Carry on you lot bickering amongst yourselves ,and i have no doubt that you will get a lot of unwanted attention to the world of dogging,have you forgot the stan collymore saga where the national press got hold of those pictures,and told the whole world about our it sordid and kinky and any other discriptive they could think of all to boost there sales .the upshot for us was a large increase in the amount of single men and boy racers visiting well known dogging probably caused people to change the way they do their dogging,ie vans for privacy ,arranging meets in secluded places.
if you lot think for one minute that the press or even the police are not watching this site then you are more naive than i thought,the next story will be .DOGGING ON SELF DESTRUCTION also dont forget there is probably people amongst us who would willingly give them ammunition for a few quid if approached .
so come on just relax its only a bit of fun at the end of the day and you are starting to take the fun out of the whole scene,we all know that any newcomers thinking about giving it a go must read some of the stuff written and think thanks but no thanks.
please please just calm down its the season of goodwill ,lets try and make it permanent.
PLEASE TAKE THIS AS A POLITE BOL-- LOCKING AND NO OFFENCE WAS AIMED AT ANY SINGLE SH MEMBER .
KISSING Ks OTHER HALF C :jagsatwork:
What makes you think the press give a shit ?
There are loads of stories about, and dogging has always been a space filler when nowt else was about.
You're never going to get back to the old days, when car parks at night were used only for shagging.
Once word got out that there was a free shag to be had then dogging AS WAS died a death.
Now, in case nobody had noticed, there aren't even normal couples shagging in cars...not in car parks anyway..
All the "popular" places are packed to the roof with guys wanting the free shag..even the not-so-popular places are filling-up fast.
The words out guys, and it's too late to shut up now...
Just google dogging, look at the number of sites doing it.
Just read the smutverts in the sport or the star....dogging texts..."single guys wanted for sex"
I'll reiterate the meaning of dogging....watching people have sex.
Obviously, you see shit in a van.
Looking over a town site today....recently renovated with wood rails and a "gazebo" type structure....used to be the canines testicles for dogging....now there's a cctv system watching it.
Face it, within a few years the game will be history....even now there are fewer posts on this site, and many others are the same old shit..
Once Mr and Mrs Ordinary found out their local park was being used for perverts shagging and watching, then it wasn't long before the place was shut at night....as are loads of places now...
Another local park....notices appeared warning that INDECENT AND ANTISOCIAL behaviour would get people nicked...and the rangers took car regs and people got visits from the law...that place used to be a gay site as well.....nothing there at all now, empty.
Then there was the sex offences act 2003....less said about that the better.
With the best intentions in the world, not saying where you're going to be and when makes little difference.
It doesn't take a genius to arrange a "meet", even a journalist can do it.
ok jomu you seem to be one of the many who just dont understand what they are reading, you just did not get the jist of what we were saying i rest my were trying to stop the bickering and you have just fueled the argument again, and for somebody who comes across as an old hand at this game you sound no better than some of the desperados and chancers on here good bye. k
I see no reason to hide from reality.
Common behaviour seen at sites now is for one person to sit with lights on and wait for the others to go.
Agression is common, and I don't just mean pushing to the front.
I lost a windscreen the year before last, and have had stones thrown at me this year.
I've had truck drivers threaten me "we were here first, so piss off and tell the others to fuck off too"
All that crap means that police visits are much more common now than a few years ago.
There have even been gays threatened with violence as well....and that is a bad move...and a local layby had a guy indecently assaulted a few weeks ago.
Pretending it isn't happening isn't going to make it so.
The best car parks now are the smaller ones, with height restriction. That limits the vehicles to cars....vans and trucks are kept out.
"sleeping policemen" are a great help...even the boy racers are kept out then, and the drive-bys have a hard time..
