal was gone and, had he decided to, I would have welcomed him inside me. Instead I heard the clink of the belt buckle and a moment later there was the sharp crack and sting on my left arse cheek. This made me even more vocal and clearly excited Ben, who alternated using the leather end of the belt on both cheeks before returning to work the dildo in and out of my arse. I was too far gone to rationalize how good all this felt, but all too soon Ben stood up, undid one foot and flicked me over onto my back and resumed sucking on my swollen cock whilst still pushing the dildo in and out of me. I was trying to prolong the pleasure but after a minute of this began to shoot my load into his mouth. Ben swallowed greedily and milked me dry, keeping the dildo pushed inside me until I was spent. I was in a post-orgasm haze as he pulled the dildo out of me and released my cock from his mouth. Ben then came and sat on my stomach facing me, with a leg at each side. He bent down and gave me a rough, forceful kiss, pushing his tongue in my mouth and ensuring I tasted my own cum. This I found so erotic that, as I kissed him back, I made sure to suck on his tongue and lick his lips let him know how much I liked it. As we were kissing he untied my hands, then started to masturbate himself as he sat on me. Then he rolled over onto his back beside me and reached with his free hand to pull my head to his chest. I knew what he needed and so I licked through the thick mat of hair until I reached his nipple, and as he groaned in pleasure I bit down onto the erect skin. Ben's groaned loudly and begged for more and much harder. I responded with firmer bites and pulling with my teeth, and no matter how hard I bit he seemed to love it more. I swapped from nipple to nipple, using my fingernails to dig into whichever one was not in my mouth. He was now masturbating furiously until suddenly he shot his load across his stomach and my shoulder. Once he had subsided he untied my foot so that we could go and have a shower together where the kissing resumed, but this time it was gentle and sensual. I left his house that day tingling with pleasure and the aftermath of Ben's treatment of me, hoping we would see each other again. Little did I know that I would be back there within a week for a repeat performance, and in a month would get to meet his partner as well, starting a relationship which lasted 15 years!