As you may know I am fairly new to this so please can someone enlighten me. I was out last night at a well used Dogging site near Milton Keynes. All that was there was one other car containing a male. He kept putting his interior light on and also flashing his brakelights. Is this a sign for some kind of gay action???
Wigan Couple, Dirty Doggers and Silk and Big G another chance ichael out of me methinks!!!! Look forward to your replies
Mick
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Brake lights????
Hi
The dogging hints and tips post will help you here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Apparently flashing brake lights is a gay signal, you could have got lucky there
hope this helps
The dogging hints and tips post will help you here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Apparently flashing brake lights is a gay signal, you could have got lucky there
hope this helps
there is no doubt, he was trying to attract your attention in the hope that you was a gay or bi-sexual male. it is also possible that he mistook your passenger headrest for a female occupant, or his mates were ducked down out of view, ready to whack you over the head with a piece of 2x2. if i had to put money on it, i'd say the former. don't get too hung up on the signal stuff, we get those same lighting displays directed at us all the time.....see, no piss taking from us. can't vouch for the wigans or silk n g though.. anyway, good to see you posting with humour..nowt worse than a miserable dogger.
:cry: i wish it was me in the car i have been around milton keynes dogging sights for a while but not even a look of any one not even dog walkers so i must be doing somthing wrong 
so any hints i want to try and improve my chances of meeting some one oh this is my first post to hope its ok i dont know about the brake light thing have to give it a go
thanks all
so any hints i want to try and improve my chances of meeting some one oh this is my first post to hope its ok i dont know about the brake light thing have to give it a gothanks all
Casanova
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Hi
The dogging hints and tips post will help you here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Apparently flashing brake lights is a gay signal, you could have got lucky there
hope this helps
Not forgetting that this could be a regional thing. In the Birmingham area, brake lights are still used (occasionally) by doggers and couples, with the gays marking their territories by keeping their headlights switched on (bloomin' pain that is too!) So what the local lingo in Berkshire is may well be different.
No harm in talking to the guy and telling him that you are not gay. Gets him off your back and allows him to go away and explore other pastures rather than waiting for you.
Quote by miltonkeynesmale49well i think the flashing lights are going a bit out of fashion now, because alot of people like us have to put the side lights on to see the time in the car, and when we do that everyone including gays come driving over...easy mistake to make with alot of people, thats why we actually get out of the car and go for a walk...see who follows
As you may know I am fairly new to this so please can someone enlighten me. I was out last night at a well used Dogging site near Milton Keynes. All that was there was one other car containing a male. He kept putting his interior light on and also flashing his brakelights. Is this a sign for some kind of gay action???
Wigan Couple, Dirty Doggers and Silk and Big G another chance ichael out of me methinks!!!! Look forward to your replies
Mick
Sex God
Hi miltonkeynesmale49, we have had everything from brake lights, fron lights, fog lights etc etc flashed and to be honest, I have not a clue!! Normally the brake lights are thought to be a signal by the gay or bi doggers but we have had this done by couples as well! The interior light is normally a signal that they want to be watched, or letting you know they want to watch. As dirty says, the occupant may have thought you were a couple as it can be very difficult to see in some of the very dark cark parks and often you cant see who is in the car by yourside.
Sometimes, it is worth getting out and having a little walk around the car park, but only do that if you feel safe cause has dirty says, you just never know what their intentions are.
Good luck with it all and stay safe - you just got to survive the reply from sil and Big G now!
An I am reallys ure Blue could give you some advice!
Sometimes, it is worth getting out and having a little walk around the car park, but only do that if you feel safe cause has dirty says, you just never know what their intentions are.
Good luck with it all and stay safe - you just got to survive the reply from sil and Big G now!
An I am reallys ure Blue could give you some advice! 
Sex God
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As you may know I am fairly new to this so please can someone enlighten me. I was out last night at a well used Dogging site near Milton Keynes. All that was there was one other car containing a male. He kept putting his interior light on and also flashing his brakelights. Is this a sign for some kind of gay action
He could have been after action, if you wanted action with him you could have signalled back and see where it led. Without speaking to the geezer directly, who knows. Unless you are telepathic there is no other way to know for sure.
