Hi there,
We try to weed out timewasters by insisting on chatting on mobile with the females talking and it is amazing how many females are unavailable.
The best excuse(or worst)was from a supposed couple who could not chat f2f because they had just been involved in a car accident and were traumatised.
But there are genuine people out there, and with experience comes the ability to spot the fakes.
we must be a very lucky couple as we have only ever once had a couple back out on us prior to meeting and we know that the reason for that was real as we met them the following week.
We think the blokes making out they are couples are dead easy to spot and are quite laughable really.
used to do hours & hours of msn chatting before we got down to asking for face pics ect but now we ask pretty much right off and then do a quick web cam with all 4 persons present so we know we at the very least have a couple who we would like to meet on the other end.
Still it would be far better if only real swingers with upto date pics visited the site but i guess thats never gonna be the case.
Happy swinging folks xxxxx Zoe & Steve
:shock: we are a new couple, and this thread is making us a bit anxious that we're going to be let down too! We're talking to some couples about meeting, have had some chats on msn where we tried to get all 4 present, but no luck yet - wondering if we're in for a bad first experience!
We may be new, but we insist on talking to the female and chatting on msn, as we've had one guy trying to convince us his partner is now pregnant and won't play anymore, and doesn't want to chat either!
By the way, is there a thread on here where we can find out about clubs local to us?