hi mike..i was going to give you a little advice on which server / room to try but your profile doesnt give a location ..ie if you were in manchester i could of said try server one nw room its usually there and so on..so unless theres a particular room that grabs your attention just go into any room and chat..if you watch how things work a little you will get an idea of what works chat wise and what doesnt ..dont believe for one minute that being a single guy people wont chat ..they wil if you are sensible in the way you go about it..just join in the banter if you can.