Sex God
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problem solved it was indeed a Bi male Dogger trying to get my attention. Turns out he uses Swingingheaven too.
Sorted. So, was he a good shag?
If so, when are you going to introduce me to him?
kind of connected this
i arrived at dogging spot x there was only one other single male in the car infront and i did`ut feel like any bi fun that night so i got out and talked to him as he looked like he`d been there for a while anyway told him i was looking for a couple to watch just so he knew what i was there for
i waited for a while in my car no lights on just the radio with the sub zero temperatures you know enjoying myself
when i noticed he was putting the brake lights on and off i thought he must be exercising his legs and thought he cant be signalling to me
i eventually got bored and headed home as i pulled off i noticed him follow me odd cus he said he came from the other way i took a long way home not the usual route and he was still behind me at this point i was slightly worried so i put my foot down nearly crashed trying to lose him after 20 miles or so i did
panic over but i wondered what was going on did my not signalling back in any way and telling him i what i was there for actually mean follow me
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i arrived at dogging spot x there was only one other single male in the car infront and i did`ut feel like any bi fun that night so i got out and talked to him as he looked like he`d been there for a while anyway told him i was looking for a couple to watch just so he knew what i was there for
i waited for a while in my car no lights on just the radio with the sub zero temperatures you know enjoying myself
when i noticed he was putting the brake lights on and off i thought he must be exercising his legs and thought he cant be signalling to me
i eventually got bored and headed home as i pulled off i noticed him follow me odd cus he said he came from the other way i took a long way home not the usual route and he was still behind me at this point i was slightly worried so i put my foot down nearly crashed trying to lose him after 20 miles or so i did
panic over but i wondered what was going on did my not signalling back in any way and telling him i what i was there for actually mean follow me
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Sexpert
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problem solved it was indeed a Bi male Dogger trying to get my attention. Turns out he uses Swingingheaven too.
Sorted. So, was he a good shag?
If so, when are you going to introduce me to him?
Guess there is only one way to find out Blue
"ducks to avoid the reply"
Sex God
I think...........there was a bee in his car and in his panic and thrashing about to remove the stinging pest from his car, he accidently hit his brake lights. 
aka loco..lets eliminate the obvious first..you aren't an aircraft marshall out in the works vehicle, you know, with the follow me sign on top, was you?..also in our experience, if someone out dogging says they live "thataway" pointing east, you can bet ur arse (innapropiate, but will suffice) that they live on a westerly bearing, cant blame them for that..so, look out your window, just check he doesn't live next door? no, ok, so, boy racers didn't hitch a towrope between your cars?, you would have noticed, fair enough....which leaves us with, forum pessimist dogging optomist man, or, sicko phsyco fantasy man..ummm, which was he i wonder?..you see, look at the forum, most of these guys are complaining about no action, empty venues etc. put these same guys in a carpark and everything put our handbrake on, signal, light from the mobile, game on...you know the sort of thing..now, if you left the carpark at less than 90 mph, he would have thought,"little teaze", and taken your reluctance as a come-on, even your brakelights coming on at the exit will be seen as the "light of lust", we know mate, weve seen it all, and more!!...sicko phsyco man, maybe, projecting some weird fantasy scenario on the situation, thankfully a rare breed, but you certainly get them in carparks...weve had the "follow" three times now, and it really does piss us we want to go home, its funtime over, the last thing we want to bother with is fucking morons like that..you will notice at carparks, these guys are lurkers, always nearby, but never leave the vehicles..
Casanova
A good tip here if you don't like being followed..
If people are doing the automotive equivilent of the Conga behind you, just pull onto the car park of the nearest Police Station. (if you need a reason, well, of course your mobile phone just rang didn't it??? :shock: ) It would be a stupid bloke that would follow you onto there, and if things get heated, the Police actually treat "following" as "Dangerous Driving" (not just Careless) should you wish to make an official complaint about it.
So there...know where your nearest cop shop is, because despite all rumours, the Plod do have their uses.
If people are doing the automotive equivilent of the Conga behind you, just pull onto the car park of the nearest Police Station. (if you need a reason, well, of course your mobile phone just rang didn't it??? :shock: ) It would be a stupid bloke that would follow you onto there, and if things get heated, the Police actually treat "following" as "Dangerous Driving" (not just Careless) should you wish to make an official complaint about it.
