I'm in a foul mood tonight! I've not long got in from dogging in Derby and i'm not best pleased at the state it has gotten too. Where has the manners and fun of it all disappeared too???
They were serveral people out tonight and yet none approached me. I tried to put on a show with two bi men i had brought with me, and the other doggers either left (ok maybe i'm not their cup of tea), or moved away (once again not my cup of tea) or just shined their full beams at me from the other side of the carpark. Were they frightened?
I just don't get it, i'm well known for dogging in Derby. I've never made a secret about it and made some good friends out of other regulars. But tonight?? I just found everyone rude. I was told when dogging if someone was putting on a show you never ever put full beams on them, no, i'd normal walk to a safe distance and wait for an invite to come closer. But i might as well of had the plague.
I dont like being lit up, i don't like being driven at when i'm outside a car, and i don't like ignorant people who won't make themselves known.
Buck your ideas up Derby Doggers!
Hi Chaotic,
Please don't let it get to you that much. I, like so many others on here will have noticed the change in dogging behaviour over the past couple of years. I'm not going to go into reasons why as this has been covered so many times in the past.
I've been involved in several very well mannered dogging meets, and I have also had my fair share of spoiled potential shows due to peoples inpatience and stupidity - people pulling in on full beam, leaping out of the cars and surrounding the couple as soon as they've pulled up, etc....
However, there are still some very polite and respectful doggers out there, it's just a shame these idiots ruin it for the genuine amongst us.
Shit happens sweets, dont sweat. Although i might suggest that the two men in the jamjar may have worried a few doggers a bit. You know how paranoid the feckers can be . x
if your Bi friends were going for it what do you expect it repulses many doggers and them that might want to watch will not step forward due to peer presure from them that dont as they will be labeled Bi which does not suit everyone.
the light up was probably boy racers. many of them are scared of sex which is why there such prats if they had any sense they would have watched.
I haven't been out in Derby for well over a year for the very reasons mentioned. It's so much easier to arrange meets through the site than go and sit in the cold for ages, just for a couple of idiots to spoil the fun before it's even started.
As others have said dont let the minority spoil it for 's still plenty of good doggers out there who do respect others unfortunately not all of them have done the doggers apprenticeship and had a good bollicking when its been needed when they spoil it not only for them selves but others as dont be disheartened and hopefully we may see you sometime happy hunting and take care .
its all the dickheads in there fast red cars that spoil it for everone lol
But you cannot watch in the dark !
That's why I always switch the two roof-mounted 100 watt spots on.....they REALLY flood-light the carpark.
You can even watch the rats mating with them.
It isn't the doggers fault (although they may have been dedicated gays....in which case the cry of "WOMAN" should have alerted you), it is your fault. You should have been doing "it" in daylight :dry:
Hello tinkerbell. Not seen you have a rant before (big smirk)
Stop worrying about one episode. It was probably as others suggested - boy racers. The Derby scene is alive and kicking and full of new couples but many now dont use the main two sites and stick to the other seven.
now you no im always a gentleman chaotic i missed out again going to cry in me coffee cup now
Hi sarah ,
where was my invite ??
pity you must of been out teh one night i wasnt xx
nice to see your still around .
jay
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