any places in bournemouth as we r going on holiday

25 Jul 2004

hi to all

we r a young couple that likes to put on a show 4 people and we r wondering where r the best places around.
so if ya like to tell us we might give them a go.
hope to c ya soon lol

25 Jul 2004

There was one very good location (which is listed on the site) but although we haven't been there for a couple of months after getting swamped with over a dozen guys every time we went there, a recent couple of trips there have proved fruitless confused

Our most recent trip was last night (Saturday) and the place was heaving with gay guys as is usual at that place (they stick to the far side of the car park so absolutely no probs with them hassling you), but straight guys were nowhere to be seen - unless the guy in the 4 x 4 with all his lights blazing was straight? He didn't leave his vehicle though so have no idea about that rolleyes

Well they say you can't please them all so maybe our whinges about their bad behaviour has scared them off?!
Enjoy your holiday and good luck with finding a good location to dog wink

Tracy-Jayne & Jon

25 Jul 2004

Depends where u are in Dorset, but u can either drive to Swanage or catch ferry to Swanage from Bournemouth, and then visit Studland beach. Lots of activity in beach dunes or woods on the Naturist section of the beach. Only downfall is the high number of males (esp Gays) to females ratio, but then again that could be yr coffee

cup of tea!
Nice if u fancy spending the day on a naturist beach too, clean, quiet and dont have to fight for a square foot of sand! :thumbup:

25 Jul 2004

Studlands is a great naturist beach and great for dogging in the Dunes.
Plenty of meerkats around, and the naturist community doesn't take too kindly to them so if you want to put on a show, you'll get an appreciative audience!
Rachel
wink

Naturist quote "we don't go to Studlands anymore - it's full of wankers"

1 Aug 2004

Did you two find a good spot while you were on holiday?
And more importantly did you bring back any good pics you'd care to share?
Rachel
wink

3 Aug 2004

hi red hot
you say the guy in the 4x4 didnt leave hi vehicle so you have no idea if he was dogging, does that mean thats what us single guys should do?? i always thought it was polite to wait till invited by the flashin light from heaven!! biggrin

it can also be a little intimidating in the gay areas sometimes... im not anti gay but would rather avoid the awkwardness of bumpin into a bloke in a bush if i can confused

ta mike

3 Aug 2004

Quote by mikey19782
hi red hot
you say the guy in the 4x4 didnt leave hi vehicle so you have no idea if he was dogging, does that mean thats what us single guys should do?? i always thought it was polite to wait till invited by the flashin light from heaven!! it can also be a little intimidating in the gay areas sometimes... im not anti gay but would rather avoid the awkwardness of bumpin into a bloke in a bush if i can
ta mike

Not leaving their vehicle is fine if that's what they want to do - watch from a distance - but leaving his lights on our car for several minutes, whilst his engine was still running is not fine mad

Not only is it ignornant, but it's intimidating too, and certainly puts a stop to the show.
We have found most of the genuine doggers don't sit in their cars all night, but will have a quiet walk around the car park until they see something which takes their fancy wink

We do not ever flash our lights to invite guys over to the car. They usually just see what's going on and join in!
As for bumping into gay guys in the bush, your fears are completely unfounded.
We have found them to be, without exception, some of the most polite and discrete guys at the park. They keep themselves quiet, away from the main dogging areas, and do not hassle anyone.
I'm certain you would have no probs with them even if you did 'bump into them behind a bush' rolleyes

Don't talk about them as if they are from another planet. They aren't. They are human beings like you and I. They just prefer a different sort of sex to you. This doesn't mean you will get accosted by them evil

Tracy-Jayne & Jon

3 Aug 2004

Well said RedHot! I find guys that speak about their gay comrades as members of a different planet to be disgustingly misinformed at best. Think about it, it's the straight dipsticks that cause problems when out dogging cos they're the ones that get rude, not the gay cruisers! mad

3 Aug 2004

I totally agree with blue me being a ruler and i mean str8 lol have no problems with the gay community in fact they are very helpful when your out looking for cples to dog they normally tell you if they have noticed anything and some of them (not all) can be a bloody good laugh biggrin

3 Aug 2004

Quote by chick0074
Studlands is a great naturist beach and great for dogging in the Dunes.
Plenty of meerkats around, and the naturist community doesn't take too kindly to them so if you want to put on a show, you'll get an appreciative audience!
Rachel

Naturist quote "we don't go to Studlands anymore - it's full of wankers"

We agree totally. Studlands is a lovely place with a lot of action. We can verify this as we have been there several times and again this past weekend. Its best to suss out the beach first as we noticed a large group of gay men there. All polite but we were told there is a section of the beach where they mass.
I laughed at your 'meerkat' comment. Its SOOOO true! several times, we would look up from where we were laying to see heads above the grass or to find them frog crawling to get closer. (almost like some kind of military training..... bar the uniform and well, the weapons, lol)
Its best to be discreet though, as closer to the water is where the family naturists go, but there is loads of land and privacy up in the dunes, not to mention a view of one of the most beautiful beaches in England.
S n Big G

3 Aug 2004

So did you think the Meerkats were "good Meerkats" or "bad Meerkats"? I mean were they doing the right thing for you, or should they have boldly walked over the hill and said "Hi Gang"?
Just out of interest, which would you describe as the gay end, ferry end or car park end?

3 Aug 2004

Hey there G here
It isnt really an end to end thing as far as we can see ( no pun intended) . Theres a path through the Heath right to the very middle of the naturist section , and gay men being as practical and no nonsense as they often are tend it would seem to just unpack the towel and the excruciatingly tight speedo's as soon as they hit sand and smell sea . So you'll find the majority of the gay fella's congregated in the dunes immediately the path ends (which is roughly the middle) . The couples seem to just pick any spot they like , although those 'showing' I would suggest would probably have some kind of windbreak or tent up for a small amount of privacy ( unlike Silk and I who NEVER go prepared properly for anything LOL) . As for the doggers ....well more than anywhere else weve ever showed off you will find they come to you , in fact they must be the fittest doggers in England as their constant ( and I mean constant) walking up and down in deep sand on hilly terrain simply never ends . Its fun if you are the less easily intimidated breed of show off but not for the beginner as you WILL attract LOTS of men in seconds . Its Ok but can get a bit irritating if you want a half hour break from showing off to eat yer sarnies and sun bathe.
As my lovely Silky said , it is one of the most glorious beaches in the country so worth a visit for that alone .
G

4 Aug 2004

Quote by Silk and Big G
Hey there G here. In fact they must be the fittest doggers in England as their constant ( and I mean constant) walking up and down in deep sand on hilly terrain simply never ends . .............. As my lovely Silky said , it is one of the most glorious beaches in the country so worth a visit for that alone .
G

It is a beautiful beach, but I think my sex drive isn't up to the walking! I'm not sure what is says about me, but a cold beer seems more appealing. When I've seen those walkers I've always assumed they were gay and looking for a connection, the idea of them being doggers is a novelty, I shall pay more attention in the future! Thanks for the info.

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