So there...know where your nearest cop shop is, because despite all rumours, the Plod do have their uses.
Sex God
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A good tip here if you don't like being followed..
If people are doing the automotive equivilent of the Conga behind you, just pull onto the car park of the nearest Police Station. (if you need a reason, well, of course your mobile phone just rang didn't it??? :shock: ) It would be a stupid bloke that would follow you onto there, and if things get heated, the Police actually treat "following" as "Dangerous Driving" (not just Careless) should you wish to make an official complaint about it.
So there...know where your nearest cop shop is, because despite all rumours, the Plod do have their uses.
Good advice. Stopping and telling them to fuck off also works
Hehehehehehehe
Casanova
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Stopping and telling them to fuck off also works
Hehehehehehehe
Ah, well this is where Einsteins Dogging Theory of Reletivity comes into play. It goes like this...
6ft 2 ins strapping geezer tells reletively smaller 4ft 11ins scrawny guy to fuck off...success
4ft 11ins scrawny whimp tells reletively large 6ft 2ins strapping geezer to fuck off...failure
Sex God
Quote by partyman
Stopping and telling them to fuck off also works
Hehehehehehehe
Ah, well this is where Einsteins Dogging Theory of Reletivity comes into play. It goes like this...
6ft 2 ins strapping geezer tells reletively smaller 4ft 11ins scrawny guy to fuck off...success
4ft 11ins scrawny whimp tells reletively large 6ft 2ins strapping geezer to fuck off...failure
Hehehehehehehe, yeah, but it's not the size of the dog(ger) in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog(ger).... or something like that 8-) :lol:
Thing is, the guys that act like pricks, following, following, following, know they are in the wrong so they're automatically on the back foot. They soon buckle under pressure :lol: . Take last Wednesday for example. Some geezer in a white van was bugging me and Satin, wherever we went, he went - we parked, he parked as close to us as he could - we move, he moves, time and time again.... you can all picture the scene, right. So, we got a bit sick of it and decided to take him on a bit of a wild goose chase down some little country lanes just outside of Bolton, just for a laugh. Then we decide to park up, in a little layby where he couldn't possibly park near us..... So he stops his bloody van right at the side of us in the middle of the road
:roll: :roll: ...... I was not seeing the funny side by now, but I did even get chance to tell him to fuck off. All I did was the angry face and some choice hand signals, and he shouted sorry and drove away. The pussy! :roll:
So..... man in white van...... if you are reading this......... I'm just saying what I was gonna say...
FUCK OFF!
Hehehehehehehehehe
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Casanova
I know what you mean There are 4 white van men on my patch, and they are all a pain.
White Van Men are second only to the 4-guys-in-a-car for the "ones to avoid" award in my book. The whole attitude of "it's not my vehicle so I don't care" just comes across loud and clear every time. Well if they take the risks of having their windows put through (as happens when they pull up on some youngster with a not-fully-developed sense of humour) then you are left to wonder about the rest of their judgement and common sense.
Most WVM's seem to be out-of towners who don't care if their fleeting visit wrecks the place for the locals, and they seem to think that somehow we should be revering them as somehow being "hard" because they have "manual" jobs to do and more than likely have something heavy in their toolboxes.
I never pick a fight with someone who thinks he has nothing to lose.
There are 4 white van men on my patch, and they are all a pain.White Van Men are second only to the 4-guys-in-a-car for the "ones to avoid" award in my book. The whole attitude of "it's not my vehicle so I don't care" just comes across loud and clear every time. Well if they take the risks of having their windows put through (as happens when they pull up on some youngster with a not-fully-developed sense of humour) then you are left to wonder about the rest of their judgement and common sense.
Most WVM's seem to be out-of towners who don't care if their fleeting visit wrecks the place for the locals, and they seem to think that somehow we should be revering them as somehow being "hard" because they have "manual" jobs to do and more than likely have something heavy in their toolboxes.
I never pick a fight with someone who thinks he has nothing to lose.
