Y dont they listen

17 Nov 2007

Y is it wen us single fems r polite to the single guys they still harrass us. mad

PLZ PLZ PLZ be polite am gettin rather annoyed now that annoyed am thinkin of leavin the site and dont really want to as i have made good friends with some people on ere. smile

PLZ all you single males out there respect the wishes of us single fems.
many thanx
red-dragon
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17 Nov 2007

A polite 'thanks but no thanks' doesent always work.
Just chill out and ignore the impolite ones and enjoy the site.
On a site such as this, its inevitable you are going to come across people who do not know the meaning of the word no.
No point in getting angry, for every impolite person, you will find lots more who will respect your bounderies.
Stick with it dont let them get to you.

17 Nov 2007

i ask a smilar question on here a little while ago and got some very positve replies but i think the most direct and probaly the most truthful was its because you have tits most of the guys just look at the profile see and get in touch now i have got to know the repeat offenders names so i just delete without even reading what they have to say or you can always block them dont leave the site though as for every pest theres a lot more nice people

17 Nov 2007

If its mail your getting then i suppose you could stop all mail from single blokes confused

: - Then just look for the ones you want in chat and work it out in the chatroom. If its the whispers. I'm not a single fem, does it really hinder your chat so much as to reduce your enjoyment? Just try to chat around the crap you don't like. C'mon your a woman are you not supposed to multitask! wink

I suppose its a double edged sword. Being a single fem then you are getting the most attention and are possibly the most sought after of the classifications. So, maybe along with that you have to have the most patience? Chill girl let it flow on by and stay enjoying the friends you've made on site and are yet to make! biggrin

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17 Nov 2007

Quote by red-dragon
Y is it wen us single fems r polite to the single guys they still harrass us.
PLZ PLZ PLZ be polite am gettin rather annoyed now that annoyed am thinkin of leavin the site and dont really want to as i have made good friends with some people on ere.
PLZ all you single males out there respect the wishes of us single fems.
many thanx
red-dragon
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They probably won't even read this post. confused

Either block single males, delete the mails, or live with it. dunno

Just a thought - your profile does say that you're looking for single males - maybe they read that and thought you might be interested?

17 Nov 2007

Quote by Lost
If its mail your getting then i suppose you could stop all mail from single blokes : - Then just look for the ones you want in chat and work it out in the chatroom. If its the whispers. I'm not a single fem, does it really hinder your chat so much as to reduce your enjoyment? Just try to chat around the crap you don't like. C'mon your a woman are you not supposed to multitask!
I suppose its a double edged sword. Being a single fem then you are getting the most attention and are possibly the most sought after of the classifications. So, maybe along with that you have to have the most patience? Chill girl let it flow on by and stay enjoying the friends you've made on site and are yet to make!
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Why the hell should we have to???????? Yes it does spoil the enjoyment of using a chat room if you're getting unwanted whispers left right and centre. Why the hell should we have to grin and bare it just because we're single women???? Then guys turn round and say, 'well at least you get whispers, I never do', you lucky thing, you can have a conversation in the room without being repeatedly interupted. It's the attutude that we should be greatful for the attention that I don't get. It's the attention of people with no manners and who can't take no for an answer, why should we be greatful for that?
I challenge any single guy to go into a busy room as a single female and not get thoroughly pi**ed off with it within half an hour.
H.x

17 Nov 2007

Quote by H-x
I challenge any single guy to go into a busy room as a single female and not get thoroughly pi**ed off with it within half an hour.
H.x

Give me your login details and I’ll try it for a night…….
Solemnly promises not to chat up and flirt outrageously with himself in the Wales room.. :twisted:

17 Nov 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
Give me your login details and I’ll try it for a night…….
Solemnly promises not to chat up and flirt outrageously with himself in the Wales room.. :twisted:

S Wales room's No.2 Tart not flirt, yeah right biggrin

H.x

17 Nov 2007

Quote by H-x

Give me your login details and I’ll try it for a night…….
Solemnly promises not to chat up and flirt outrageously with himself in the Wales room.. :twisted:

S Wales room's No.2 Tart not flirt, yeah right biggrin

H.x
I’m devastated by your harsh words H…
give us a cuddle to make me feel better…
What…
dunno

24 Nov 2007

Just ignor them a convo thats two people if you dont chat back people soon stop talking and move on smile

25 Nov 2007

I report repeat offenders.
It's alright saying "chill" but I tell you single straight males, you go on cam in a gay/bi room - you don't even have to get your cock out. See how you cope with the constant whispers, directing and then, when you don't respond, they get abusive!
Good luck with that.