I think the conclusion I have reached in all this and many others that have posted here and the many many PM's I have had supporting what I said is that 'vanners' are not 'doggers' or 'dogging'. I think they should kindly start advertising in the lets meet up section and leave us doggers to do what we know and enjoy, which is the true art of dogging as described on this site!
jomu if i could change human nature i would but i cant no more than you can, so i will say it in laymans terms which i should have said in the first place in stead of being tactfull ,
so here go's ffs let things drop before we ruin swinging heaven as well as dogging.
ps this is the last we will say on the subject. k.
That's where we're different.
I can change things.
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D M wrote
hey i have no club as you say..
This one from another thread.....
paulyblade wrote:
sign me up straight away but you'll have to be gentle at first too much work and not enough play might make me peak to early and we cant have that now can we
D M wrote
you are now officailly signed up to the club......
I think i'd be carefull what you say, you have incriminated yourself!
donnytv that quote you gave was pure harmless banter its called a bit of fun, and guess what paulyblade has had fun through his banter with me and many when we are out dogging the doggers i am sure we will come across him again now thats what i call horny fun, so relax dont take everything that is said as gospel it was proberly just a light hearted comment, it had been said many times on here about wanting our own carpark or wood but you dont go telling people so and so is getting one. k.
Donny tv, if you are prepared to buy us a shiny new car for christmas we will gladly scrap our van. Otherwise we take it you would rather have us barred from dogging sites . merry christmas to you all
You must be one stupid couple then, cos fun between friends is not dogging, thats classed as swinging!!!!
Just admit you're not dogging and have done with it,
From now on i'll refer to you as swingers or vanners.
We feel we must reply to this, we have met D and m, beleive us they are genuine doggers and very friendly people too, what is a genuine dogger ?? our version is either a guy or a couple who like to watch or even get involved with another couple having fun. We have no problems with sensible single guys or couples, as for tvs not our scene as in our experience they tend to go for gay guys but we may be wrong,
donny tv can you read ? have you got a sense of humour? read Ks post properly and you might understand and as for me joining Ms club that was ajoke you know what a joke is dont you with a bit of sexual banter thrown in as for being friendly you might not want to get to know someone before you get down to some action but most couples do so you are going to be friendly and talk to each other when you see them at locations also it never hurts to have a friend around just in case ... as for you jomu i have read quite a few of your posts on this site and it seams to me that most of the time all you do is whinge whinge whinge if dogging is so bad these days and this is wrong and that is wrong why do you still bother and as for wishing it was like the old days you might as well wish for the swinging sixties pick up your rattle get back in your pram pull the cover over your head and go back to sleep
You may be right....
But then, look at the game now....people turn up and spend the night talking, then go home ?
Not to worry....things'll level out soon...
I was out yesterday looking at a new site I was told about....very good too, the original lovers lane type...and not on the internet....as soon as one plank advertises it, it'll be full of people driving in and out....as most places are now.
Oh, and I still have plenty of fun dogging....just not at the sites advertised on here...in fact, since the law patrols many of the sites on here (and no longer in a friendly fashion either) it is better not to hang about long....at least not in this county.
Anyway, have a happy new year.
Jomu
You might be right, people do just stand around all night and then go home, but there is a reason for this as a couple we know,
Couples when new can be but of by a large group of guys hanging about, they say they only want perhaps one or two guys to watch but, it seems as the term dogging is used you all seem to hunt in a pack so you all gather round, which in turn leaves the couple uncomfortable and then drive off....so then leaves people stood round talking all night as the only couple that was there has gone..
We have been sat in our car watching what happens, as you have to in this game.....
to make sure that this guy that wants to have sex with me has not just been r****ing some bloke 20mins before hand..
i am sure you can understand this is the same for a single guy, you watch the couples to see that they also do not to wierd things....eg not having safe sex..and such like
it is very hard to understand how things work unless you spend some time watching you will never understand it other wise....
as well as the police patroling like you say there is one other thing out there every one should be very carefull of AIDS.....
keep up the good work my friend with the links to all the sites which give the info as to whats out there...waitting to bite...
This particular thread has degenerated into a slanging match. For that reason, it will be locked. Anyone having a problem with that, please feel free to PM me.
Mal
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I would type a bit more but my hands will not stop shaking 