Sex God
The most annoying one at Bolton is the guy who is always there in a white van that advertises uPVC windows. He parks bumper to bumper, directly facing anyone he takes a fancy to. I know the name of his company and his companies phone number, as well as his reg number. If he continues to piss me off I might just pay them a visit one day and let them know what one member of their staff gets up to of an afternoon - hehehehehehehehehe :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Casanova
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The most annoying one at Bolton is the guy who is always there in a white van that advertises uPVC windows. He parks bumper to bumper, directly facing anyone he takes a fancy to. I know the name of his company and his companies phone number, as well as his reg number. If he continues to piss me off I might just pay them a visit one day and let them know what one member of their staff gets up to of an afternoon - hehehehehehehehehe
Yeah, a phone call to his transport manager, saying you are Sergeant Bloggs from ABC Police Station...you are concerned about "gay bashing on a certain car park" and it would be in the companies best interests if their vehicles weren't seen on that car park to prevent youths out "bashing" gays from damaging it...or sometning like that.
Anyway we digress...what's the weather forecast for Lancs for next weekend? I'm up in Blackpool for my sins. (or to commit more sins - one or the other :lol: )
Sex God
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Anyway we digress...what's the weather forecast for Lancs for next weekend? I'm up in Blackpool for my sins. (or to commit more sins - one or the other
Dunno, but probably raining, it does that a lot
Casanova
Quote by bluexxx
Anyway we digress...what's the weather forecast for Lancs for next weekend? I'm up in Blackpool for my sins. (or to commit more sins - one or the other
Dunno, but probably raining, it does that a lot
No worries about rain, the body is waterproof!In any case, I'm off to a hotel-warming party
, so I'll be dry when I need to be. Would be nice to get out a bit and see the sights though. My mate (who is opening his hotel) was telling me that they have had all sorts of weather recently, so as long as their new roof stays on this time, I'll be happy :D Quote by bluexxx
A good tip here if you don't like being followed..
If people are doing the automotive equivilent of the Conga behind you, just pull onto the car park of the nearest Police Station. (if you need a reason, well, of course your mobile phone just rang didn't it??? :shock: ) It would be a stupid bloke that would follow you onto there, and if things get heated, the Police actually treat "following" as "Dangerous Driving" (not just Careless) should you wish to make an official complaint about it.
So there...know where your nearest cop shop is, because despite all rumours, the Plod do have their uses.
Good advice. Stopping and telling them to fuck off also works
Hehehehehehehe
....we just take them to an unbridged ford, assuming they don't drive a 4x4, they stay one side, we drive through the other..works every time.. 
Sex God
Thanks I'll try that in my Mondeo shall I lol.
By the way is that a manned Police Station to park up in, could be a long drive for some of us!!!!
Harry Jones
By the way is that a manned Police Station to park up in, could be a long drive for some of us!!!!
Harry Jones
Quote by bluexxx
The most annoying one at Bolton is the guy who is always there in a white van that advertises uPVC windows. He parks bumper to bumper, directly facing anyone he takes a fancy to. I know the name of his company and his companies phone number, as well as his reg number. If he continues to piss me off I might just pay them a visit one day and let them know what one member of their staff gets up to of an afternoon - hehehehehehehehehe
Blue, does this mean Bolton is back up and running again?
Sex God
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Blue, does this mean Bolton is back up and running again?
Bolton has always been busy from what I can gather, it's just a bit more covert now due to the daily police presence
. Then again, depends what sort of action you are after. Quote by bluexxx
Blue, does this mean Bolton is back up and running again?
Bolton has always been busy from what I can gather, it's just a bit more covert now due to the daily police presence
. Then again, depends what sort of action you are after.I will need to take a drive over then one of these days to see if I can uncover these covert operations. Coming from Blackpool and hearing of the hassle a few people were receiving I thought it best till it calmed down.
Time to change tactics methinks :wink:
Sex God
Quote by John_Lancs
I will need to take a drive over then one of these days to see if I can uncover these covert operations. Coming from Blackpool and hearing of the hassle a few people were receiving I thought it best till it calmed down.
Time to change tactics methinks
There's probably less police in Bolton than in Blackpool, and they're not there 24/7, they just maintain a presence. It's worth a drive down there I guess.
