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I have long since decided that the cold winter months has always been the best time for dogging. Sure its cold and there is always some poor man freezing his bollocks off trying his luck to get in some woman's knickers. But darkness falls early, Vanillas' stay indoors and more of us doggers come out to play!
I'm not entirely sure why this is, and i wouldn't want to guess. All i do know is, myself and some other regular doggers, look forward to winter.
These past two nights i have gone out in the cold to enjoy myself in the sport of dogging. What i have noticed this year is that more people are reluntant to get out their cars and make that first social 'hello', and i have come to start wondering why.
It could be quite simply be that i'm now known and no longer a novelty to Derby doggers, but at the same time i havent seen the local doggers converse amoung themselves either. Has they been some serious police activity that has shaken everyone up. Or have we all decided that dogging is where we simply park up in a carpark and watch the other cars enter and leave?? If anyone has any news then feel free to post and let me know.
Anyways other then that, i wanted to make a quick post to say that i will be on the main Derby circuit over the next few weeks taking semi-erotic pictures of myself and a few others for profiles and private collections. I will point out that if you do spot me getting snappy happy then feel free to come and chat and at the same time be reassured that no one or their car will be in any pictures without permission. I'm a lady of my word.
Also, I will be out dogging over the winter too so if any cpls, single fems and maybe the odd single male would like to meet in a carpark for a polite chat and see where things go, you can either contact via this forum thread or my mail box.
These past two nights i have gone out in the cold to enjoy myself in the sport of dogging. What i have noticed this year is that more people are reluntant to get out their cars and make that first social 'hello', and i have come to start wondering why.
Good point this and yes we have noticed the dogging population seem to be reluctant to venture over to say hi.
We were recently in a car park quiet openly indulging in an activity that waranted a watcher, when a single guy drove past us and had a look. We looked back quiet openly and continued, he proceded to drive to the far end of the car park and sit there.
He may have been looking for something else that we could not supply, but it was strange all the same.
I wished there were a lot more that thought like you chaotic spend many a hour sitting in the dark and cold with only the deer to talk to. Good on ya :P :P :P
""It could be quite simply be that i'm now known and no longer a novelty to Derby doggers""
i am so so smiling chaotic!!!!!
remember the very first week you were out. four young gorgeous women huddled in a car, nervously wanting to know about the dogging scene, shy and timid but eager to find out.
and so me and 'you know who' took you all somewhere quiet, made informative conversation...and 'ykw' eventually asked the question "would you like to see our c**ks
...to which your replies in unison were. . "we are all gay"
one of my all time classic memories...it still makes me smile
yes...winter is the best time
I am still not convinced on the whole 'walk up and introduce yourself bit'. I miss the good ole days of silence and signals,and find that when conversation starts it generally stays as just conversation.
Not to sure about this get out & say hi!!!
Its all a little daunting strolling across a dark carpark to say hallo to another cpl & then what happens if your ignored as they dont want to speak to anyone?
Also just the act of you going across to say hallo to someone seems to act as a signal to crowd a car when all your doing is chatting.
Think the best way is for couples to give a signal. Problem is some couples are there for fun but perhaps only with one or two guys and there might be more than that there,that is where there can be a problem.
Signals aren't trusted so much nowadays, too many chavs use them to lure fellas over..It got so bad in our local that a headlight flash usually meant trouble within as none of the couples we knew on the circuit ever used them lol ..As you say, its also a way of creating a stampede should the place be very busy..
We've used the ole photo ploy to good effect..Taking pics on the blind side of the car will usually get the guys curiosity aroused to the point they can't help but get out for a gander :lol: (I uploaded a pic earlier to illustrate the scenario but imageshack has changed, and clicking on the thumbnail created a link to the entire contents of my pervy pic files, not somewhere the faint hearted should be :twisted: )
Aside from that, we always prefer to be "caught in the act" and a signalled invite often implies a formal agreement :lol: We don't go much for the social pre amble either for the reasons stated by Mattius..Nervy doggers can be frustratingly slow off the mark sometimes but we find thats a good thing, for often the quality is SO much better wink That quality tends to be more evident in the Winter months and the "also have warm indoor location if too cold for dogging" posts are now arriving thick and fast..The annual carpark clearance is well underway :wink: bring it on!
quote" am still not convinced on the whole 'walk up and introduce yourself bit'. I miss the good ole days of silence and signals,and find that when conversation starts it generally stays as just conversation."
It does with us, she doesn't want chatting up - just action thanks
I have been "dogging" for 30 yrs in the early days it was called Blimping, flatting and various other names. The problem is that there are too many bloke (me being one of them) who enjoy the sport of dogging and when couples do turn up every guy wants a piece of the action (me included). This can be very intimidating to the couple and inveriably they drive off with a convoy in tow. Another problem can be local doggers who seem to think they have a god given right to area and will quickly discourage any newcommers!
The skill is to know when to approach the couple and also not to assume every couple are there for the dogging scene. Even after 30 years I still get it wrong but please all you game couples please accept the fact that different people expect doggers to act in different ways. Us so called "experienced" doggers do like to chat but not for hours on end as I have witnessed many times. At the end of the day both the "givers" and the "receiver" should get enjoyment from the whole (or should it be hole) affair resulting in horny fun! wink Feel free to contact me, always open to invites. biggrin
Good dogging
Stefano
Well i think my post has done some good to Derby, people did get out of their cars and people did talk as well as other things i'm sure.
My orginal plan was to go to Blidworth's Dogging locations last night, but i have never seen their dogging circuit so dead! I think they were three very popular carparks with no one in them. When i did finally meet a dogger, i have to admit he was a bit lush, but he was so nervous the poor bloke walked back to his car after 2 seconds of conversation. Perhaps me and my dogging buddy were not to his liking. Anyways after farting around this dead area with the tumble weed, i decided it was best to go home to the area i love most, other then Cannock. lol
So back in Derbyshire i was, and how happy and amused i was to see it buzzing on the main circuit. Apart from the kids driving about, who didn't stay long as i assume they felt slightly daughted to see so many doggers, it turned to be a fab night.
People did get out their cars, used signals, made polite conversation whilst setting off a very relaxed and sexy scene.
I understand some of you don't like the conversation bits and believe it doesn't lead anywhere, but i truely believe it's the type of conversation you have. I'm not into dirty chat, and i'm not into how much the car cost or how cold it is, i'm more interested in giggling and having fun.
anyways thats another long post, Big hands up for everyone who went out in Derbyshire last night.
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Not me :cry: :cry:

The fact that your a staffordshire dogger doesnt help there!
Chaotic it would be lovely to chance upon you and come over for a chat, novelty or not biggrin
One thing I'm never sure about is what sort of time folks turn up to play now it's dark early ..... do I have to wait until the early hours or can I still be home in time for tea? smile
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My orginal plan was to go to Blidworth's Dogging locations last night, but i have never seen their dogging circuit so dead! I think they were three very popular carparks with no one in them.

Sorry you found Blidworth so dead Chaotic_Spirit it might just be it was mid-week or that people are finding new areas as the signs were put up on the trees a few weeks ago that Blidworth was going to be gated possibly in december :cry:
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My orginal plan was to go to Blidworth's Dogging locations last night, but i have never seen their dogging circuit so dead! I think they were three very popular carparks with no one in them.

Sorry you found Blidworth so dead Chaotic_Spirit it might just be it was mid-week or that people are finding new areas as the signs were put up on the trees a few weeks ago that Blidworth was going to be gated possibly in december :cry:
Flipping Heck sword- stileto, does that mean we all going to get a key then for christmas? pmsl xxxxxxx
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Chaotic it would be lovely to chance upon you and come over for a chat, novelty or not biggrin
One thing I'm never sure about is what sort of time folks turn up to play now it's dark early ..... do I have to wait until the early hours or can I still be home in time for tea? smile

Dogging can happen at any time, but is more popular during the cover of darkness. You can fit dogging into your schedule, they is no need to wait for the dead hours of 2am, i know i'm not likely to!
Quote by sword-stileto

My orginal plan was to go to Blidworth's Dogging locations last night, but i have never seen their dogging circuit so dead! I think they were three very popular carparks with no one in them.

Sorry you found Blidworth so dead Chaotic_Spirit it might just be it was mid-week or that people are finding new areas as the signs were put up on the trees a few weeks ago that Blidworth was going to be gated possibly in december :cry:
Well thats hardly fair! I hate it when the council ruins out fun sad I will make another trip up to blidworth hopefully before december and see if i can be advised of other locations before blidworth is closed to us all :cry:
Fingers crossed the council employ a dogger to lock the carparks, lol
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but please all you game couples please accept the fact that different people expect doggers to act in different ways. Us so called "experienced" doggers do like to chat but not for hours on end as I have witnessed many times.
Stefano

