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Does dogging really exist

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ive been to 4 well known sites in herts and essex on a friday night and nothing?
damn, ive been found out
no mate, you caught me, it doesnt exist - its all just a dream, a very sad dream.......................................................... rolleyes
What u going on about?
you asked if it existed
and i said no, it doesnt
(well, not until the next meet up) lol
you still dreaming mate.
doggin is good fun if u find the fun smile
i do :)
you would do you dont live near herts or essex
Of course dogging exists.
If you're a woman, you can always find dogging.
If you're a single male, then you're stuck with the reality that there are loads more single males than couples or single women. The ratio of single males to couples is much worse than 100:1.
If you drive from car park, to car park, then it's even worse because the one you just left will have couples coming into it while the one/s you are going to will have none ! ! ! !
It gets worse, I stumbled onto a show at (morning).....the action is taking place at the more remote sites and later....because there are so many wasters driving about.
AND it's getting worse.
At one time dogging was guys (doggers) just watching couples, with a rare invite to join.
Now the guys (wasters) expect to join in as a right, not a priviledge. With some suggesting that it's the womans duty to let them.
Dogging, now, is married guys going to car parks in the hope of getting the shag off someone elses wife that their own won't allow them to have.
With all the young males, fuelled by drink, coming into the game, it's only a matter of time before some of them go too far and the priviledge of joining in becomes one of no choice for the woman. , in fact.
I think it's about time I got out of it, with many sites now featuring mutiple cars with multiple occupants (all young and male) the no-choice option is coming nearer and nearer for someone.
The press reaction to that event will end this game overnight.
no its all 1 big made up lie
depends what you mean by dogging. if its being blinded by headlights, then hounding any cpl who turn up, and then trying to follow them home when they get pissed off after 10 mins counts then yes, it happens everytime we go out. as for the groups of young guys in cars, i'm not surprised , there is about 10 dogging adverts in every copy of the sport newspaper, telling you how hundreds of horny women want no strings sex with anyone and anyone...........
If dogging as all a big made up lie, then what is it that I do? :shock:
Quote by bluexxx
If dogging as all a big made up lie, then what is it that I do? :shock:

lol i was being sarcastic blue wink
fair play smile
Have to agree with jomu, the number of single guys out there looking for some no strings fun is amazing and I feel sorry for all of the couples out there who are having their fun spoiled by all these arrogant twits (strongest word I could think of, didn't know the forums policy on swearing lol). However, thanks to forums such as this those who still want to get enjoyment from this activity can and can arrange it much more precisely, and for that I say thankyou! biggrin
Sod politeness...... twits is one word to describe some of the fucking arrogant twats out there, but I prefer to call them something a little stronger, and to their face, preferably. It's been said loads and loads of time before, but the way to stop these sad little shits ruining the fun is to tell them to fuck off in no uncertain terms mad :x :x .
SO, if you recognise yourself in the above description, do us all a favour and stay away from dogging locations, take up dominoes or something to fill your nights. I hear bingo is quite exciting also confused
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Dogging, now, is married guys going to car parks in the hope of getting the shag off someone elses wife that their own won't allow them to have.

OK OK I guess that's me, although I think it's highly unlikely I would be asked, sure and certain that I'd not press my case, and happy only to find somewhere where "it" happens, which I haven't so far.
I think it's a given that single males, which for the purpose of this reply I'll include all who arrive alone, are looking to find something missing in their own lives. Personally I would have thought the married ones were a more reliable group all in all. When I was single I had a long list of available company and never remember being alone except by choice. I had two in a bed, three in a bed, and on one legendary occasion five in a bed, (all ladies), I've had sisters (twice) and twins (once), of course this was all more than 25 years ago, and at the point where I met my wife to be I was more-or-less just looking for something different every time. I had not planned the difference would be love, but then who does? I have (so far) shown fidelity in my marriage, (though a mental adulterer I have been most days), but I am finding celebacy "difficult". Single males too removed from society to find their own would not seem to be a good choice for a dogging couple, unless they are, as I was, seeking something more exciting than just another girl saying "yes".
In my case I'm looking for a frisson of excitement, enough to think about afterwards, anything more would be an unexpected delight. I find porn a bore, too staged and lacking passion, I'd like to see a little raw lust in action and anyway, getting your kit out in the open air is always liberating.
Yes. Very.
But the point is being missed.
If you want a social life, go to a pub.
The ones who linger for a word after are the single guys, mainly. The married ones slink away with a guilty shuffle.
Now the laybys and parks are full of married couples trying to do dogging with other married couples.
Try the clubs guys, they're full of married couples. I'm fed up with walking past a car witrh a couple in and having the window wound down (or not in many cases) and being told to "FUCK OFF we only want another couple"
You want another couple, go to a club. Not enough bottle for a club ?
Go home.
You can try to justify your actions all you like, just like you try to cast guilt upon others (single guys)
You'll find (eventually) that this life needs tolerance of others. Lots of it. Its sod all use saying "I'm jack-the-lad and I've got an 8 incher...but I can't get a stiffie with all the others about, so piss off you lot"
You'll notice, if you look, that there's always somebody watching.
Which is what original dogging was, and still is: watching.
Another thing you'll find: The gays know what's going on in the area, so if you can't stand them, you'll not be party to the latest layby gossip.
That seems to make absolute sense to me Jomu, maybe I misunderstood the thrust of your first post.
my faith was restored last night, great night with two couples watched one and played with other,so its not a myth, just seems that way when your sitting in a car park at 2 in the morning