ive been to 4 well known sites in herts and essex on a friday night and nothing?
you would do you dont live near herts or essex
Of course dogging exists.
If you're a woman, you can always find dogging.
If you're a single male, then you're stuck with the reality that there are loads more single males than couples or single women. The ratio of single males to couples is much worse than 100:1.
If you drive from car park, to car park, then it's even worse because the one you just left will have couples coming into it while the one/s you are going to will have none ! ! ! !
It gets worse, I stumbled onto a show at (morning).....the action is taking place at the more remote sites and later....because there are so many wasters driving about.
AND it's getting worse.
At one time dogging was guys (doggers) just watching couples, with a rare invite to join.
Now the guys (wasters) expect to join in as a right, not a priviledge. With some suggesting that it's the womans duty to let them.
Dogging, now, is married guys going to car parks in the hope of getting the shag off someone elses wife that their own won't allow them to have.
With all the young males, fuelled by drink, coming into the game, it's only a matter of time before some of them go too far and the priviledge of joining in becomes one of no choice for the woman. , in fact.
I think it's about time I got out of it, with many sites now featuring mutiple cars with multiple occupants (all young and male) the no-choice option is coming nearer and nearer for someone.
The press reaction to that event will end this game overnight.
no its all 1 big made up lie
depends what you mean by dogging. if its being blinded by headlights, then hounding any cpl who turn up, and then trying to follow them home when they get pissed off after 10 mins counts then yes, it happens everytime we go out. as for the groups of young guys in cars, i'm not surprised , there is about 10 dogging adverts in every copy of the sport newspaper, telling you how hundreds of horny women want no strings sex with anyone and anyone...........
If dogging as all a big made up lie, then what is it that I do? :shock:
Yes. Very.
But the point is being missed.
If you want a social life, go to a pub.
The ones who linger for a word after are the single guys, mainly. The married ones slink away with a guilty shuffle.
Now the laybys and parks are full of married couples trying to do dogging with other married couples.
Try the clubs guys, they're full of married couples. I'm fed up with walking past a car witrh a couple in and having the window wound down (or not in many cases) and being told to "FUCK OFF we only want another couple"
You want another couple, go to a club. Not enough bottle for a club ?
Go home.
You can try to justify your actions all you like, just like you try to cast guilt upon others (single guys)
You'll find (eventually) that this life needs tolerance of others. Lots of it. Its sod all use saying "I'm jack-the-lad and I've got an 8 incher...but I can't get a stiffie with all the others about, so piss off you lot"
You'll notice, if you look, that there's always somebody watching.
Which is what original dogging was, and still is: watching.
Another thing you'll find: The gays know what's going on in the area, so if you can't stand them, you'll not be party to the latest layby gossip.
That seems to make absolute sense to me Jomu, maybe I misunderstood the thrust of your first post.
my faith was restored last night, great night with two couples watched one and played with other,so its not a myth, just seems that way when your sitting in a car park at 2 in the morning