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how does a newbie get accepted?

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Hi, been here about a month now, and I've noticed that newbies get blanked unless they're female, which is a bit rough on us guys single or otherwise.
I could understand if I was rude or abusive, hell there's a lot of that too. But I'm not. I'm just a genuinely nice guy that's looking to have a bit of fun, whether it's chat or whatever
Have also noticed that there's a lot of whispering goes on even in rooms where it specifically states "no Whispering"
The general attitude does not make one want to hang around, or continue membership.
There are dedicated rooms for people living in Scotland..
Try using one of those for a while and get yourself known by people living in your vicinity and take things from there :thumbup:
Just as flower says!
All i can add is, try to find a room thats fairly local to you and become a regular yourself, you will soon start to get known smile
Tony wink
P.S
Welcome to Swinging heaven!
Hope you soon start having lots of fun and find what your seeking.. many times over :twisted:
Tony wink
Quote by Mallock2006
There are dedicated rooms for people living in Scotland..

Ohhhh i didn't look at his profile to see where he was from!
There is a room on server 1 thats normally open every day for Scotland people, we are from the midlands but often go to the Scottish room, some real friendly people in there biggrin
Tony wink
Yep we are from Scotland and we really talk to anybody ffs we even talk to Tony wink
My advice to the newbie is chat and more chat , don't be pushy and ppl will get to know uou.
regards
Woo
Quote by woohoo
Yep we are from Scotland and we really talk to anybody ffs we even talk to Tony wink

Cheeky bugger lol
I only talk to you as i feel so sorry for you because you are only 2 foot tall rotflmao
Tony :wink:
mmmmmmmmmmmmm just the right height then redface
to reach to the back of the lower shelves to get that tin of beans i keep missing cos i cannt bend that low bolt
I guess your rheumatism is getting worse in your old age then Sara lol :lol: :lol:
woo
nope the medication works wonder hun its just a long way down for me to reach ....... ok hijack over lol
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Yep we are from Scotland and we really talk to anybody ffs we even talk to Tony wink

Cheeky bugger lol
I only talk to you as i feel so sorry for you because you are only 2 foot tall rotflmao
Tony :wink:
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: and thats in his heels bolt
I will just say one word creams
Door!!
lol :lol: :lol:
Woo
Woo may only be short but he is beautifully packaged kiss
Fi xxxxxxxxxxx
Aw Fi redface
You are a sweetiepie too xx
Woo
Quote by woohoo
Aw Fi redface
You are a sweetiepie too xx

Which, roughly translated into English means "Fi giz a shag tha noo" :lol2:
wink
Bluddy Ops hijacking a thread!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Get a room!! rolleyes :roll:

wink :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Quote by RedHot
Aw Fi redface
You are a sweetiepie too xx

Which, roughly translated into English means "Fi giz a shag tha noo" :lol2:
wink
Yep but you need a dictionary to understand him!!
lol
the dictionary is not to understand hin lol its for him to stand on to give a kiss :twisted:
Quote by Sara_2006
the dictionary is not to understand hin lol its for him to stand on to give a kiss :twisted:

:lol: :lol:
Quote by Sara_2006
the dictionary is not to understand hin lol its for him to stand on to give a kiss :twisted:

:shock: I dont know what you are talkin about Sara! He is taller than me! lol ya git
Fi xxxxxxxxx
Quote by Fiona_uk
the dictionary is not to understand hin lol its for him to stand on to give a kiss :twisted:

:shock: I dont know what you are talkin about Sara! He is taller than me! lol ya git
Fi xxxxxxxxx
woo with the oxford english .... fi with the cambridge dictionary ......... now ya can both reach me for a kiss kiss
FFs you lot stop hijacking this poor guys post and leave us tall good looking sex gods alone rolleyes
Woo
Quote by woohoo
FFs you lot stop hijacking this poor guys post and leave us short ugly gits alone rolleyes
Woo

Where? Where?
Ooh! there you are ....................
all the way down there :giggle:
wink
How do you get accepted??...... Easy that one biggrin
Just make sure you buy cakie buns for everyone and have lots of alcofrolic drinkies drinkies :drinkies:
Quote by Shireen
How do you get accepted??...... Easy that one biggrin
Just make sure you buy cakie buns for everyone and have lots of alcofrolic drinkies drinkies :drinkies:

more drinkies than cakie buns lol :lol:
I like cakie buns and alcofolic drinkies equally wink
ok on a more serious note on how to get accepted .......if you can have a laugh and a giggle especialy at yourself but also be able to be serious when it counts. be a friend when needed as well as a possible lover. dont be ignorant of others views. and take comments made with a pinch of salt, as well as taking what they say on board, then i can say that you should get o fine.
you only get out of tings what you are prepared to give
One of the things I see in chat is, a few of the single guys talking only to females or to the female half of a couples only. They say hello to everyone else and exclude the hubbies or other single guys who have already welcomed them to the room. confused :?
As others have said, join in the chat in the main room, introduce yourself - say your new to the site and chat, dont whisper without asking, use a local room, and be polite..... amazing how far politness gets people!! They might even makes some friends lol :lol:
Im sure you'll settle in and get chatting to some great folk....good luck :smile:
Hmm yeah. And the other one .... hello what are you looking for? Oh you're not looking for me ... I'll move onto the next one then ....
really doesn't go down to well!
Does it Woo? lol