how does a newbie get accepted?

28 Sep 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
really doesn't go down to well!

I don't know Marya
I have been told I go down rather well rolleyes

:roll:
Suppose it helps I'm already down there tho redface

Woo

29 Sep 2007

hang in there martin1968, i have
the same problem n been on this site for a year now, i had 2prove i was genuine by going on cam before ppl started talking 2me,since then i've met 2nice girls n had a great time. if u got a cam ,put it on n see if tht makes a difference it did 4 me

29 Sep 2007

try talking to yourself and then watch people trying to join in.... rolleyes

4 Oct 2007

Quote by markz
try talking to yourself and then watch people trying to join in....

That actually works for me ... sometimes! lol

4 Oct 2007

anyone heard how martin is getting on yet

6 Oct 2007

your profile is not exactly welcoming no pics online either
just simply putting no single guys once would have been enough
i think a re-write is in order we wouldn't speak to you based on that profile
sorry

7 Oct 2007

Quote by MikeNorth
try talking to yourself and then watch people trying to join in....

That actually works for me ... sometimes! lol

works everytime for me...... :roll:

25 Oct 2007

lol...
everyone on this site is ellitist.
The heaven network must make loads.

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
lol...
everyone on this site is ellitist.
The heaven network must make loads.

Why

25 Oct 2007

Martin, personally I don't give a damn if I'm "accepted" or not, I'd post anyway. I'm not here for posting to be liked or accepted I'm here because I want to talk, and talk, and talk, and talk.... bolt

However, I do understand people have a need to be accepted and wouldn't mock them in any way shape or form.
My advice? stick around, you'd be amazed how many people come in to the forum, place a thread, state they are new and not getting anywhere in their adverts etc... receive heap loads of advice and then are never seen again :dry:
To be accepted hinny is to be yourself and stay around regardless. wink

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
lol...
everyone on this site is ellitist.
The heaven network must make loads.

Why

Because he's not had any meets.

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
lol...
everyone on this site is ellitist.
The heaven network must make loads.

Why

Because he's not had any meets.
I've only had 2 in 4 years and I dont consider everyone elitist(sp) biggrin

They just have poor taste :giggle:

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
lol...
everyone on this site is ellitist.
The heaven network must make loads.

Why

Because he's not had any meets.
I've only had 2 in 4 years and I dont consider everyone elitist(sp) biggrin

They just have poor taste :giggle:
Silly, you must be one of the elite because you've had meets!

25 Oct 2007

just the way single males are treated like fodder.
the success rate is so low that guys will buy 'extras' to try and improve it - in reality it makes no difference or at least i'd love to see some statistics proving otherwise. Also it is over priced IMO.
I remember visting this site in 2002 when it was completely free!

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
just the way single males are treated like fodder.
the success rate is so low that guys will buy 'extras' to try and improve it - in reality it makes no difference or at least i'd love to see some statistics proving otherwise. Also it is over priced IMO.
I remember visting this site in 2002 when it was completely free!

They aren't all treated like that. Some of them are very successful. Oddly enough, they are also the ones who don't complain that nothing comes to them. I don't see why 'extras' would make them any more successful. With regard to pricing, nobody makes you pay for the 'extras' package. It is entirely voluntary. If you think it's overpriced, don't pay for it - simple enough.
Oh, and if you visited in 2002, you were too young. confused

25 Oct 2007

Quote by flower411
just the way single males are treated like fodder.
the success rate is so low that guys will buy 'extras' to try and improve it - in reality it makes no difference or at least i'd love to see some statistics proving otherwise. Also it is over priced IMO.
I remember visting this site in 2002 when it was completely free!

They aren't all treated like that. Some of them are very successful. Oddly enough, they are also the ones who don't complain that nothing comes to them. I don't see why 'extras' would make them any more successful. With regard to pricing, nobody makes you pay for the 'extras' package. It is entirely voluntary. If you think it's overpriced, don't pay for it - simple enough.
Oh, and if you visited in 2002, you were too young. confused

Maybe he thought "Extra`s" was a complimentary blow job with every wink !! dunno

You mean it isn't and I have to stop giving them? :shock: lol

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
just the way single males are treated like fodder.
the success rate is so low that guys will buy 'extras' to try and improve it - in reality it makes no difference or at least i'd love to see some statistics proving otherwise. Also it is over priced IMO.
I remember visting this site in 2002 when it was completely free!

They aren't all treated like that. Some of them are very successful. Oddly enough, they are also the ones who don't complain that nothing comes to them. I don't see why 'extras' would make them any more successful. With regard to pricing, nobody makes you pay for the 'extras' package. It is entirely voluntary. If you think it's overpriced, don't pay for it - simple enough.
Oh, and if you visited in 2002, you were too young. confused

I'd not thought of that one! Flippin heck he would've only been 16!
Extras don't guarantee you any more luck MrNeedmoreTyres, but you could come back and just be yourself in the threads you originally post? :mrgreen:

25 Oct 2007

hehe I was 16, and I did brake the T&C's by joining and posting up some ads!
I got a healthy amount of responses too!
But I was too shy, young and car-less (as in no car!) to actually meet any of the nice ladies I talked to!
I just get the feeling its a little overcrowded with men here!
I'm sure as you say some guys do really well here - maybe if I had a killer body that'd help too : p
I'm not even sure what i'm ranting about!
Just didnt like the fact the topic I posted here last night got deleted! x

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
Just didnt like the fact the topic I posted here last night got deleted! x

Submit a support ticket then - tell the right people.

25 Oct 2007

"They aren't all treated like that. Some of them are very successful. Oddly enough, they are also the ones who don't complain that nothing comes to them"
- Probably cause there really pretty guys and have had enough sex in there life to make them not care about lack of responses ! hehe : )

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
"They aren't all treated like that. Some of them are very successful. Oddly enough, they are also the ones who don't complain that nothing comes to them"
- Probably cause there really pretty guys and have had enough sex in there life to make them not care about lack of responses ! hehe : )

You're making sweeping statements!

25 Oct 2007

mmmmmmmmmmm I have had LOTS of fun with single males........ :twisted:

25 Oct 2007

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Watch and learn Glasshopper lol

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
hehe I was 16, and I did brake the T&C's by joining and posting up some ads!
I got a healthy amount of responses too!
But I was too shy, young and car-less (as in no car!) to actually meet any of the nice ladies I talked to!
I just get the feeling its a little overcrowded with men here!
I'm sure as you say some guys do really well here - maybe if I had a killer body that'd help too : p
I'm not even sure what i'm ranting about!
Just didnt like the fact the topic I posted here last night got deleted! x

It ain't deleted it's still there.
I think you need to take a back step chill out and view the whole swinging scene for what it actually is.... sexually liberated fun for ADULTS.
You've spoke of being here when you were 16 and got lots of responses but didn't have the guts to follow them through, that's because you were probably too immature to cope with the demands of such a lifestyle. You also make reference to "pretty boys" and not having a killer body... what does this matter? I've given you advice on this thread and the other for you to just be yourself. It doesn't matter what your body is like (although looks fine to me), it doesn't matter what you look like to most but what will matter is lies and being 'too eager to get laid'.
You will get out of this site what you put in and that will take longer than a week. I'm posting the same response in your other thread.
Good luck!

25 Oct 2007

Quote by Ineedmoretyres
hehe I was 16, and I did brake the T&C's by joining and posting up some ads!

You naughty boy. Good job Im nothing to do with admin, Id give you a ban now for that! lol