Of course, that is very true..It is very confusing for doggers and they must often feel they cannot do right for doing wrong lol
Regarding the "to chat or not to chat" issue, we always suggest the fellas walk PAST a car..If the couple want chat, they'll probably open the window to instigate it..If (like us) they are a show couple then they might not have any desire to talk, in which case, they might just get on with it :twisted: ..On the other hand, they may just want to sit around for a while (couples sometimes just enjoy the vibe) in which case, the dogger/s can choose wether to stake them out from a distance or search elsewhere..The options are quite simple really..
We do understand the anxiety felt by newbie (or not so newbie) doggers and we personally try to make life a little easier for them, for example, by parking in such a way that walking past our vehicle doesn't neccessatate a jungle trek into a dark gloomy corner etc :lol: We don't use signals as such, but we have our ways wink
We aren't knocking the chat..Many enjoy that aspect, but in our experience at least, it can all get too social and before you know it, visiting a carpark is like walking into a house party :lol: We have many carpark buddies, but getting down and dirty in front of them doesn't feel "right" :lol: But thats just us :wink: The point where talking about gearbox ratios turns into a sexual display of lust isn't a transition we do well :lol: Our preferred dogger would be more the "peeping tom" kinda perve..Mattius stands out to us as being our sorta fella :P
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but please all you game couples please accept the fact that different people expect doggers to act in different ways. Us so called "experienced" doggers do like to chat but not for hours on end as I have witnessed many times.
Stefano

Of course, that is very true..It is very confusing for doggers and they must often feel they cannot do right for doing wrong lol
Regarding the "to chat or not to chat" issue, we always suggest the fellas walk PAST a car..If the couple want chat, they'll probably open the window to instigate it..If (like us) they are a show couple then they might not have any desire to talk, in which case, they might just get on with it :twisted: ..On the other hand, they may just want to sit around for a while (couples sometimes just enjoy the vibe) in which case, the dogger/s can choose wether to stake them out from a distance or search elsewhere..The options are quite simple really..
We do understand the anxiety felt by newbie (or not so newbie) doggers and we personally try to make life a little easier for them, for example, by parking in such a way that walking past our vehicle doesn't neccessatate a jungle trek into a dark gloomy corner etc :lol: We don't use signals as such, but we have our ways wink
We aren't knocking the chat..Many enjoy that aspect, but in our experience at least, it can all get too social and before you know it, visiting a carpark is like walking into a house party :lol: We have many carpark buddies, but getting down and dirty in front of them doesn't feel "right" :lol: But thats just us :wink: The point where talking about gearbox ratios turns into a sexual display of lust isn't a transition we do well :lol: Our preferred dogger would be more the "peeping tom" kinda perve..Mattius stands out to us as being our sorta fella :P
God Help You :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Only messing, he's a lovely guy really!
Just out of passing curosity, and an extra added urge to be out myself. Is anyone going to be out in the derbyshire area tonight???
Another call out to see if anyone will be out tonight???
hiya chaotic...
ur probably out having fun now....just seen ur message..strongly suspect i'm 2 late..story of my bleedin like biggrin .but am/was willing to have some outdoor fun 2nite...
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hiya chaotic...
ur probably out having fun now....just seen ur message..strongly suspect i'm 2 late..story of my bleedin like biggrin .but am/was willing to have some outdoor fun 2nite...

lol Typical! Don't worry, it's usually me that notices things last minute too.
nope, we always see dogging stuff waaaay too late lol
Only been a few times and would love to arrange to meet some guys an gals we've met before but has never worked out for us yet - (had fun anyway lol
I've never had any luck at all! Think I must be going to places that have long since been abandoned. sad
If you know of any good places and meeting someone new, do reply or PM...
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I've never had any luck at all! Think I must be going to places that have long since been abandoned. sad
If you know of any good places and meeting someone new, do reply or PM...

You have to be patience, and never expect anything from anyone. Sometimes nothing can happen on the Dogging scene for some nights, then they comes the night everyone is waiting for and a lot of impatience people miss this as they expect things to happen as soon as they turn up in a carpark.
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I've never had any luck at all! Think I must be going to places that have long since been abandoned. sad
If you know of any good places and meeting someone new, do reply or PM...

You have to be patience, and never expect anything from anyone. Sometimes nothing can happen on the Dogging scene for some nights, then they comes the night everyone is waiting for and a lot of impatience people miss this as they expect things to happen as soon as they turn up in a carpark.
yeah.i like to take my time and walk the dog first..... :twisted:
Thanks, DeeCee and Chaotic_Spirit.
Patience and really low expectations, eh? Think I can manage that (sounds a bit like my last relationship).
;-)
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
I've never had any luck at all! Think I must be going to places that have long since been abandoned. sad
If you know of any good places and meeting someone new, do reply or PM...

You have to be patience, and never expect anything from anyone. Sometimes nothing can happen on the Dogging scene for some nights, then they comes the night everyone is waiting for and a lot of impatience people miss this as they expect things to happen as soon as they turn up in a carpark.
We like the watching the car park chargers the ones that charge from car park to car park & miss it all because they dont have the patience to sit & wait lol , many a long seemingly fruitless night has resulted in a eventful ending redface .
how far north in derbyshire do you come would love to come across you